there is nothing more confusing and frustrating than falling for a girl that already has a
boyfriend you have two simple options number one move on and find someone else who is single
or number two start the chase and hope that she falls for you now let's talk about the
elephant in the room you should only opt for chasing if she is emotionally available to you
now you really need to ask yourself why do you want to be with someone that already
has a boyfriend but regardless of that let's talk about what you need to do if you want to
grab a girl who already has a boyfriend my name is anna and stay tuned for the video
very first thing to do get the low down on her boyfriend find out where you are at with her now
do not bad mouth her boyfriend as it could backfire and you may end up losing interest
well she loses it and you should be safe instead you want to build her trust and get her to confess
and share how she really feels about him now you can agree about his flaws and bad habits
if she brings them up and then use them to your advantage which we will talk about further along
in the video but most of all you need to identify where you stand are you going to be a rebound are
you going to be able to bag this skill for your lifetime partner if she actually breaks up tip 2
please give her space to grieve the breakup now it's very important that she has the space to
grieve what has happened before you even consider dating her it doesn't matter if she tells you that
she was unhappy she already emotionally left the relationship and that she is ready to date
you when she breaks up she needs the space she could be using you as a rebound or a crutch to
avoid the pain of healing without even realizing that herself you need to make sure that she still
wants to be with you a couple weeks later after the breakup has happened now she is going to be
emotionally all over the place and you don't want to rush into something that isn't a long-term
thing right make sure that you are the only choice that she has if she was romantically involved with
you while she was currently dating her boyfriend well let's be honest it would make you wonder if
she's going to do the exact same to you if you guys got together now the best thing to do here
is to start the chase and to make sure that she is emotionally invested into you now don't worry
we have a video dedicated to the psychology of the chase and how to actually begin the process
and why women love it so go watch that next but apart from the chase you want to make sure that
you and her will actually be an item so you need to discuss with her the expectations
the wants and needs of both of you to make sure you really are both on the same page
you have to let her know how you feel but what if you like a girl that you had some flirty banter
with you may think that she's interested in you but are you really that sure probably not for
starters if she has been flirting with you there's a good chance that she does like you but you need
to make it known it could be that does she like you and she's sticking out the old relationship
waiting for something better to come along then jump into relationship with you you need to let
her know how you feel ramp up the flirting as a subtle indicator of your feelings and see how
she responds back if she doesn't ghost you and she does flirt back then you can tell her how you feel
and maybe you getting it off your chest will make the situation work out in your favor it's actually
going to set the tone for the next steps so she knows how to act because you need to see how she
will respond she will respect your forwardness as it shows that you are serious about your feelings
and you want things to work it could be she takes you up on the offer and breaks up with
a boyfriend and dates you or she turns you down a lot of guys seem to think that women actually like
them when they're already in a relationship when it turns out they were just being flirted with
so you need to make your feelings very known make sure it's as simple as i like you type of sentence
so she knows what you feel be what she wants and also what she needs if you are in a current
situationship where she has talked about how unhappy she is in the relationship or hinted at
someone she feels that she has something missing in the relationship you have the upper hand
you need to adopt the traits and the things that she is missing out on and craving to see you as a
good match so that she can be with you instead and if you aren't too sure exactly what she is missing
from her boyfriend just playing the gentleman lead will never not work out so be humble and kind
treat her well and show her that you are there for her but most importantly
be the emotional support be a shoulder to cry on and give her a solid reason to actually leave her
boyfriend for if she can see that you are the better option to date she is more than likely
happy to leave her boyfriend for you please do not get physical until she leaves the relationship
now i get it you have these deep feelings for her you may be fantasizing about embracing with
her passionately but you have to hold back you need her to leave that relationship before you
ask for something more physical because one this shows that you respect her and that you are a
gentleman and won't rush into anything which then it won't backfire later down the line
and two it tells her that you are serious about her and you are willing to wait until she's out
of the relationship before you take things to the next level and this pushes her along to
begin the breakup process if she doesn't receive anything physical from you she could lose interest
quickly which then you know she only ever wanted a physical relationship from you and not emotional
but it also shows that you are not a player it means you are there with her you want her for the
long haul and she's going to respect and like you more stay in contact regularly you need to focus
on getting her attention and keeping it and one of the easiest ways to do so is just to be in regular
contact with her even if you aren't too sure of her feelings you still need to be keeping in touch
ask her to go out and do some fun things together even if it's in a group situation and you can tag
her in funny things on social media as well most importantly you have to build her trust a woman
this applies to every woman they want to date someone that they can connect with emotionally
so you need to show her your vulnerable side open up to her and share some deep thoughts that
not many people know it could be something from your childhood it could be that you are secretly
pursuing a hustle under the scene so that no one knows you're going for a different career path
something that she will know is personal and she knows not many people know because this is the
invitation for her to do the same for you and if she trusts you she's more likely to want to date
you and break up with her boyfriend for this is my favorite tip surprise her with her love language
you know i said you can get the upper hand if you know what things her boyfriend doesn't do
well you can most definitely be one step ahead of her boyfriend by understanding her love language
better than what he does now we recommend the five love languages by gary chapman and
the link to buy the book or the audio is in the description bar below now it could be that her
boyfriend doesn't know the acts of service is her language so you can beat him to it
and show her these acts of service which is something that helps her out and makes her life
easier so you could offer to fix something for her that her boyfriend isn't organise her desk
at work for her help her revise for an exam clean her car make her a surprise cup of coffee at work
these will all work in your favor give her some genuine compliments you need to make her feel
special because this will constantly keep her thinking about you which means she's gonna fall
for you even harder and even quicker so instead of just giving her compliments about how she looks
pick out something more meaningful about what she has invested her time into
this shows that you appreciate her hard work and you actually do notice the finer details
for something she has worked towards and i promise you this will definitely give you some good points
be her emotional support post we touched on this just briefly but it needs a whole tip on its own
because when you have built her trust and she feels comfortable with you
you need to let her come to you for the emotional support now this gives you the upper hand over her
boyfriend and lets her feel safe so that she wants to date you instead so you need to be attentive to
her emotions and give her all the time that she needs to talk to you and when she does listen
and be genuine show an interest in her problems don't interrupt her and also remember things
from past conversations and bring them up into future conversations now the attention to detail
by remembering conversation snippets makes her feel special and it lets her want to emotionally
open up to you and if you can get her to feel emotionally connected to you she will realize
there's actually no benefit to stay with her boyfriend if she's getting boyfriend vibes from
you let her make the first move you guys can flirt and you can spend lots of time with each other but
out of respect make sure that she is the one to make the first move when she's ready let her chase
you and keep up the interest between you both and wow we made it to the end of the video if you like
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