I found out that Bailey and Jasmine
were not in a relationship about five weeks ago.
Jasmine contacted me through another family member
and I spoke with her on the phone.
Jasmine told me that Bailey would not leave her alone
and that if we didn't get Bailey to stop contacting her,
she was gonna have her arrested.
I told Jasmine to cut off all communication with her
and to stop responding to her or texting her,
and that's when Jasmine told me that
she hasn't had any communication with her,
that she doesn't call her on the phone,
that she doesn't text her.
I was shocked.
And so I talked to Bailey about it,
and she said, "Oh, she only contacted you
"because she cares about me."
In her mind, Bailey can't separate fantasy and reality
when it comes to this relationship with Jasmine.
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It's good to meet you.
You been watching from the beginning, right?
Yes.
Okay.
What do you think about her conduct
since she's been out here?
She's been very manic.
She's been extremely extremely happy.
And then very very sad.
And very definite that she didn't want me here.
Yeah.
What do you think about her behavior
since she walked out here and started talking to me?
Cause I don't, this is the first time I've met her.
Correct.
So you're giving me a baseline on her behavior.
I think she had unrealistic expectations of today
and because it wasn't what she wanted to happen,
she became very defensive.
And so, she tends to
flip between the rational normal Bailey
to the very irrational, very,
expecting more than is humanly possible.
Yeah.
I tell you what I think and the reason I shut this down.
And I may talk to her yet today before we're finished,
but it's gonna be with hitting the reset button
and starting this whole thing over.
Right.
But, I think she came out here
in a very snotty, entitled way,
like, "My mother's not supposed to be here,"
well, are you kidding me?
You don't dictate what I do from a clinical standpoint,
there's not one chance in hell that I would talk with her
without her responsible parent here.
Well there wasn't a chance in hell I wasn't gonna be here.
Well, no.
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Of course not.
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I think that would be irresponsible on my part and yours,
you and I are totally the same wavelength there,
I mean you and I need to work together
to get this very talented, bright, creative young woman
back on the right track.
She had the expectation today that she was coming onstage
and getting proposed to.
Right.
And if not she was going to propose.
Yes.
And when I think she got here and Jasmine wasn't onstage,
I think she,
I think she just put up her defenses.
And the fact that she saw that I was here.
Yeah, and Dr. Sophy,
Dr. Sophy right here,
you know he and I, we've been talking long about this,
yesterday, we talked about it this morning,
that the only way that I was ever going to let
Jasmine be onstage with Bailey,
is if Bailey woke up,
came to the realization that she had lost her bearings here
and was prepared to apologize to Jasmine
for having harassed her, wish her well,
and go on her way.
That would be the only circumstance and situation
that I would ever bring a stalker and the stalkee
together at the same time.
I would not put them together here and just simply,
that'd be like throwing gas on a fire to me.
Right.
And so the chance of them being here together
at the same time is a slim chance,
but a chance if she was to hear what I had to say
and wake up about this.