Lindsay: Psychologists have a term. It's called representative bias. Basically, what that means is we have a short amount of
time left a hundred milliseconds, to be exact, to make a first impression. Every time someone sees you, they
make a snap judgment on you based on just what they see. So if you're trying to catch that special lady's eye,
you really got to put your best foot forward. A great way to do that, is having a terrific outfit.
Hey everybody, it's Lindsay from The Attractive Man team. I'm a celebrity menswear stylist and that means
I've been able to see firsthand what a terrific outfit can really do for a man's confidence.
I'm here today to talk to you about fifteen different clothing items that you can wear that would instantly
more attractive to women. Women find these pieces irresistible.
So the first topic we're gonna talk about is pocket square. And I know this seems like a weird thing to
immediately assume women are gonna find very attractive but there's a science to it.
We as women, immediately notice every detail about you. And one piece that a pocket square can really do for
you is just making sure that you look extra put together so the great way to do this is to have a fun pocket
square. Maybe it's a fun color, maybe it has a cool pattern. All of those are also going to play
into being a conversation starters, which is going to be a great way to open up to your special
lady and grab her attention right off the bat. It's gonna tell her something about you. And, it also
make sure it's kind like a boss which what ladies cannot resist at. Our next item on the list is neckties. Now, I
know you're probably thinking "I already have a tie," "I know how to wear a tie," "My dad taught me
to tie a tie," "I wear a clip-on, It's fine." Well men, there are trends in ties. Whether you know it
or not, there is. One of the most trendy ties right now is the thin skinny tie. It looks great and it just helps add that
extra little... to an outfit. If you want to do a wider tie, also, no problem with that either but just make sure that
goes with your outfit. If there's a lot going on with your jacket, if you have crazy pad on your pants, you don't
also wanna have a huge tie and look like a clown. So, basically what you want make sure is that your tie is
always meeting your waistband. You don't want it to be too short, you also don't want it to be down to your
knees and too long. Either one of those is going to look sloppy, not put together and it ultimately gonna look your
your outfit to look like million times worse. So make sure that the end of your ties is just within your
waistband or just covering the button on your waistband. You don't want it any longer or any shorter than that.
Next up is a well-fitted sweater. It's great for a look because it you can throw it on with jeans, you can throw
it on a pair of chinos. You can even throw it on a pair of . And it translates throughout any of those
any of those different types of situations. So no matter what you're going to: a great upscale restaurant for
dinner or you just wanna watch a movie. Either one of those is a great outfit option when paired with
beautiful great sweater. It also feels really nice so when you got your around your lady or you're going into a hug,
it's just a nice soothing, comfortable material so she's automatically gonna feel more comfortable with you.
The type of materials that you want to look out for when it comes to sweaters is extra soft cotton or a cashmere
sweater. An important part of this to note, you wanna make sure that it's not too baggy either so that you're not
looking disheveled, but not it's too tight where it looks like it's gonna a hook out any moment. You want just to
make sure that it compliments your arms. If you can make your arms look a little bigger, I know a lot of
guys like to do that. And just make sure that it's flattering throughout your entire midsection.
The next item is layering. It gives another added detail so it shows that you're paying attention to detail. That
you're putting in extra effort to your look And it's also at all the cool way to pull together a look, add a little extra
element to it. So that can be throwing over a nice sweater over a colored shirt, adding a jacket to a
It could be any sort of thing that you're adding an extra layer to your outfit. It just has extra layer cool.
Additionally, it's a great way to make the look even better especially if there's an area that you're not quite so
comfortable with or confident with. It's a great way to sort of highlight the thing that you want to highlight while
covering the things that you want to cover up. So that way, you can walk out feeling more confident because
you know you look your best. One type of layering that I am particularly fond of is pairing a short sleeve button up
with a t-shirt. Short sleeves button up are all the rage right now. They're huge trend. And you can pair that
together, roll up the sleeve a little bit. You can even roll over the t-shirt over your short sleeve button up. And your
this instant cool guy, effortless, chic look that you can even pair with jeans or with chinos. It's great for casual date.
Since we're talking about button-up shirt, so, the great thing about short sleeve button-up is there one incredibly
in style right now. Everybody wearing them, you see them on all the magazines, on all the runways. And the
reason why I love them is because they are so versatile. You can get seventeen different kinds of outfit out of just
one item of clothing which is so important. Plus, they're super flattering in every kind of body type. The other
thing is a long sleeve button-up. Now I know a lot of you guys are gonna say why I wear long sleeve button-ups to
work? Why I wear long sleeve button-up to or fancy events? But that's great. So, probably already have some of
these in your closet. What you may not know about love sleeve button-ups is that women cannot resist these.
There have been a multiple multiple multiple studies and polls done by a variety of different psychologist.
Women, for whatever reason, love this look. Rolled up a little bit, with a pair of nice jeans.
You're gonna look great in this look and it's going to be super flattering to your body type. And the best part
is is that you are going to feel confident in this. Psychologist has done a variety of
studies about what type of colors or patterns human find attractive and consistently that
color is the color red. It's the color of passion, it's the color of romance, it's the color of love. So if you're
looking to attract somebody to you, psychologist said that the best way to do that is wear the color red.
It makes people look at you. It demands attention and it exudes confidence
So, this is one of those colors that you're gonna able to wear and even if you aren't feeling about
about yourself, you're gonna look like you feel the best about yourself. You're gonna stand out.
And you're gonna really catch that special lady's eye. The next item on our list is a great smelling cologne.
And if you've read any of on this: that are both directly to our memory it all back resented so if you want a lasting
impression on someone you one thing on their mind you want them to smell something it instantly
think of you having a great love will do the most well made Cologne are actually made for
minimal you sort of a couple phrase rest right here on the neck and you're good to go out
with you really don't need any more than that so many Cologne to think less is more plus
the best part of Cologne is that sometimes you can't always now it right off the bat
when you get close to a person that you can sell it and buy it over the fence will never
even make it one of the cooks somebody enters knowing that it just there's nothing better.
I feel make sure that you invest in some really awesome Cologne in fact my favorite right
now its homeport black mark it a delicious that it's not that I ever had a guy and when
our next item is jacket added element to any outfit as a comic book more put together a
great way to go about it by wearing a fur coat they're a great elements to add to any
for help if you just give the extra attention to detail I love one died dot it with a nice
but not and maybe jeans or chinos just because it does give you an extra little cool guy
chic elements your outfit and all the help because you can put pockets where there is
a great situation where you can wear a tie with her Tino's and a jacket a little but
not it looks fantastic and if you look like you are what you are then you will get a you
are ready to go get those ladies and it's a great way to make a first impression than
expected I love the most with the letter jacket I think the leather jackets are so in that
cool guy I want to talk to him he company especially if you have a color leather jacket
now they make green red Burgundy blow all kinda different how can help companies are
out there and you can about that would see that as well so you might wear lighter color
docket and bring or a doctor when the ball in the Burgundy or hunter green the final
docket that I would like to try it a bomber jacket.
Now the wealthy probably thinking of your favorite celebrity wearing them but their
go till you come upon a jacket with anything you can dress them up and down and they look
fantastic now I would encourage wearing a bomber jacket with him but if you do need
to look at the outfit you compare it with a pair of jeans and a button up and you will
look for what felt the next item on with it well but if you start I cannot stress enough
you how important it is to have high quality well fitted shirt any to be well but you have
to get Taylor great Hey what you wanna make sure that your shirt fit your body type perfectly
you want to try the sure is well made and that means that a book or something with a
try cotton blend or I had a percent cotton you wanna watch out with a part of the country
because they do tend to shrink to make sure that something not how the **** with too much
that you can throw in the washer and dryer and it's still going to maintain its shape
we wanted for that nothing that the last you for a long long time and it's going to also
be the type of her that you can throw on with anything and now let's get down to it with
a clear down here let's talk about the type of shooting to where I want one of the man
who shot and with my service and I want to immediately lead the fact that they care about
being here if I don't care about my time and he didn't care enough to cover the code one
expert the type that you're wearing complement the type of activity that you will be doing
what are on a date or meeting somebody a club one make sure that you have on high quality
but where it just makes you wanna make sure that it's a clean maker model make sure that
they are well made well put together thing very self you don't have anything ripping
a later freight any sort of like that you want to you immediately replace forget that
you can always take your shoes with your repair shop and look at them up like new.
And maintain the quality and to maintain the overall structure of your thinking there's
nothing wrong with wearing thinker out but to make sure the high quality well although
book clean my personal favorite one up but we're on a man in a but I love god and do
it because it's just different it looked more high fashion it looked more put together how
people are my absolute favorite into the on and I think they are so what I just cannot
with a guy in a healthy too as well as windows laid up with any kind of high quality letter
like that bill is going to look terrific with your outfit any type of bill that you're aware
is going to if we had more masculine element to your footwear and to your overall out so
you wanna make sure that it does fit that you're living out of it but you know how to
constantly mess with it and again on the thing though if the thinkers make sure you clean
your built the main thing with men fashion is that it doesn't go out of sight as quickly
as when in fact and I think I can barely keep the shoe for your the near the near the with
more whatever you like to make sure that you are buying high quality product and maintaining
the care and overall structure of the product because you really do have the ability to
wear them for much longer than we as women do next item is not one particular clothing
he thought it is something that can be applied to anything that you wear and that is correct
now printer not only fine because they showcase your personality and you can really start
a conversation with wearing pants but they're also great because they can hide any section
of your body that you're not the king on showing the pattern of the plan that you choose if
one really distract the other person I from faring any one particular spot whatever they
wanted to know if any problem area and it can really help you feel more confident because
they're gonna be paying attention to you and not that one area that you don't want I don't
I love I'm so obsessed with check out cannot are a terrific can't option when you don't
wanna go so how do I change but not really kind where she can't terrific in between option
for you the most important thing about wearing jeans Italian and Taylor.
They can look so horrendous if they're not properly tailored to make sure that you're
taking out your Taylor and getting the point that it's through your body to compliment
your shape in the best way possible minutes I don't it it had Nick rather than a specific
article of clothing and that call a French hot now I know you're thinking what in the
world is not only a great way to add a little extra detail if element to what you're saying
but also a great way to be form fitting it's very very simple all you do is take the bus
and took it in to the back of your pants and let the rest of us are gonna hang out definitely
try if you have any sort of early to mid section if you're not quite so confident about doing
a bunch talk not only make you look like effortless cool drinking died but also is really going
to help distract from the mid section so much and will be more complementary for the great
way that you can recall that when you're wearing your shirt or bring in for up our guide it
behind it here the number one and most important women find absolutely that's about it well
tailored fit there is nothing like it wearing a suit if class is the fifty it's just your
opinion of cheek and force you have been tailored to your body done when I find it so that's
all you really get to have fun with it because you can go crazy and do all kinds of different
checkered pattern or sprite or where bread or anything you can really incorporate a lot
of the elements that we talk about today into one out that when you wear it you can throw
on the night help you both with us it look authentic reputational dress you up with your
thing and it really in a way that it's going to look awesome and are there talk about you
have so little time to make a first impression when it comes to Mansfield we can't play around
with a link there if not if I if I look back in a few you've got to make sure that the
food and all the don't get any of the items that we talk about today looks terrific with
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