﻿Professions Men Won't Date [0:00:00]
So, starting this list off is u/LonelyApartments644 says,
we’ve got strippers. Now, this one popped up a lot and u/Exsces95 summarized it for
a lot of guys by saying, “Been there and I can’t say I’ve learned from my mistakes.”
Now, personally, I’ve never dated a stripper, but in college, I climbed
radio communication towers and it seemed – something about tower guys with strippers,
they just go hand-in-hand. And three of my friends dated strippers and all of them were crazy.
And not just crazy, but it seemed like drugs were everywhere. I didn’t hang out with these people,
but I worked with them and I would hear the stories again and again and it was
just [sound effect]. [Music]
Next up on our list, thanks to u/Seerjak, he said, “Sex workers. Then, again,
I don’t think they’d be interested in me.” u/Wafflesandwhisky jumped in and he said the same,
“It’s not a judgment on their value as a person, but it does speak to
us having different values around sex.” We had another person jumped in and say, “I
can’t date girls that have only fans accounts.” Which leads me to the next profession on this
list, influencers. u/puzzledmidget summed it up by saying that, “It started off fine,
but as time went on, they’re influencing became more popular and I ended up just being dragged
around to take pictures or videos.” His issue was that they never seem to
spend any time that wasn’t being recorded or filmed and he really just didn’t like
that. He didn’t feel that she was authentic. Now, as an influencer myself, I found this one
really interesting because I have a lot of friends that are family vloggers. And they
record so much and you start to wonder what’s real what’s authentic what’s just for the camera.
I’m very fortunate, I’ve got barriers between my office here, what I do as a living and it
doesn’t bleed too much into my family time. Now, occasionally, we’ll adjust things. You’ve
seen videos where I do talk about what I do with my family, but I’ve always maintained
those barriers because I realized, you know what? I want to have this life and I want to
be able to go home and be able to turn it off. And I can how a lifestyle vlogger someone that has
the camera on all the time filming their life, that could be a real turn off for people. I’m
curious, have any of you guys ever dated anyone that seems to record everything? Even people,
you know, it’s like with TikTok popping up all these other, you know, platforms. It seems like
everyone seems to be recording everything. I joke with my daughters and I’m like,
“Yeah, you know, if you don’t put it on Instagram, it apparently didn’t happen.”
The next profession on this list brought to you by redditor, u/Ass-whole. I have to admit that I
like making these Reddit videos just to simply say with a straight face some of these usernames. But,
seriously, they said, “Anyone that thinks their multilevel marketing scheme is a profession.”
And there were a whole lot of guys that agree with this. In fact, one guy talked about how he
had been dating a girl for two years. She went to one of these multilevel marketing seminars
with her mom. Came back saying she’s going to retire in five years and he tried to show her,
“Hey, this is a scam, this isn’t going to work out.” They disagreed and within
a couple of days, they had broken up. Now, personally, I don’t know if this
would be deal breaker for me. Maybe if they just started and they’re high on the Kool Aid because
as a guy that has sold Cutco knives for a week, yeah, it didn’t work out.
My parents were involved with Amway. I’ve seen tons of these multilevel marketing scams
or schemes, seminars, whatever you want to call them. I really don’t think that overall they’re
goof for most people. But, there are some people that they really do work for and the products
at least in Amway I thought were decent. That being said, if this is something that
she’s been pursuing for years, she’s having great success with, she is actually, you know,
doing some awesome stuff with, I don’t think I would hold this against her. I don’t know. Agree?
Disagree? Let me know in the comments below. Now, this next one I was expecting and that is
lawyers. A lot of guys said, “You know what? I am not going to date a lawyer because when we
break up, it’s going to be too scary.” We even had lawyers jumped in and say,
“As a lawyer, dating another lawyer can be very scary.” And he was pretty clear,
it’s not because of what they do, it’s because you know what they are capable of doing.
And, of course, it was pointed out that lawyers work a lot. So, if you’re
going to date a lawyer, expect not to see them. Next up, we’ve got horse inseminators. Apparently
u/Bird_Boi_Man said, “You know what? She’s just going to be disappointed.”
But, seriously, this open up a whole can of worms because apparently there are women
out there that just love horses and it was again and again I was amazed how often this popped up,
if she’s involved in horses, stay away. Now, u/DocZ-1701, he summed it up this way,
“If you’re in a relationship with a woman with a horse, understand you are always going to
come second. The horse always comes first.” Yet, another gentleman chimed in, he said,
“You know, 15 years ago, I was interested in a girl that was really into horses. And
my dad who grew up on a farm said, ‘Son, that is the worst woman you can pursue.’”
And, women even jumped in here to confirm this, u/HippyWitchyVibes, she’s like, “You know what?
Even my first date when I was 16, I took the guy riding with me. Everything revolved around the
horses. In fact, I had to leave the industry because I wanted to be able to see the world,
travel without every single day having to, yeah, be about my horse.”
Now, this next one was just kind of sad because these are some of my favorite people and that is
anyone in the medical field. Be very careful about dating these people.
[0:04:59] One gentleman was a
doctor himself and he said, “Never date somebody else in the medical field because you come home
from work and that’s all you both talk about. You bitch and complain about the same thing.”
Another guy that was dating a nurse, who apparently had crazy hours just said,
“You know what? I work an 8 to 5 job and I never see her because she’s always working at night,
her shifts are changing and the topics the things she talks about are so much more serious.”
Another gentleman talked about his mom and actually looking it from that point
of view and just saying, “You know what? She was an amazing woman, an amazing mother,
but I rarely saw her. She was always stressed out. For 30 plus years, she gave her life to this
profession and it didn’t give too much back.” All that being said, there are actually a lot of
people that jumped in and defended actually dating somebody that’s in the medical field
especially someone that has more set hours. And some people talked about how it actually works
that both of them have these high stress positions because they really understand each other.
I don’t know. I’m curious, have any of you guys ever dated nurses? Have you ever dated a doctor?
Was it something that made or broke the relationship? Let me know in the comments below.
Now, this next one I just found funny and it was not a profession, but my ex played handball,
whatever she threw at me always hit. I get that and that sounds very dangerous,
but I’ve actually never been in a relationship in which people are throwing things at me. What
kind of women are you guys dating? And this one took me a second to get,
but I absolutely loved it and that is don’t date tennis players because apparently love
means nothing to them. Next up, apparently,
you shouldn’t date drama people. Dated a girl who was a singer in multiple plays and shows,
she was more dramatic in real life than on the stage. I dodged a bullet with that one.
u/Peugas424 jumped in and said, “Can confirm. I date an aspiring actress
in college interested in plays and stuff. Beautiful, funny, sweet, but chaotic AF,
selfish and only had drive for her acting.” And u/Senior-Albatross he said, “Theater people,
they live for drama. They can go from one end of the scale to the other in seconds. Beware.”
That being said, a lot of guys jumped in and said, “You know what? Everyone that’s in the support of
the theater, they are not as bad.” So, just be careful with the people up on stage because,
yes, apparently they – they live for that drama and – but, some of you guys maybe you
want drama in your life, so, hey, there you go. And it seems no profession was safe here because
you even saw teachers. Now, everyone was saying, “You know what? We love teachers. They do a great
job. I mean, these are awesome people. But, the profession itself is so soul-sucking. And this
is something that you can expect her to come home especially as time goes on and just be
complaining about her work. And she brings it home and she’s overworked, stressed out,
and, yeah, it’s not a good situation.” And, u/Lumber-Jacked, he jumped in and he said,
“You know, I married one and your assumptions are correct. It’s a soul-sucking career.”
I mean, this one, I had no idea. Back in San Antonio, I dated a teacher. She was amazing,
she was awesome. I loved how wholesome she was, except in certain areas. [sound effect]
But, point being is, yeah, I didn’t realize it was that bad. Is it?
Next up, we’ve got palm readers, aura readers, psychics, witches, priests, and especially
mediums or people who talk to the dead. Now, I have to admit, I have no experience
dating anyone in these areas or professions, so I’m very curious,
have any of you guys dated like a priestess or have you dated somebody that reads palms?
I mean, I know these people are out there, I just have to admit they’re not in my circles. They’re
not people that I would, yeah, consider dating, but I’m sure some of you guys have. So, if you’ve
got some amazing stories, fill me in in the comments below. This is going to be so much fun
going through and reading some of these. Now, some of these just seemed obvious like
I dated my boss, I don’t work there anymore. I thought, yeah, you know,
that can happen or if you date one of your employees. Actually, one guy talked about,
you know, she had left he ends up marrying her and all of a sudden she becomes his boss, right?
Now, this story was actually wrapped up by a gentleman said, “You know what?
Don’t [bleep sound] where you eat.” I don’t know if I consider, you know,
compared dating to shitting, but I definitely see his point about – and I do believe that you got
to be careful about dating somebody in the same company even if that you’re both peers. Yeah,
it’s just something, yeah, that can go really – it can really go off the tracks.
Apparently, DJs are another profession you got to be careful of. Everything I saw, though,
was really about them just being loud, focusing in on themselves, and having really crazy hours.
This was also it seemed like one of the issues with realtors.
Not just the crazy hours, but the fact that this person was very self-centered. Although,
with realtors I – I know a lot of great realtors. I don’t have any issues with these people.
I don’t know. Are you guys have you had issues dating a realtor or dating,
you know, a DJ or something like that? Now, I really like what this gent had to say here.
He said, “You know, I’m going to be a contrarian. There is no profession I wouldn’t date. There are
definitely types of women I wouldn’t date, but profession, everyone has to work and as
long as your partner is employed or at least contributing to the relationship, who cares?”
Personally, I love his point of view. And I really think he hits the point.
That being said, for a lot of us if you’ve had a drink or two and you’re out with friends,
you meet a beautiful girl, you probably aren’t really asking about her profession the status that
is, you know, you’re more interested in simply, hey, can something magical happen tonight?
[0:10:03] And, yeah, you started
dating her because you end up hooking up and all of a sudden, you find, you know what? Oh, that’s
your profession. Not that that’s ever happened to me or I would anything like that. [sound effect]
Seriously, gents, what professions did I miss? Put in the comments below. I want to
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