It's been a heavy year, for many reasons, but the death of music legend Eddie Van Halen,
announced on October 6, 2020, is yet another sad marker of time's passage.
Van Halen was, of course, a man who needed no introduction. As the primary songwriter
and namesake of the rock band Van Halen - alongside his brother,
drummer Alex Van Halen - he was often regarded as one of the greatest guitarists in history,
largely due to his pioneering of the "tapping" technique that he would make famous.
"My mom used to say, 'Why do you have to make that
high crying noise?' I'd go, 'Well, it bought your house, didn't it?'"
Throughout the decades, though the band itself saw many roster changes,
the Van Halen brothers remained a constant presence,
influencing countless young musicians across the world. In recent years, unfortunately,
Van Halen's life was marked largely by both personal crises and health tragedies.
"You play music, you don't work it. But at times it can be hard work to be able to play it."
In 2000, he came down with tongue cancer, a tragic occurrence which he believed was
caused by the copper and brass guitar picks that he often left in his mouth,
on the precise location where the cancer formed. Though he was declared cancer-free
two years later, the ensuing decade proved to be a roller coaster nonetheless,
since he had to overcome his drug and alcohol addictions, finally reaching sobriety in 2008.
However, in 2019, it was revealed to the public that Van Halen had been
struggling with throat cancer for the past half-decade ... and sadly,
it seems that this battle probably consumed much of his final year.
Public awareness of Van Halen's cancer diagnosis arrived in the fall of 2019, when the musician
spent multiple days at a hospital due to abdominal concerns, presumed to be a side
effect of the cancer treatments he was undergoing. He had, reportedly, been diagnosed with cancer
five years before that point, but kept his health struggles largely private. Already in his 60s, Van
Halen faced an uphill battle during his last 12 months, as he continued his radiation treatment.
In January 2020, five years since the band's last show, his band mate David Lee Roth
cast doubt on the idea of a Van Halen reunion to the Las Vegas Review Journal, stating,
"Ed's not doing well, and singing and dancing is a perishable skill."
The struggles that Van Halen and his family endured in the musician's final year were,
most likely, familiar to anyone who has ever had a loved one with cancer.
In the end, when his son Wolfgang broke the news, he wrote:
"I can't believe I'm having to write this, but my father, Edward Lodewijk Van Halen,
lost his long and arduous battle with cancer this morning. He was the best father I could
ever ask for. Every moment I've shared with him on and off stage was a gift."
With a recurrence of cancer, Eddie Van Halen became something of a recluse.
He was no longer touring, no longer recording. From time to time, he'd show up in public,
sometimes quite unexpectedly. In October 2019, Rolling Stone reported a charming
story of a fan at a Tool concert who wanted a selfie with the stage in the background.
Common enough. And who wouldn't? Apparently the fan was selfie-stick impaired, because he asked
another concert goer to take the shot for him. And that nice fellow fan cheerfully obliged.
The guy drafted to be the photographer of the moment was,
yes, Eddie Van Halen. And the subject of the photo probably wishes he'd had the camera turned around
for another selfie with a genuine guitar legend. Eddie's son Wolfgang posted,
"A guy asked my dad if he could take a picture of him with the stage behind him,
having no idea who he just asked, and that was my favorite moment from the Tool show last night."
People magazine reports that part of Eddie's isolation was made possible by his family,
who gathered around him and protected him not only from the coronavirus, but also protected
his privacy during his final health battles. By the end, the cancer that claimed his life
had spread to all of his organs. The last three days were a particularly steep decline.
Still, the guitar legend reached out via social media, maintaining contacts, expressing love
for family and friends. He reached out to brother Alex for a birthday wish via Instagram. In another
message on Instagram, he marked his son Wolfgang's birthday with a shot of the newborn, writing,
"Best day of my life! Happy Birthday Wolf! I love you so much!! Your Pop."