I know that deep down inside I was flawed I went to church I was a
Christian I classified myself as being a Christian man okay but my relationship
was Christ was not authentic it was more for show if you will I went to church to
show people hey I'm a Christian I'm going to church I bought a Bible at a
Christian bookstore to to to prove to myself that hey I'm a Christian this is
how I grew up living life I have the moral characters that is honorable but
the truth is the truth of the matter is is that I o is only a show Christian
alright I was not a christ-like Christian alright so right off the bat
this video is for the ladies and we're going to talk about if you should date a
guy from church so just to rephrase this whole video
it's not only about dating a guy from church but should you just narrow it
down to dating just a Christian guy so what inspired me to talk about this is
that there's a few ladies I talked to and then they talked about or they'd
already talked about would they justify a guy that they want to date or are
dating just because of the fact that he classifies himself as a Christian and by
doing so is kind of naive alright by dating a guy just because he says he's a
Christian is very naive because being a Christian is a generic term all right or
a generic word that people use to put themselves in a higher moral position
than what they actually are so let me get deeper into this all right there
could be a guy who had 20 ex-girlfriends and he literally sleeps with everyone
home and he broke up with a few Vil just because they didn't satisfy his physical
needs or he's probably a really nice guy but at the same time he's also very
abusive but hey he's a Christian he goes to church it's saddening it's sickening
that people could use the term Christian or loving Jesus yeah it does
it makes it feel like they're better than what they actually are
it gives them camouflage from actually their flaw and character okay so I'm not
okay so I'm not hating against all church guys all right I'm not hating and
saying that all church guys can't be trusted all church guys are sheep in
wolf's clothing are wolves in sheep's clothing but what
I'm saying is that but getting a guy just because he says he's a Christian
shows that you have a very faulty filtering mechanism all right I did go
over this in this video be sure you watch it I talked about well fuck boys
and why fuck boys are basically not the girl's fault it's the girl's fault for
taking a fuck boy in the first place before you even before you start dating
a guy just because he goes to church just because you have fun with him just
because you guys enjoy others company and going to church does not
authenticate a man's true relationship with Jesus Christ okay that's the truth
because I was going to church when I was in high school alright I was going to
church in high school I was a nice guy I probably I don't even know I've had a
girlfriend then what is him but anyways I did have a girlfriend I scored missing
I know that deep down inside I was flawed I went to church I was a
Christian I classified myself as being a Christian man okay but my relationship
was Christ was not authentic it was more for show if you will I went to church to
show people hey I'm a Christian I'm going to church I bought a Bible at a
Christian bookstore to to to prove to myself that hey I'm a Christian this is
how I grew up living life I have the moral characters that is honorable but
the truth is the truth of the matter is is that iowa's only a show Christian
alright I was not a christ-like Christian so I really don't want you
guys to think that I'm against the church and I'm against every single
person it goes to church and calling everyone a liar it's not the case
alright it was a good person back then in high school going to church yes I was
a good person but was I ready to court a woman too
to lead that relationship to unify with her and bring her closer to reach their
highest potential and life and reaching a deeper relationship with Christ was I
equipped to be that guy all right I was a Christian I went to church but
deep down inside I know that I was not that guy so I really just want this
video to be a heads up for you ladies for you ladies you girls and you women
my future daughter who's watching this it's just that anyone can go to church
anyone can call themselves a Christian anyone can throw a Bible verse at you
but it's Christ living through them okay does that person replicate them that
varies over you're trying to open a door but does that person replicate the
values of Jesus Christ is that person love and forgive like Jesus Christ this
is so condemning for me or not condemning but this is so convicting for
me right now um but that's what it is all right so ladies if you're if you're
into a guy and he goes to church with you you like him you guys get along well
you really need to see his character see his character see Christ in him and not
just see what he labels himself as so guys I just want to thank you ladies I
want to thank you for watching this video guys I want to thank you for
watching this video too so fellas if you do if you are convicted with this video
I honestly think that take some time to evaluate your hearts yourself and also
if you're a Christian evaluate how christ-like are you deep down inside and
for you ladies take steps back if you're infatuated with this young man that you
are attracted to really look into his character look into your character are
you even ready to be in a relationship with a christ-like man or in a
relationship with men in general and what is it that you want from this man
and I think that for women to want from a man is to to one's guidance to want
basically a magnifier of your highest self a guy
who can create or not create but help you to create a better stronger passion
at you you know what I mean a man who sees the best in you and wants the best
for you all right very really much equal side
so guys I want to thank you so much for watching this video be sure to like and
share this share this video with your friends all right wherever you are in
life strive to be better if the average and be yourself once again thank you so
much for watching as always god bless you and ever