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Chase: Hey guys! It's me Chaseypoo!
Today I'm going to be talking about some topic that is very like
might be triggering might be dysphoria inducing for some people
depending on how I approach this topic.
I have wanted to do this topic I can't even tell you for how long but I never know how to approach it
And I don't want to hurt people and stuff like that so I'm going to *content warning* this video right now!
I am going to be talking about transmasc individuals and their bodies
And I'm specifically going to be talking about their growth. Their dick.
Okay?
So I'm going to say the word once so that we all know what I'm talking about so there's no questions
and we don't have to answer it 100 times in the comments together.
So I will say that when a trans individual who is on the transmasc spectrum goes on testosterone their clitoris will grow, okay?
And that becomes kind of like their little dick.
So what I am going to be talking about in this video - Because I want to be very clear is that this growth
I will now refer to as either the growth or your dick.
So these are the two words that I'm going to be using I don't want you to mix it up with anything.
I'm not talking about prosthetics. I'm not talking about dildos. I'm not talking about any of those things.
I'm literally talking about what is on your body and what has grown from testosterone.
So I will also *content warning* more
I will be talking about some specific parts of people's bodies
and I want to make sure that we understand.
And I don't want to trigger anyone who literally like trigger anyone's dysphoria because I can understand how dysphoric some of these words can be.
So I'm just letting you know if you don't want to hear these words
don't watch the video, unfortunately. But also a warning:
I am going to be a little bit graphic in what I'm explaining because this is kind of like a
like a how-to video, but also like information.
Which I think is super important about this topic.
So if you're like a parent and stuff like that and you don't really want to know about this stuff
just don't watch this video. But like thanks for stopping by *laughs*
Alright so now that everyone's out of the room that might be uncomfortable.
Let's - let's talk - let's take our pants off and talk about this.
No. Um so yes.
The growth and penetrating. So I've been asked to talk about this. I wanted to talk about this
What does it mean?
Basically the growth that you have, okay? Your dick.
Um you are able if you have enough growth to actually penetrate somebody.
And this specific body that you can penetrate
It doesn't have to be a man, a woman, doesn't have to be a transwoman.
Like a transman, a cis. A cis™. It doesn't matter. All bodies, okay?
This is what we're talking about here today. Is all bodies can be
penetrated by your dick if your dick has grown enough.
Now I know we're gonna get a lot of questions about what if your pre T?
What can you do to make your growth and your dick bigger because you're not able to access hormones
Or you can't for medical reasons, or you just can't right now.
You can try pumping, but I cannot assure you that pumping will give you enough length in order to be able to penetrate someone
or penetrate a type of toy. So I feel like it's important just to know that and not to have super high expectations
But also to know that there are options if you're not on hormones yet.
But right now I'm specifically gonna talk about people who have growth.
So like I said there is a specific amount of growth that you can
be able to penetrate with. It's not everyone that can do it, who is on testosterone, who has had growth down there.
that is able to penetrate because it will grow that
I think I've met one person in my entire life that just it did never grew on testosterone
which is like it usually grows for everyone. So.
But for some people it grows. I think the number is six to - three to six centimeters
But for other people it's like two inches or two and a half inches three inches it can get pretty big which is really great
But don't expect those big numbers because not everyone gets those numbers, and it's like, "I wish it was bigger!"
So you can try pumping just to like do that and you can also try a DHT cream
I've talked about this in the past. I'll put the link in the video below
I did make this video like four or five years ago, though
So I don't remember if the the website that you have to use to buy this type of cream if it's still active
But I'll try to look and I'll put the information down there.
Baaabbbbyyyy!
She's so vocal she's like, "Please stop talking about this daddy."
Anyways to get on with it.
Um you have to have enough growth in order to be able to penetrate
But I have seen some people who don't have that much growth who have said that they're able to penetrate their partner
And it's no problem
So let me just give you a like "How to penetrate your partner" because it's going to get a little bit like graphic here
so just to let you know. If you are sleeping with a partner who has a
vagina
alright
Now the way that has been the easiest for me to be able to do this because I've been able to do this for years
Since 2000 when I started hormones. You gotta lift the leggies up, okay?
And for me the easiest way that I have found it
is to have like the person's legs up and like really like like - This is the person's leg, okay?
This is their parts here and their face is here
You see what I'm saying? You put the legs like up
Really high to the point where their butt and their back is kind of like lifted off from the bed
And then so you're able to kind of penetrate like that. It's very hard to do like the like
What? Missionary position? That's what it's called right?
Where you're like on top of the person and you're able to like slip your dick in
And go like this
That's very hard because there are a lot of
ligaments under your dick that are connected. If you do want a clitoral release you can do that
It's called a simple metoidioplasty. They cut the ligaments underneath so you're able to kind of like be free and at that point you
could try to do it missionary style
but because a lot of people aren't able to do that because of the ligaments this has been the easiest way for me to do it.
You lift the leggies up and then so that the back in the butt are kind of elevated
And then you're kind of like going on top of the person like this so the legs are up
and you're kind of like not like like sitting on them, but kind of and then you're able to kind of
penetrate and put your dick inside the person's hole.
So it's very similar if we're gonna talk about if you want to do anal
Or if you're with somebody who has a penis
and they like anal
um it doesn't matter who you're having sex with it doesn't matter at all um
you are able to just keep in mind buttholes are a little tighter than the front so using a lot of lube
I have seen some people who have been able to penetrate
the like their partners
butt which is fantastic
I unfortunately have not been able to that because I people I've been with have like really tight asses like come on huntys get with
the anal program *laughs*
but that's not something that I need.
But I could absolutely understand how for some transmen
and some transmasculine individuals being able to top a cis man
or a trans man or a cis woman or a transwoman or any non-binary person.
Everyone!
And being able to penetrate their butt would be very empowering and something dysphoria
alieving?
alleviating?
So just letting you know it is a possibility, but it is a little bit harder.
But this dick it's a dick like it is soft, and then when you're turned on it gets hard.
So I'm gonna give you a little tip right now
that I had found out years ago, and I loved it.
Not like I have a big dick but like I have some growth and like I'm happy with it.
I'm fine. It's not like gigantic, but it's not small.
I'm fine with it.
But what I have found is that when I'm very hard if I go on my knees on the floor
and I kind of spread my knees like open
and then only kind of sitting down your dick looks so much bigger
because it kind of just like flies out a little bit.
So that's like really empowering. So I just kind of wanted to let you know about that.
Because when you're doing the penetrating on your partner when you're kind of like on top of them
you are pretty much doing that same position.
So your dick does kind of become
more out?
So because like the less of the skin and things around are kind of like hiding it
because you're kind of stretching the stuff it like it comes out more so it's actually bigger.
This way you're able to penetrate your partner more and let me tell you how empowering this feels.
And I'm so sorry for people who don't have enough growth
or who haven't been able to experience this.
But for me, personally, it was amazing to be able to do it and to be able to penetrate the partner.
The thing is that I use a prosthetic to have sex when I'm topping and
I'm fine with that the one that I use I absolutely love
It's The Joystick by Transthetics and it has like changed my life, and it's amazing but sometimes
I like to like change it up a little bit and not wear it because it either makes me a little bit dysphoric
or I just kind of want to use my parts and stuff like that
and it feels really cool to be able to do that.
Like I will tell you that I have been able to like come.
And it feels amazing to be able to do that just from using my own anatomy
and kind of penetrating someone else.
So I think that for me It's been life-changing to be able to.
I don't do it often, but when I feel the need to do it it's there.
And I always kind of use this this technique. If you want to like get really technical and like um
really try to penetrate - and we're going to talk about the front hole right now.
You could kind of do- you know like that lesbians? They scissor?
Don't like - That's not a thing!
But what you can do is you can do this motion
but like you kind of like go and
you're straddling one of their legs kind of because then
when you open your legs you're able to kind of go in more because you're on the side
and the legs aren't in the way as much
but if you're putting your legs up and the person's back and butt is kind of like lifted a little bit
I don't feel like you would have a lot of problem with that.
Now before anyone goes and tries this oh my Lord!
Please practice safe sex okay!
Because we as transmasculine individuals can get STI's and can get HIV
So we do need to be careful and because you might think that this is a very low-risk
Type of sexual activity doesn't mean that it's not possible
So I would just caution everybody to make sure that they are pretty safe because a lot of your like
Anatomy and everything around kind of touches and goes inside
The other person you really do need to be careful on what you use. I have seen some people be like use like
Like a glove I talked about this in a video. Oh my goodness like maybe like seven years ago
It was called like the moose so you take a like a regular rubber glove
and you cut it along here so it opens up
And it's like this now the thumb goes on your dick and everything else around kind of protects around
But I would also say that you could also use dental dams
So you would be able to like put the dental dam on you or on the person
But so I'm just saying like practice safe sex you could try to put a condom on
But you're if you don't have enough girth and stuff like that it might not stay and there
Are these like little finger cons that you can buy at the pharmacy no that they use like flip pages and stuff do *clap* not *clap* try to put that on your dick
because I did and I was like "Ahhh!" I thought my skin was being like ripped off
Don't do it like even if I had put lube, and then put the mini condom on
Nah. Don't do it unless they come in like extra extra extra extra large, and they're like
Just no
So I just wanted to say that because when we're talking about sex and stuff like that a lot of people don't
Like know about STI's and how to contract them especially if you're a transmasc individual
like having sex with somebody who has a vagina or somebody who has a penis like there's a lot of things so I made
I feel like I'm promoting my channel like crazy. I just make a lot of videos
I made like an STI video um two years ago
So I'll link that in the description
Below also so you can take a look at that because just be careful really just be careful
Not the end of the world if you end up with an STI, but you know it's it's better
You know just save sex because you could be
Transmitting something to someone or someone can be transmitting something to you if you don't know right so you just just be careful out there
Okay, kids alright, so in terms of how to penetrate that's my advice
Not sure if it made any sense, but really the leggies up back and butt up
And you're kind of like *makes a whistle sound* plopping on top of them
Making sure that they're comfortable though like put a pillow under their back like obviously make them comfortable, and it's fun
I don't like literally I'll tell you the first time I did this I was like
Oh, this is so cool, but nothing really happened
It's practice it took practice and it also depends on the partners that you have and how tight they are like if you're doing their
butt and
And so there's so many different like things that you can do so one thing that could work with one partner
Maybe work with the other partner, so it's a trial and error
And I've had to do that and I kind of have adjusted and stuff like that
And it feels good to be able to use my body
So that's that's what I wanted to talk about you have any questions about this. Please let me know in the comments below
I will link all of the videos and things and the links that I just talked about
If you want me to elaborate or like be more specific or anything like that about
how to do this position or if you have suggested another position because this is just the position that I'm more comfortable there
There are obviously are other positions that you can try and like explore it
It's fun like it's fun sex is fun
So if you want to put any of your advice and stuff like that in the comments that would be really cool if you have
Any questions about this let me know, but I will see you all next time all right. Have a great day. Bye!