Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. There's something
special that I want to share with you today. I don't know how much
you've ever studied or looked up the research on smiling but it is crazy
powerful. They've written books on this. I mean there's tons of studies of how
smiling can massively impact a person's life. On today's video what I want
to do is I want to give you a little trick, a little hack, something really
simple and easy to use when you're talking with a woman that actually gets
her more attracted to you when you're in conversation and again of course it
has to do with smiling.
We're gonna do things a little bit differently on this
episode. What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
be giving you the trick right now and then afterwards I'll tell you why it's
so powerful because I know that a lot of you are always complaining that I take
so long to get to the point like I'm doing right now. Alright, let's get into it.
When you are with the girl what I want you to do is this. I want you to
look at her as if you're about to crack up.
Now bear with me. Don't leave just yet. This is gonna make sense in just a
second. You're probably thinking Tripp if I do that she's going to think
I'm laughing at her. We're gonna take it down a notch. Just imagine your
face looking like you're about to crack up. What would that look like?
Probably something like this, like you're holding it in. We're just
gonna take that like that. We're gonna take that and drop that about
75%. That's what this is gonna look like. As you can tell it's like this
smile that you're kind of holding back as if you're holding back excitement.
That look of holding back that excitement and looking at her, by the way
I should add to this hack that you need to be looking at her directly
in the eye when you're doing it and when you're doing this and you had this kind
of like built-up excitement when you're just like this,
it's very flirty.
It's a very flirty smile. She's gonna see that and she's gonna feel that
and she's gonna feel that energy from you. It's positive energy because you're
smiling and you look happy and also it's flirty energy because you're
looking at her and doing it as if you're excited to be talking to her and again
this is non-verbal so you're not coming off too needy and you're not coming off
too assertive or too aggressive. It's the perfect balance in why it works so well.
I want you to do that. You're gonna be doing it as you're talking to her.
Specifically, you're gonna be using it when you're listening to her. If she's
talking to you about anything, you're in conversation with her. I should also
add, this is gonna be used when you first meet a girl. If you've already known
her for a long time and you're doing this, it's not gonna do anything because
you might already be friend-zoned. Don't think you're just gonna use this on a girl you
already know and it's gonna magically work. This is when you're first talking
to a girl. Maybe you're on a first date with her, maybe you're face timing her
for the first time off of an app. Maybe you're meeting her on the street, at a
club, at a bar, wherever and you're looking at her and you're doing that.
Don't do that the entire time of the conversation. There has to be
a range of different emotions to make it more interesting. If you're doing that
and you look like you're gonna laugh the entire time, it's kind of weird. But if
you just do it just a couple times in conversation when you're really deeply
listening to her, she's going to feel that energy. Why does this work so well?
I've given you a couple hints so far in this video. I've talked about positive
energy. When you're smiling you look happier, you look positive and that's
infectious. When you're with someone and you feel their energy, you
can actually get it on to you. That is called the law of state transference.
Your vibe can get easily transferred over to somebody else and vice versa.
You're kind of smiling because it's like this like half quarter smile where you're kind
of excited and that is gonna make her feel good. I didn't make this up. There
are studies a lot of studies like I said tons of studies done on the art of
smiling and why it works so well and the kind of effects it has and it's been
shown that it makes someone else feel happy. Also, a study was done that showed
that when you are smiling, you're seen as more competent because
if you're smiling, you're happy and if you're happy that means
you have your life together and things are going well and you're doing
life correctly and that is a masculine trait to be able to take life
and say hey I got this. It's confidence, it's powerful, it's courageous - masculine
traits that are very sexy to a woman. I know this sounds crazy. All from just a
smile? Yes. We're combining this smile that I've created for you that has this
positivity but like I said earlier, that excitement that excitement for you
to be around this person and her feeling that excitement, feeling that flirtatious
vibe and then her being like whoa this is a nice interaction because the exact
opposite of this is you looking at a girl all scared and shocked like...
Swallowing a lot and freaked out, maybe not looking at her. This is
the extreme end of things and you're just like I'm scared and I don't know
where to look and I'm not smiling cause I'm not looking like I'm having a good
time cause I'm not confident cause I don't have this thing called life handled.
Or you wipe all of that away and you're looking at her and you're just like hmm...
Interesting. There's something interesting about you.
That's what you're subtly saying to her when you're doing this
face. There's a little hack. Body language body language is what we're
talking about here and it's very very powerful. In fact I have a blog post.
I'm gonna put a link down below in the description and it's gonna give you four
hacks in terms of your body language that can get women attracted because body
language is more than just smiling. It's how you're overall presenting yourself and
it is 80% of all communication when you're talking to someone. Go check
that out in the description below, read that blog post and learn more. Write a
comment down below and press like if you think this is gonna help you and if you
don't, try it out. Peace.