Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.It’s me, Beardy.
We also have Kay here, and of course, good ‘ol Larry.
Hey Kay, have you heard of the saying "Nice guys finish last?"
Ah yes, Beardy.
I've heard that quote so many times.
In fact, I was watching our previous video on how to stop being the nice guy and thought
of some more ideas to add.
And you know, it also reminded me of you!
Really?
Why?
Well, I know that you're a nice guy, but not THE nice guy…
You're the type of guy that girls wouldn't turn away from.
You’re a good dude.
Oh wow.
I haven't really thought about that, but thanks, Kay!
Being a nice guy is good and all… but it can also get you stuck in the friend zone.
And that's exactly what we'll be talking about today-- how to be the alpha male and get the
girl you like... by giving you 7 tips on how to stop being
a nice guy with girls.
Plus, at the end of this video, we're gonna share with you the number 1 thing you should
not do because this is why some nice guys finish last.
Are you ready?
'Cause we sure are.
Don't Be the Nice Guy - 7 Alpha Male Strategies to Be an Alpha
#7.
Oh No No Hey Beardy, would you please get me a glass
of water?
Umm…
Kay, you do realize that the pitcher is right beside you, right?
Uh, yes..
But I still wanna ask you.
Hmmm…
How about no?
I think you should get that glass of water by yourself.
Alright, I’ll pour myself a glass now..
Look guys, I truly appreciate what Beardy did here.
He knows exactly how to stop being the nice guy.
The keyword here is "no."
That's right.
You don't always have to give in to what she wants from you.
Again, don’t be the nice guy.
An alpha male knows when to be brutally honest.
You should know when to say no and when to be helpful.
Remember, you don't need to be a people pleaser.
Instead, start pleasing no one but yourself.
And hey, the best way to please yourself is to learn how to stop being the nice guy.
We've got 11 other huge mistakes that nice guys make in another video.
Check it out.
#6.
Go, Go, Go One of the things that can help make you no
more Mister Nice Guy is to be someone who faces his fears.
When you always do the things that scare you and challenge yourself regularly, you start
to become stronger.
You also get to become more sure of yourself since you already know what your capabilities
are.
Hey Beardy, didn't you tell me you always wanted to try surfing?
Yes, Kay!
I still do!
Well, I've got a friend who’s an instructor.
She might be able to hook you up with a lesson.
Are you still interested?
Oh wow!
Really?
You betcha!
Sign me up!
Awesome!
And you know what, Beardy, what you did is a classic tip on how to become the alpha male.
Really?
How did I do that?
Well, you just challenged your mindset.
I know that you're scared of the ocean but you still wanted to take this opportunity
to do something you've always been afraid to do.
Oh!
Well yeah…
I figured it was about time to face my fears.
After all, it’s the only way I’m going to grow.
By challenging myself and stepping out of my comfort zone.
#5.
No to Yes Have you ever had an experience where you
wanted to say something but hesitated because you feared that another person's opinion about
you will change?
Let me tell you right now that that's not healthy for you OR for the other person.
When you want to know some tricks to get girls to chase you, remember: they don't chase the
nice guy.
This is actually why many believe in the quote "nice guys finish last."
You will never gain respect from others when you always say yes to just about everything
they ask you to do.
Instead, they'll see you as a pushover and as a "Yes man."
"Yes man?"
It's a guy who says yes to just about everything.
Really?
Can I have $50?
No!
Besides, what are you gonna do with the money?
Well, I was planning to bring Larry to the movies but I don't have enough money.
Well, sorry, but no.
See, If you want to be respected and chased after by girls, you have to know how to speak
your mind.
Learn how and when to say no.
It can really be a huge help to you!
You know what else would be a big help?
THis video we have about tricks to get girls to chase you.
Check it out, almost 3 million people already did.
#4.
Sorry Story Do you know someone who constantly apologizes
when they make a mistake?
Hang on, before anything, I want to say that there's nothing wrong with apologizing.
But you need to do it only when you ACTUALLY screw up.
Don't be a nice guy, especially if there's really nothing to apologize for.
Keep your apologies to yourself unless, of course, you really upset someone or you were
in the wrong.
So how do you turn from nice guy to alpha male?
Learn to recognize when you’re really at fault and when you’re not.
Remember this: If someone just accuses you of doing something wrong when you really think
you didn’t, it's not necessary to apologize.
Man up and defend yourself when you did nothing wrong.
Feeling like you’re ready to say, “no more mister nice guy” and make some changes?
Well slow down!
We've still got three more tips on how you can transition from nice guy to alpha male,
so stay where you are, guys!
Plus, at the end, we'll be sharing an important tip on what you can do instead of being the
nice guy.
Let's get back to it.
#3.
Equal Level One of the secrets on how to attract 99.9%
of girls is this: treat everyone the same way.
What I mean is that you shouldn’t give special treatment to anyone.
See, when you’re a nice guy, you end up trying to please everybody, especially the
women.
As a result, you always favor women.
Well, you can tell them that you’re no more mister nice guy by treating every gender the
same way.
Talk to women the same way as you would to a man.
And by that, I mean don’t change your demeanor depending on the gender of the person you’re
talking to.
By making this change, people will stop seeing you as a nice guy, and instead see you as
a genuinely decent person.
And decent guys know how to attract 99.9% of women.
Turns out we have a video about this that’s got nearly 300,000 views already.
Be sure to check this out.
#2.
Fake Take Hey Kay, do you dig motivational speeches?
Or are you a fan of speakers?
Hmm…
I think I have a few that I can count on my finger.
That's good!
Let me ask you this.
Out of that number, how many do you think are truly experts in what they are talking
about?
Geesh I never really thought about that.
I guess, all of them?
That may be true… but let me tell you this: there are motivational speakers who battle
with impostor syndrome.
But because of their success, we tend to see them as someone who speaks and practices gospel
truth.
And that’s because they’ve mastered all the best alpha male body language tricks.
But the truth is, many of these folks tend to be insecure with their capabilities.
This is where the quote "fake it till you make it" applies.
Even if you are insecure, speak with confidence.
Make it look like you know exactly what you’re doing.
While you speak, remember to maintain a consistent pitch and don't trail off your sentences with
an upward intonation.
When you follow this basic rule, you’ll get better at having a normal conversation
and end up actually ENJOYING talking to people.
Because you’ll be so good at it.
Speaking of not being a nice guy anymore, we have a video on body language tricks of
an alpha male that can be of great help to you.
It has already garnered over 3,000,000 views.
Check it out #1.
Intense Defense Being a nice guy is not actually a bad thing.
It certainly doesn’t mean you are soft, boring, or weak.
It just means that you are kind, pleasant to be around with, and honest.
But sometimes a little bit too much.
If someone calls you a nice guy, don’t get all defensive and angry.
Because if you do, well…
You’re proving their point.
So the next time someone brands you as the nice guy, take note, but don’t take it personally.
After all, being a nice guy isn’t the worst that can happen to you.
And there’s always room to change.
So now that we're done with the strategies on how to be an alpha male, let's talk about
what you should not do next: never be a jerk.
While women dislike men that they can walk over, they don't like jerks who treat them
like dirt.
Always remember to be fair and to respect other people.
Disrespecting other people or their feelings won't make you any more appealing to women.
And they’re certainly not going to like you more because of it.
So be confident and firm.
But never be a jerk.
Question Callout Do you have any more tips on how you can stop
being the nice guy and be a step closer to being an alpha?
Let us know in the comment below!
Your Conclusion Hey guys!
We have more tips on how to become an alpha male.
Yes, on top of what you have just watched!
Isn’t that great?
See, in this game of getting the girl, you can never know too many tricks.
You don’t wanna be left out, do you?
So yeah, better check out this video, where we're giving away 10 powerful tricks to help
you all the more.
This video will surely teach you something new today.
Well, that’s what it did to the almost 2.3 million guys who already have watched it.