The woman you desire puts you in the friend zone.
What should you do? There’s a surprise answer in the end of the video. Stay tuned!
Okay, I get it! You think you found the woman of your dreams but she doesn’t seem so interested
in you! You are frustrated and really want to see what you can do to change her mind.
The short answer is you have deeper issues within
yourself if this keeps happening to you on more than one occasion!
Below are the 3 opportunity areas that you can work on in the meantime
to reduce your chance of being put in the friend zone before you approach the next woman!
#1 Lack of Masculinity
If a woman sees you as someone to be placed in a friend zone, this means perhaps you can improve
on being more masculine in your demeanor. You need to be more decisive and confident
to emanate your masculine energy if you want her to see you as someone who’s manly and strong.
You need to know in order to be a masculine man, you need to naturally lead the woman during dates.
If you are being too nice or indecisive on where to go or what to do,
your approach is lacking assertion and confidence.
Thus, practice approaching women in the most confident way.
Be decisive and have a basic plan before you ask her out.
Otherwise, she would feel you either don’t care or you're unsure about her. If she
feels you are indecisive in pursuing her, she would automatically decide to be unsure about you!
Everything I am taking about has to do with the vibrations and energy you emanate.
Women can feel your lack of masculinity, even with your tone of voice in asking her
out. If they sense your doubt or uncertainty, they would lose interest in dating you.
Remember, every time you approach a woman, you need to make her FEEL
you want her and ONLY her and that’s showing a high level of masculinity!
In addition, displaying strong eye contact can also help build your masculinity. Be aware
of your own insecurities and shyness and combat them before approaching women.
#2 Lack of Charisma
How do you define someone who is charismatic?
Being charismatic is the ability to magnetize or influence others with your personal charm.
Being charismatic involves communicating dynamically, with passion and enthusiasm,
while displaying positive body language. It also involves having optimism,
and open-mindedness with high self-confidence, while building the respect and trust from others.
You must be knowledgeable to openly express your views and opinions in front of women
in order to charm them. Honestly, women don’t need you to be knowledgeable in what they already know.
Women want you to be knowledgeable in the things that you feel passionate and enthusiastic about.
Thus, please don’t mistaken being charismatic in conversations with arguing or debating her
on subjects you have different opinions on. Generally, the more knowledgeable you are in life,
the more open-minded and inclusive you should be in accepting diverse opinions.
#3 Lack of Sexual Chemistry
When a woman puts you in the friend zone, it also means that she doesn’t
see you as a man who embodies the sex appeal of what she defines as a masculine sexy man!
Guys- this could just be a matter of her personal preference that you’re not her type physically. I
don’t want you to take it personally, since it is something you can’t control or force.
Let me give you an example. If a woman defines a sexy and attractive man as someone who is at least
6 inches taller than her, and you are only two inches taller,
you don’t fit her definition of an attractive sexy man.
You can very well be an attractive man in general, but not to her preference. Remember,
this is purely subjective and defined by each woman, so don’t take it personally.
I want you to know that the reasons could be highly “subjective” and based on her own
definitions and preferences of what she perceives as being sexy and attractive.
This is not an indication of your own lack of physical appeal.
Having said that, I can still provide some guidelines of what
women generally perceive as being sexy, to help ignite her sexual desires toward you
and to reduce your chance of being placed in the friend zone.
The general rule is to be confident in your own skin when you’re in front of her.
It’s important to practice self love/care on a regular basis. This also means that
you give her a sense that you know your own worth because of the confidence you naturally exude.
One thing I must mention though, is the importance of having a great personal scent (i.e.
cologne or signature fragrance) that represents you on a consistent basis.
Having a signature scent
that accentuates your personal style triggers emotions of romance and love in a woman.
Thus, always wear a nice clean-scented cologne as part of your daily routine.
I hope you have enjoyed this video. Keep in mind that when a woman puts you in the friend zone,
there are things you can improve-on a personal level; but there are elements beyond your control
that are part of her own preferences in what she finds to be physically attractive.
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