It's quite unfortunate that the media focuses on the unhealthy, angry, depressed INFJ rather
than the mature, fully formed, healthy ones.
A healthy INFJ is one that has mastered their strengths.
The INFJ is a type of individual with idealistic tendencies.
As a result, they are always striving to be the best version of themselves, even if it
doesn't feel that way on a daily basis.
An INFJ who has mastered their strength embraces this journey, complete with pit stops, detours,
traffic jams, and barricades.
They understand the journey is about becoming rather than achieving.
So let’s look at What Happens When the INFJ has Mastered their Strengths
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They confront conflict in their life
An INFJ that has a strong level of maturity will deal with conflict in their life head on.
There are occasions when the INFJ is willing to engage in conflict with family members
or friends, but only if it feels healthy.
That doesn't mean they'll enjoy or even like conflict.
It does imply that they are motivated to find a solution to a disagreement, even if it is
unpleasant.
They understand that they must express what is upsetting them at times, as well as be
receptive to hearing what the other person is angry about.
They want to work through these issues; thus conflict is sometimes unavoidable in order
to learn and grow as a community.
In these instances, INFJs desire to enhance their link,
therefore the more mature INFJ
is generally willing to deal with conflict.
They regularly make time for self-care
Many INFJs are preoccupied with others and how they could help them.
This can serve as a source of motivation in both their personal and professional lives
but it can also be draining in the long run.
A healthy INFJ will strike a balance between caring for others and caring for themselves.
They understand that in order to continue, they must take care of themselves.
They would frequently schedule self-care activities that help them recharge and re-energize, whether
it's a few deep breaths during the day or a mini-vacation.
Self-care is difficult for INFJs, but when they take care of themselves, they will have
the strength to serve others.
They understand that you can't pour from an empty glass; it has to be filled first.
They know how to set boundaries
INFJs are known for having a high level of empathy.
This makes them vulnerable to others feelings.
Because of their unwavering desire to serve, total strangers intrude on their personal
space and violate their boundaries.
A mature and healthy INFJ will check in with themselves on a regular basis to detect and
process their own feelings.
They are aware of their time and resource constraints.
They are not oblivious to the need to safeguard oneself from abuse and manipulation.
They'll practice establishing emotional and physical boundaries to help them separate
themselves from the effects of others peoples feelings.
Setting time limits for chats or establishing boundaries with certain toxic relationships
are examples of this.
They have a vision for the future
INFJs have a strong desire to look forward to the future.
A healthy INFJ will have a vision for the future based on an insight they have about
how the world could be.
This might be a fresh perspective, a new approach of assisting others, or an idea they'd like
to offer.
Their goal could be to create a business, write a book, start a family, or volunteer
for a cause they care about.
They form a clear picture of how to best serve the common good.
They're well-organized and resolute when it comes to putting their plan into action.
At their finest, mature and healthy INFJs combine empathy for people's feelings and
motivations with the ambition and organization to put global plans in place to improve people's
lives.
INFJs have varied goals, but they all have a sprout of something bigger inside them that
they want to nurture and grow.
They acknowledge and celebrate their accomplishments
An INFJ with an idealistic, future-focused personality type may be prone to focusing
on the next thing.
INFJs are extremely passionate people.
When they become interested in something, they quickly immerse themselves for hours
to see what they can learn and obtain from it.
Because they are hesitant to follow their hearts, most immature INFJs are stuck in their
9-to-5 jobs or current unfulfilling lives.
This makes it tough to appreciate everything they have accomplished.
What they don't comprehend is that embracing happiness will assist them in achieving success
in life.
A healthy and mature INFJ will take time to reflect on where they came from and what they've
accomplished in their lives on a regular basis.
They'll rejoice in such things and focus on the joy they bring.
They will find fuel for their quest by keeping track of their achievements.
They have a well-managed life
They are able to maintain physical, spiritual, and emotional equilibrium.
An INFJ can obtain a healthy mind and body by balancing these three vital components
of life.
This allows a mature and healthy INFJ to properly meet their social needs while also getting
some alone time.
It all starts with them admitting that they are INFJs and that they require plenty of
alone time to recharge and reclaim their lost energy, as well as connecting with the outside
world and volunteering in their communities.
They can be themselves
People's misconceptions about INFJs make them feel challenged every day and they always
feel difficult about their lives because no one can understand their complex nature.
Mature and healthy INFJs completely grasp their personality and how they differ from
the rest of the MBTI community.
They've accepted how the world works and how it sees them, and they've recognized that
the battle isn't worth it, and that constant self-analysis would only lead to misery.
They don’t dwell on criticism
INFJs are the judging type.
They have a strong desire for beauty and anything that appeals to their senses.
This is why they aren't completely honest with others about their thoughts and feelings
about a concept or ideology.
INFJs in their early stages are continuously concerned about what others might think of
their reactions to a variety of emotional events.
They easily withdraw from situations like this and avoid opportunities to express themselves.
INFJs who are more mature do not dwell on criticism.
They embrace it wholeheartedly and utilize it as a tool to help them improve and flourish.
They prioritize their needs
INFJs are naturally empathetic and caring to others.
They will give you everything they have merely to ease you of your troubles, even if it means
putting their own safety on the line.
For mature and healthy INFJs, this is not the case.
Mature and healthy INFJs are selective about when and to whom they freely provide their
abilities.
They know when and how to say no, and they are aware when they are being used.
Putting their needs first protects them against abusive and greedy people.
They recognize that being self-fulfilled allows them to be more careful and alert of those
around them and how they may completely contribute to the needs of their community.
They understand that prioritizing themselves is perfectly acceptable.
People will appreciate them even more.
But, most importantly, they will gain the self-respect that they so richly deserve.
They contribute to the growth of their community
What distinguishes an INFJ from the rest of the MBTI personality types is their desire
to make the world a better place.
This calling is overlooked on immature INFJs.
They are perplexed as to how the positive shift will affect their life.
The goals of protecting the world's resources and being present in our social responsibilities
drive mature and healthy INFJs.
They not only think about having a positive and long-lasting impact on the community,
but they also do something about it and act when they can.
Mastering the unique strengths of the INFJ personality type is critical to an INFJ's
success in career, relationship and self-actualization.
When an INFJ reaches maturity, their strength and intelligence are astounding.
They become more open, confident, and capable of turning any concept into a reality at this
point.
The road to maturity, on the other hand, will be incredibly challenging but if they really
want it, they will be able to achieve it.