Hey guys, so.. what do I find attractive in girls?
heh, well I'm glad I asked, because, that's exactly what I'm talking about today.
A lot of people assume that attraction is all about being good looking,
and, you know, while that might help, I've found a lot of good-looking people to be completely
unattractive just because they're a shitty person. And
I've found a lot of people who think of themselves as ugly, really
attractive-so don't just assume that that's all that guys look for, cause it's not true.
So here's 7 things that I find makes a girl attractive.
Number one: Just do you. I know this is like the most over said advice, but honestly, if
you're trying to be someone that you're not, no good can come
of it. If you do attract a guy by pretending to be somebody else,
they're not into you for you, and that's all that matters, so just... don't be fake.
Everyone is insecure and has qualities about themselves that they don't like, and guys
won't care as long as you're real with them about it.. and if they
do care, then they're pieces of shit.
Number two: Girls that are capable of carrying a conversation. My least favorite thing is
being on a date and having to control the whole conversation the
whole night through. It's giving short answers, it's, you know,
not asking me things.. it's like, if I have to do all the work in this conversation then
you're a buzzkill and I don't want to talk to you. I've literally had dates
where I just ask the girl questions until the dates over.
So like, what's your favorite actor?
*sighs* So..what's your favorite movie that they're in?
Number three: Girls who are decisive. The vast majority of my dates I have had to make
all of the decisions.
boy: So.. where do you want to go?
girl: I don't know. boy: There's a Thai place a couple blocks
away.. there's a Greek place. girl: mm, I don't know. This is a tough choice
to make. Mm, I don't know. boy: DO YOU LIKE THAI FOOD?
girl: It's alright I guess...
This is no help. Why do girls do this?
Number four: Girls who don't want everything to be paid for them. Don't get me wrong, I
pay for things all the time. I insist on paying for the first date. It's
2013 and I absolutely am 100% for equal rights for women. And that should
mean that you pay for yourself everyone once and a while. Or buy me a meal, after I buy
you one. Let's take turns or something, I don't know, let's be.. let's
be equal.
Number five: This one's kind of dumb, but I play guitar and sing and I might not do
it on YouTube that much but I really like doing it, and if there's a girl
that I like.. I want to do it to her, so don't look bored, and look like,
even if you don't enjoy it that you're enjoying it so that I don't feel shitty about myself
because I'm self conscious about that kind of thing.
Number six: Girls who smile a lot. Smiling is the hottest thing. I love smiles so much,
I would fu- *cough cough* what?
And, my last thing...
Number seven: Something that I find really attractive is when girls know what they want
in life. I mean, just generally, for guys, I'll respect a dude if he knows,
but it's like- there are so many things you could do in your life. You could be
a doctor, you could be a lawyer, you can be.. like a teacher, or a firefighter, or just
like a druggie and just stay at home and like, do meth. I'm not gonna judge you
based on your lifestyle but it's like, you gotta pick one thing, and just like..
put your life into it. Preferably not the druggie thing. It's really hot.. when people
know what they want in life and just go for it.
But, that's all I've got for this week. If you liked the video, be sure to give it a
thumbs up, that helps me out. Uh, If you want to see more of my videos, there'll
be links at the end of this video, and subscribe to me. I make new videos every
Friday. Leave a comment telling me the traits that you find attractive in people. What do
you look for? What's hot to you? And do you agree with the things I said in
this video? Do you disagree? Let me know.
The last thing I want to talk about is uh, I'm with this guy.
Ryan: ahhhhhhhhh. Okay so we're doing a gathering, Sunday. This
Sunday. At the Eaton's Centre. There's gonna be a facebook event in the description
so you should come, and hang out with us and touch our butts or whatever. I don't know,
just come chill. It's gonna be a very small thing, we don't have a lot of friends. So..
pity us.
And with all that being said, what's my saying Ryan?
Ryan: I'll see you next.. Week?!