There's something about being highly intelligent that comes with a unique set of struggles.
For INFJs, these struggles may be amplified as
they often feel misunderstood and out of place in the world.
So let’s explore 10 Struggles of being a Highly Intelligent INFJ.
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They can have a harder time relating to people
Highly intelligent INFJs are certainly capable of great intellectual feats,
however they often have a harder time relating to others.
INFJs with great intelligence tend to be immensely more introspective and intuitive
than the average person. They are often incredibly deep thinkers with a strong
sense of empathy. But this combination of qualities can sometimes make it difficult
for them to understand and be understood by the overwhelming majority of people they encounter.
Because of their greater level of intuition, they can see minute details in things that seem
completely inconspicuous to others. Pointing this out can make them seem aloof or even arrogant at
times, because most people just can’t fathom their unique ability to see the un-seeable.
Highly intelligent INFJs also tend to have harder time understanding why other people
don't think as deeply as they do. As a result,
they can often feel like they are the only ones who truly understand the world around them.
They can get bored very easily
Highly intelligent INFJs tend to have a greater capacity for deep thinking. They
are often able to see the world in more unique and insightful ways. However, this same capacity
for introspection and depth of thought can also lead to a certain sense of boredom.
These INFJs often find that the world around them does not meet their need
for intellectual stimulation. As a result they may often become bored
with routine tasks or with people who do not share their love of learning.
These INFJs are often searching for something more, something that will challenge them and
engage their minds. For this reason, INFJs may find themselves drawn to solitary activities,
as there are less people able to engage their mind in a conversation.
However, while these INFJs may get bored easily,
they also have the ability to find great joy and satisfaction in the things that interest
them. For highly intelligent INFJs, life is a never-ending journey of growth and discovery.
They can overthink and analyze every decision before making it
Highly intelligent INFJs are known to have deep insights into the human condition,
and an ability to see the world through multiple perspectives. However, this
same capacity for insight and understanding can also make INFJs notoriously indecisive.
Because they can see all sides of a situation so clearly, highly intelligent INFJs often have
difficulty choosing just one course of action. They may second-guess themselves constantly,
second-guessing their choices and wondering if they could have done things differently. This
can be a frustrating experience for these INFJs, who often just want to find a way to move forward.
Highly Intelligent INFJs also have an increased level of empathy. When faced with a decision,
they will always carefully consider how varying outcomes will affect others.
This thoughtful analysis can be invaluable in some situations,
but it can also lead these INFJs into an even deeper state of analysis paralysis.
They will relied on for advise, and this can be burdensome
Highly intelligent INFJs are often seen as the wise seers of the world.
The people in their lives often rely on them for their advise and guidance,
and while this can be gratifying, it can also be quite burdensome.
INFJs are introverts by nature, and while they enjoy helping others,
they need time to recharge in solitude. When they are constantly bombarded with
questions and requests for advice, it can wear them down both mentally
and emotionally. They may begin to feel like they are never given the chance to just be.
In these moments, these INFJs tend to feel obligated to always be available for others. They
can have a more difficult time setting boundaries and making time for themselves, which means they
can be more prone to becoming overwhelmed and exhausted by the people in their lives
They want to save the world
Most INFJs are inclined to be helpers. They are incredibly empathetic,
and they value peace and harmony. They are very in tune with other people’s emotions,
and they can quickly pick up on the moods and mental states of the people around them.
When they see suffering, they don’t just understand the emotions,
but they can also feel peoples sadness deeply. So INFJs tend
to have a greater inclination to help the people around them and take care
of their well-being. And this feeling can be heightened with greater intelligence.
Highly intelligent INFJs can sense things in their environment to a higher degree.
As a result, they can see the potential pain that others are heading towards,
and it can be hard for them to just stand by and watch.
They want to help, but sometimes there is nothing they can do.
This can lead to these INFJs feeling overwhelmed by the weight of the world.
They may often try to withdraw from society in order to protect themselves from hurt,
but this usually only makes them feel more isolated. It can therefore be a delicate balance,
finding a way to help others, without sacrificing their own well-being.
They can be very critical of themselves and others
Highly intelligent INFJ tend to have a greater intensity and depth of feeling. They can be
a lot more self-aware, especially when it comes to their own strengths and weaknesses.
This increased level of awareness can often lead these INFJs to be more critical of themselves
and others - never feeling like their good enough, or that they could always be doing
more. They may also find fault in others, even when there is no real reason to do so.
These INFJs will usually have a relentless strive for perfection, both in themselves and in the
world around them. This can inevitably lead to a lot of conflict and frustration in their lives.
They can feel like they don't fit into traditional roles
Highly intelligent INFJs tend to be more individualistic than most, and as a result, they
may find it difficult to conform to traditional paths in their education and work lives.
This is because they often feel a strong need to follow their own unique callings,
even if it means going against the grain. They may feel out of place in a traditional classroom
setting, where they are expected to conform to the norms and learn in a linear fashion.
These INFJs may also struggle in a traditional career, where they are expected to follow set
rules and procedures. Instead, they thrive more when they are able to express their creativity
and intuition. Many often find success as entrepreneurs, artists, or counselors. In
these roles, they are able to use their unique INFJ gifts to make a difference in the world.
They can find it harder to find love
Highly intelligent INFJs are often drawn to people
who share their passion for knowledge and understanding. They crave deep,
meaningful conversations and relationships that allow them to grow and explore new ideas.
However, they also tend to be fiercely independent, requiring a lot of time to
digest their thoughts and recharge from social interactions. As a result, they can find it
difficult to find a partner who truly understands and appreciates their need for space and solitude.
They also tend to have incredibly high standards for both themselves and others.
They want to find someone who is ambitious, intelligent, and driven. While this can be
admirable qualities to seek in a partner, they’re often unyielding prerequisites,
so it can also make it hard to find someone who meets all of their criteria.
They can put a lot of pressure on themselves to succeed
INFJs with increased intelligence tend to be more driven to achieve their goals,
and they often put a lot of pressure on themselves to succeed.
They see the world differently than other people,
and they have a strong desire to make a difference. As a result,
they can put an immense amount of undue pressure on themselves to find a worthy purpose in life.
They can be constantly striving to reach their full potential,
which can sometimes lead to them comparing themselves to others,
who they think are doing better - creating feelings of insecurity and inadequacy.
Highly intelligent INFJs will usually set unbelievably high standards for
themselves and their work. They can have a heightened sense of perfectionism - making
them feel like they have to do everything perfectly, every time.
When they don't meet their own expectations, they can be unreasonably hard on themselves.
Its true, life can be a great struggle at times for intelligent people with the
INFJ personality type. However it’s not all bad. Greater intelligence
can give INFJs an increased ability to see both sides of every issue,
and a greater push to always strive for improvement - in themselves and in the world
around them. This can lead them to be highly successful in whatever they set their mind to.
But let us know in the comments how being a highly
intelligent INFJ has worked (or hasn’t worked) for you.