sometimes when it comes to love you can't leave it all to chance sure a great girl could come
along and could be attracted to you that would be great if you have been waiting around for this to
happen for a while though you are probably sick of waiting you want it to happen now because you are
ready to share your life with someone or maybe you are just sick and tired of waiting for a
girl to casually date either way the first step is attracting a girl and getting her attention there
is a way that you can do this without having to just sit and wait you can try to psychologically
attract someone this is not a manipulation technique don't worry our brains are wired
to be attracted to certain things and this is just tapping into those natural things and monopolizing
on them so that you can have more with the ladies and in today's video i'm going to be telling you
about how you can psychologically attract someone it's going to be very interesting it might sound
complicated but actually once we get into it you will realize how simple it really is and how
many of these you have already experienced before let's get going like and subscribe
the first thing to do is to try and wear red clothing did you know that red is associated
with sexual energy and action when we see red we think attraction there has
been many psychological studies on this and in every study people were more interested in
others that were wearing the colour red so if you would like to start attracting more
ladies then why not start with wearing more red you could do it subtly by wearing bright
red socks or you could be more bold and wear a bright red jumper try it see what
happens who knew attracting a lady could be so easy say her name as quoted by destiny's child
when you use someone's name over and over again it helps to create attraction when we use someone's
name it subconsciously lets them know that you care about them it actually creates a personal
attraction between you and them now you could slip it into a conversation by saying something like
mary how was your week at work or i think you made the right choice there claire once you start
getting into the habit of doing this you might find that a lot of girls start showing interest
in you it's something very small and easy to do but i promise it gives you maximum huge results
mirror her body language mirroring is also known as copying we often copy other people's behavior
normally without us even realizing it but you can do it consciously too to get some good effects
you can remind yourself to do it when you are in the moment and this can help you psychologically
attract someone now when i say copying i don't mean being a parrot and repeating everything they
say i mean merely using similar language to them and picking up on words that they use regularly
i would also suggest doing things like picking up your glass to take a drink when they do this makes
the other person feel like you are in sync with them and that you are already very connected to
each other play a little hard to get obviously you don't want to play so hard to get that she
thinks you don't actually like her or that you're not interested there is a careful balance that
needs to be struck playing hard to get makes the other person think i need to work harder
everyone wants to win and get what they want and that includes the person they want sometimes if
things come too easy they don't seem like they have much value for example if you have a lot of
money and can afford to buy anything then buying a new laptop isn't going to mean that much if you
have to save up for the laptop though and then you buy it you will feel that huge sense of pride and
satisfaction and you are more likely to treat that laptop really well because you understand
the work that went into getting it now the exact same principle goes for dating if you have to work
a little harder you are more likely to really really appreciate that person you can play hard to
get by not always being available when she wants to see you and why not text him back right away
you should still always be polite and nice to her but playing hard to get at least at the beginning
can make her even more attracted to you be funny psychological research has shown that the
funnier that you are the more likely you are to be remembered so the funnier that you can be around a
lady the more likely she is to be attracted to you and remember you humor helps to spread positivity
and makes other people comfortable in your presence which is important if you are trying to
attract someone when you tell a funny story and it has a vulnerable aspect that is even better
and really increases attraction hang out in a group sometimes this is called the cheerleader
effect and has been studied in many research circles apparently we are found to be more
attractive when other people observe us hanging out with other people when we hang out with others
our level of attractiveness is slightly skewed and we are thought of as being a lot more attractive
so when you hang out with her and your friends you become more attractive in her eyes
once barney in how i met your mother explained it as a collection of people in a bar are attractive
but if you met them alone they would not be attractive so basically when you are with other
people girls think that you are hotter be clumsy did you know that sometimes being clumsy can make
you more attractive you have probably seen it in movies and read about it in books when a lady
accidentally drops her pen a guy swoops in picks it up and then they live happily ever after or
when a guy slips up and a girl catches his papers as they go flying they somehow fall in love
now being clumsy can make you appear vulnerable in other people's eyes which makes you seem cute in
a lady's eyes this psychological effect is called the identifiable victim effect which is when other
people seek out victims and want to help them but also find them attractive it might sound a
little bit strange right but women specifically do this as they have those maternal instincts
so the next time you drop your napkin on a date just think hmm this is going to make me
more attractive try to radiate your confidence the more confident you are the more attractive you are
and girls find guys who radiate confidence a lot more attractive than those who are nervous or lack
self-assurance when you can own a room girls start to notice if you can always be as confident as
possible when you are around the ladies you will probably start finding that you have a lot more
expressing interest in you do something together that boosts the adrenaline this one is also backed
by science which has shown that when you take someone on an adrenaline-based date for example
roller coaster rides or rock climbing you are more likely to trick that person into really enjoying
your company now adrenaline is a feeling that these activities release and it's a natural high
so when you invite someone to zip down a zipline with you you are actually helping to release that
natural high feeling which makes them feel as though they love spending time with you
and this feeling sticks around after the feeling disappears because it becomes a memory which means
if you are trying to attract a lady start with an adrenaline boosting activity but obviously
don't take this too far drink coffee together numerous studies have shown that hot liquids make
us view the people around us in a more positive light when we drink coffee with someone we often
think of the other person as being more honest a lot more kinder and funnier than we would if
we were enjoying a cold drink with them so if you want to attract someone take them out for coffee
compliment her girls love compliments when a man that they have not thought about in
a romantic way gives them a compliment well it suddenly makes them think differently about them
it's kind of like a switch gets flicked in their heads and they go from thinking of him
as a friend as someone they have just met in a bar to a potential love interest giving a woman
a compliment and paying her some attention can really go a long way there you go we've reached
the end of the video i really hope this video helped leave your comments down below if you
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