Hi everyone I've got another lovely success story today it's been sent in by Ashley,
so here we go it goes like this: My name is Ashley and I have a success story that maybe could help
someone. I'm 20, I was with my specific person for almost two years and towards the end I started
getting really insecure and fearful of losing him. And at the end of February 2019 my fear was
manifested and he left me. I was the cause of the split because I pushed my insecurities and
fears and unworthiness onto him and I just knew I projected all of this to him. I pushed him so far
away to the point he blocked me from contacting him in every way. I never pushed or forced I just
let him go but it was tearing me apart inside and on day 23 of not reaching out to him, I contacted
him from my email but I didn't beg or plead I just expressed myself which was still a bad idea
because he still rejected it. I'm pretty loyal to staying away and letting him come to me so I
know how to cope with those feelings. So after he basically rejected and ignored me I went straight
into no contact that same day. I immediately came to your channel looking for answers, I would try
to manifest a text, I would visualize etc none of those worked for me it only made me feel worse.
And just today I had a breakthrough, I cried all morning I couldn't get out of bed and I asked my
soul what am I doing wrong? My intentions flipped and I threw my hands in the end of the universe
and I said 'F this I give up, none of this is working I take him out of the picture and I give
up trying to bring him to me it's impossible.' After that I only did self-love work and when
I would think of him I would not entertain the thought whatsoever, I would immediately start
affirming that I am worthy, I am the prize. I stopped giving feeling to the thought of him,
the universe knows I love him and want him so I just left my monkey mind out of the picture.
I meditated today and it felt so good, I was gone for about 40 minutes in another world.
I put glimpses of him in there but mainly I just pictured myself being happy and smiling enjoying
life. About 30 minutes later he unblocked me on social media and sent me a text filled with love.
I couldn't believe it because I thought he was gone forever because of the way I had acted. 10
days only after focusing on me he came back to me and I'm thankful for your information because you
are the only person telling us to love ourselves instead of trying to get over there. Thank you,
thank you, thank you, I still can't believe it. Wow Ashley, nice work. You know what? I want to
say this because this is this silent twin of action, as in the techniques that we all
talk about and we do in relation to manifesting anything - you actually discovered the second
half of the nut. Two halves of the nut, first thing techniques second half the silent twins
which is surrender and allowing. So well done, now sometimes it happens to us because the
circumstances squeeze us into the corner and then we kind of have nowhere else to go, so you got
there and I want to highlight this because it is a very big component. It's almost like a giving up,
but it's not giving up it's like you're giving up the trying, you're giving up the trying to get
attention, trying to get looked at, trying to get reassurance, trying to get them to listen to you,
trying trying, trying, trying. You're letting that go and you're surrendering it. I'm just saying I'm
exasperated I don't know what else to do so I want to highlight that because this is one of those
things that's it's easy to overlook this part of the manifestation process, I think it is a very,
very, big part of it and it is very underused because people do tend to go more for the
techniques rather than the quiet inactive things. It's much easier to be doing a task or a technique
than it is to let go, surrender and allow. As many of you know because you're living in it,
so actually thank you because this is such a great example of that I wanted to mention that and you
know what's incredible is you've learned this at 20 years old. Wow, you know what a wonderful,
wonderful thing you've got your whole life now to go ahead and actually remember this moment
that you did this and the power that came out of it. There's such so there's such power in
surrender and letting go because it's like the universe, gods, source can really come
together and help you in the way that defies how you would even think about it. It's much bigger,
much greater than us so it's wonderful to witness and experience that so that's so wonderful, thank
You Ashley. Lots of love to you and I will see all of you in the next YouTube. Love the success
stories it's wonderful, very, very, very proud of you guys for applying this and getting results.