- Shh, there are six secrets
that I'm about to share with you
in this video right now that guys actually wish
that you knew about us.
but I gotta warn you once you know these secrets,
you can't unknow them,
but the good news is
guys actually want you to know this information.
We just won't necessarily come out
and tell you about these things.
Keep watching.
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Hey there Adam LoDolce from LoveStrategies.com,
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So let's jump right into it.
Number one is that men don't pick up on the subtle cues
as well as you do.
This is science.
We are not as good as you women out there
at picking up subtle voice inflections,
as well as facial gestures.
On one hand, this is just ingrained into your biology.
You're much more aware of subtle cues,
but also this is something that you learn as you grew up,
because think about it back when you are middle school
or even high school for you as a woman,
you needed to be very good at navigating social situations,
much better than us guys.
If you didn't know how to pick up
on the most subtle flick of a hair or the subtle
just little way that a woman would look at you,
your life could be absolute misery.
Navigating the social scene with other women
can be incredibly challenging
and requires a lot of social acumen.
And this continues on throughout high school,
throughout college and even into adulthood.
I mean, have you ever seen "The Real Housewives",
whereas us men,
we're not as in tune with these things
because we haven't had to be.
When men would have conflict,
typically we would either fight
or we would ignore each other,
there wasn't that much in between.
When boys would have conflict growing up,
either it would end with cursing or end in a physical fight.
There wasn't that much gray area in between.
Moral of the story,
if you want us guys to know something that's on your mind,
don't be subtle about it,
we probably are not reading your cues.
Tell us what's on your mind.
Secret number two is that
we're almost always listening to you,
it's just we might not really like
what it is that you're saying.
Have you ever been trying to tell a guy something
and it almost seems as
if he's just not paying attention to you
and he's completely tuning you out.
The reality is he probably hears
exactly what it is that you're saying,
but he's trying not to engage
because he knows that if he engages,
he's probably going to have to actually talk
about his feelings, the good old strategy of avoidance.
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Secret number three,
is that the way that we say I love you to you
is by trying to solve your problems.
You've probably experienced this before.
You come home from a really long day
and you just want to vent.
You don't wanna hear any solutions
to anything you're about to say,
but you just want to vent it out
and what does he immediately go into
problem solving mode.
And I hate to break it to you,
but the cornerstone of masculine energy is problem solving.
We think in our little brains
that if we can solve your problem in a rational way,
that it will help you in that moment.
And what of course we fail to realize
is that it's not about the problem,
it's about the venting and you just want to emote.
So the moral of the story is
if he is trying to solve your problems
and he's not really doing it
in a very emotionally intelligent way,
just know he's probably doing it because he loves you.
Secret number four is that men actually care about monogamy.
So many women that we talk to
who are trying to sign up for love accelerator
and go through our interview process to do so,
they think that men don't want monogamy anymore,
but that is not true.
In fact, out of a recent survey that we found
nine out of 10 Americans said
they would marry their spouse again,
but believe it or not,
men are more likely to say
that they would marry their spouse than women were.
95% of men would marry their wives again,
only 85% of women would marry their husbands again.
Moral of the story,
apparently we like you more than you like us.
Secret number five
and this really isn't that big of a secret,
but I'm gonna say it anyways,
we need guy time.
He's not trying to hang out with the guys
because he likes the guys more than you,
he wants to hang out with the guys
because the guys are just more fun than you are.
I'm just kidding come on,
guys liked to hang out with their significant others,
but they also like to hang out with the guys.
It's a totally different dynamic, totally different energy
and chances are, if you're like most of our clients,
you want your own space as well.
And secret number six is that we are constantly plagued
by our thoughts of sex.
Now there's an old myth out there that says that
men think about sex every seven seconds.
Now that has been debunked.
That is not true.
However, there was an actual peer reviewed study that showed
that men actually think about sex as much as twice
as often as you women out there do.
We think about sex about 19 to 20 times a day
and you think about sex about 10 times a day.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments below,
which of these secrets surprised you the most.
And if you are ready to take this to the next level
and really understand men on a much deeper level,
make sure you head on over to whymenflake.com,
you're not gonna wanna miss the training there.
Thank you so much for watching,
I'll speak to you you sexy single lady next week.
Bye bye.