if someone does wrong your spouse cheats on you this is a common thing not too common
(people laughing..)
not to combine so what you do there is the problem in the marriage right
now find out why are they cheating
lack of higher joy satisfaction see the mind runs for something new
you always take pride in new technology heart yearns for old you take pride in old friendship
you never say this is my new friend and that's my old computer
you take pride in an old computer and a new friend if you're in love with cars you may say
yeah it's vintage car but that's not from your mind that is your that's your passion
but you don't drive your vintage car every day to your office it's just a showpiece so when
the mind is always looking for something new and it gets joy by that it's not sustainable
mind changes but heart holds on that's why people do all these sort of things basically they do not
even know why all this is happening there is no higher context to life the higher context
to life is that you are the beautiful source of energy
you are part of the dick that's something
what hurts you most is when someone whom you love they lie to you why you want to know you simply
must know that they value your love more than truth they are scared that they may lose your love
the fear of losing love makes one tell some lie so what is the value most
(people said- "love")
if you don't value love so much then why would you bother to tell lies to anybody you have to create
them that space come on don't worry i am with you then they will open their heart and tell them look
when a communication is so good when they are so sure of that not losing your love you come and
confess you say everything to them usually with mother it happens you know mother will anyway
not reject you at any cost so you go and tell your mom everything right
mostly i had to put some claws everywhere
so you tell your mother you tell your teacher you tell your guide you tell your mentor
you don't shy with because you tap you open your heart you are sure that you are not going to
lose them they are not going to judge you can we not have a similar relationship
in marriage also it is possible and there are some
houses there are some families they do
have this type of bonding and the bonding is strong lies disappear
when you fall into a relationship marriage you want to know everything about the person
you make them an object of your knowing then you get into trouble
because you start policing them you want to know where did you go with whom did you go
what did you eat what did they say you want to know everything about everybody
then that person feels so stifled come on give me some space i have no experience i'm guessing
(people laughing......)
i'm only guessing this is what could be happened
because i hear someone come here
so you fall in love and you fall out of love the moment start policing and why you police because you want to
know everything you want to make them object of your knowing i want to know the person how can you
know another person is too well
isn't it foolish thing to even want to know the other person
do you know yourself
how much you know about yourself
anybody's mind can turn any time in any direction
mind is so fluid mind is so thinner than air it can just fly you can say people should have
principles that's that's correct once you know whether someone has all the principles
whether in the background if they have not done something wrong
they won't do in the future also that is a general belief it's faith so you have a
faith so this person is his character is good and so he will have be good in the future also