- These are the red flags that come up so often.
So listen up, ladies,
because this will save a lot of time
when it comes down to dating men.
Hi, ladies, my name is Ieva,
and I am one of Greta's high value women coaches.
And in this video, I will be sharing three deadly red flags.
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The first red flag is he asks you
to come over to his place to watch a movie there.
If a man asks anything like this
in the beginning stages of texting,
it means that he just puts you in a box,
and sees you as a quick fling.
That might be for whatever reason,
or maybe he is testing you
to see how you will react to this type of message.
Either way, I personally think this is a complete turn off,
and definitely not something
that a high value man would say to a high value woman.
It is definitely not a nice thing to hear,
and definitely don't fall for it,
even if he does start to charm you,
or even if he might start love bombing you with compliments.
I personally think this is a very big no go,
and if you do fall for this,
then the chances of you being heartbroken later on
are very, very high.
The second red flag is he asks you sexual questions
in the first stages of getting to know each other.
I personally think that anything
that is kind of icky is a red flag.
And this is one of the things that I do find very icky,
and I find it very inappropriate.
And personally, for me, this is a massive red flag.
If you guys are in the beginning stages of texting,
and he's sending you sexy pics of himself,
and wants to get some from you too,
definitely don't fall for it, and don't do it.
Even if he starts asking sexual questions about you,
and what you prefer and stuff like that,
don't even get into it.
I really do believe this is out of line.
It is basically extremely low value
to ask someone these types of questions
when you don't even really know them,
and you as a woman should not stoop to that level ever.
So definitely move on
if you find yourself in that type of situation.
If you however, are in a relationship,
and he asks you a question like that,
then of course, that is something completely different,
because you guys are partners.
But if it is in the beginning stages,
then it is simply not okay.
Generally, remember, or know for yourself,
that anything that makes you feel uncomfortable,
it should not be ignored,
because it means that some type of boundary
is being crossed right now with you.
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Number three is he tells you
that he is not interested in a relationship.
If a man tells you that he's not interested
in a relationship with you or in general right now,
there is absolutely no reason
why you should not believe him.
You should definitely not try to change his mind,
or ask him why he thinks that way, et cetera.
If you want to be in a relationship, but he does not,
then the goal of dating and seeing each other
is completely different for you guys.
And seeing someone and a relationship not being a goal of it
is not something that a high value woman does.
Therefore, this is a red flag in my eyes.
There are men out there that want a relationship,
and there are high value men out there too.
So don't just settle for a man who is simply not willing
to give you what you desire,
and who is simply not ready to commit to you.
You can continue talking to him if you want to,
but you should for sure start dating other men.
Simply don't let him drag you along like that,
and don't allow him to give you that false hope.
It can become very heartbreaking,
and difficult to let go and move on.
Number four is he does not pay on the first date.
If a man asks you out on a date,
it is simply common courtesy for him to pay the bill.
And I kind of feel like if any man is watching,
and he disagrees with this,
he will definitely let us know in the comment section
down below, so looking forward to that.
But in my eyes,
men who do not pay on the first date are insecure.
I personally believe it is a complete turn off
for a high value woman.
When a woman is in a relationship with a man,
it is completely fine and normal that they share expenses
to some degree in a fair way,
but in the starting stages of dating,
or even the first couple of dates,
it is embarrassing to ask the waiter to split the bill.
Remember, ladies, a high value man
who is confident and secure within himself,
who knows how to set boundaries,
knows what he wants out of life,
and is not petty about these types of things,
he will not let you pay on the first date.
A high value man will ask you to go out on a date with him,
and he will know that he will pay.
And if he's a student, if it's expensive for him,
if he doesn't have the finances to do that,
he'll be smart enough to pick out a restaurant,
or an area, or a place that he can afford
in order to pay for the first date.
A masculine man who is simply secure within himself
will not even think about asking you
to split the bill with him,
because he will simply feel emasculated, embarrassed,
and he will probably stop blushing,
and he will not want, it's embarrassing, it's embarrassing.
If I was a man and I went on a date with a girl
on a first date, I would be so embarrassed
to even ask this type of question.
Also, I think it's more common for some cultures
to split the bill,
and for other cultures to not split the bill.
Basically, a masculine high value man,
who is secure and confident within himself
will not blink an eye when it comes down to paying the bill.
He'll not make a big deal out of it.
He'll just do it, he won't ask.
He'll bring you home, or meet you halfway there.
He'll let you go.
He'll be nice, polite.
And yeah, that's it, it's that simple.
Generally, I think there are more red flags than just this,
but these are simply my no go's.
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