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“My wife of 10 years was caught cheating at a LOCAL CONCERT.
I can't believe she would do something like this to me.
After 10 years, I thought I knew her better than that.
You won't believe what my wife did last night.
She was caught cheating on me at a LOCAL concert with someone from the band.
For the most part, our marriage has been good, we don't have any kids yet, we wanted to wait until our finances were a little better, pay off some student loans and some credit card debt.
My wife has always been into music, loves going to concerts, I am NOT a big fan of them, but she attends them with her friend quite frequently, and they both follow a local band here in town.
But, I found out by accident, that she cheated at one of these concerts.
I have no idea how she could do something like this to me.
After 10 years, I couldn't be more surprised, and shocked.
I found out she cheated in the craziest way . We were at a party and one of my friends came up to me and said he saw a video that surfaced
on social media about a past concert, and it mentioned something about "groupies", so I pulled him aside, and asked what he was talking about.
He told me that another friend of his, sent him a link to a video, I asked him why he was telling me about a video, he looked at me, and told me, he thinks, I should look at it, he then sent me the link to the video.
I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw it.
There she was, plain as day, with some other guy, having sex with him, from the looks of it, they were in some kind of make shift room at the concert.
The band must have had cameras around or something, I don't know how she ended up with this guy alone in this room, I guess I'll never know.
But, I was devastated when I saw it, I couldn't believe my eyes.
I didn't confront her about it, my mind started thinking, is this the only time she has cheated?
Her friend goes to these concerts with her, and has never said anything to me.
Over the next few days, I was trying to process how she could do this to me, and I came to the conclusion, I had to end things.
She hasn't apologized or anything, and the concert happened almost a month ago, I don't think she knows, I know.
This has really messed me up, I never thought she would cheat on me, let alone with some random guy at a concert."
Usually, I am the one that initiates intimacy, since seeing the video, I haven't touched her.
So, my next step was to start putting things in motion, I didn't want to bring attention to myself, so, I downloaded the video from the link that was provided, and made a copy of it.
Second, I researched our phone bill to see if she had planned this whole thing with this guy, turns out, there was a phone number that I didn't recognize, it turned out to be the guy's number she cheated on me with, he is the actual drummer of the band.
I wanted to talk to her friend, but she would let my wife know that I knew she cheated, I did NOT want that.
Fast forward a week, I don't let my wife know anything, I have been calling for places to rent, as well as calling a few divorce attorneys to see what would happen in divorce, for my situation.
My wife is a nurse, and she makes pretty decent money.
We don't have any kids, so I wouldn't have to pay child support.
I called an attorney and asked him, what are the chances I get spousal support?
If we make the same amount of money, he told me that it was unlikely, but possible.
I told him, I really didn't care, I was just inquiring, I told him, I have proof my wife cheated on me, what are my chances of getting out of this marriage in one piece?
The attorney said, with video evidence, it would be pretty easy to get a divorce.
I told him that the video was taken without her knowledge and posted on social media, he said, we still can use it as evidence.
He asked me, did we have any other assets together, I told him, we have 2 cars, both paid for.
He indicated she will probably get one of the cars in the divorce, especially if it's her transportation, to and from work.
After talking to the attorney, I decided, I would keep the car that I am driving, and she can keep hers.
Right when I left the attorney's office, I got an URGENT call from my boss.
He wants me to come to his office right away, I told him, I would be there in 10 minutes.
I walk into his office, and he looks at me, and says, "Have you seen this?
I am at a loss as to what he was talking about, but, he hands me his phone, and guess what, it's the video of my wife and the drummer!!
I looked at my boss, and said, ``Yes, I already know, "he said to me, ``Man, I am so sorry, I told him thank you, but I was taking care of it.
He tells me, if you need some time off, please, let me know.
I told him, I appreciate it, but I will be fine.
But, I took my boss up on his offer, I took a week off, to put part of my plan in motion.
Now, my business is all out in the open, it's just a matter of time before word gets back to her that a lot of people will know what she did.
So now, I feel like I am racing against the clock to leave the house, so, after leaving the office.
I made it a point that day, to find a place, get approval for the apartment , and move my stuff out, while she was at work.
She works 12 hour shifts, so she usually doesn't get home until after 7:30 at night, or a little later, she works from 7 in the morning, Until 7PM, and has 3 days off.
Later that day after leaving my job, I was able to find a place, put down a deposit and first month's rent.
Fast forward to the next day, my wife leaves for work, and I put my plan in motion to start moving out.
I didn't want to make it too obvious, so I took a few things at a time.
I figured, I would take my time, and get everything out, while she was at work, that way there wouldn't be any confrontation.
So, over the next few days, I slowly moved my stuff out of the house, little by little, until finally, all my stuff was out of the house.
The last thing I did was leave the keys on the counter , with a note that said, "I'm done".
This is the first time I have EVER posted on a site like this, I will finish this when I have more time after settling into my new place.
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"UPDATE".
- My wife of 10 years was caught cheating on me, at a LOCAL CONCERT".
Hey guys,
I wanted to give you an UPDATE on my situation, as you remember, I moved out of the house I share with my wife, without her knowing anything, after I found out she was cheating on me with some random guy at a concert, who happened to be the drummer for that band.
That night, when she came home from work, she blew my phone up, leaving text messages, voicemails, you name it.
I went to work one day, and my boss said, that my wife was calling, trying to find out where I was, and what I was doing.
My boss told her, I was okay, and she shouldn't worry, but he could tell she was frantic.
She called every day for a week, until I finally called her back, and told her not to call my job anymore, she was still perplexed as to why I suddenly left the house, apparently she hasn't found out, that I knew she cheated.
A few days later, I found out from a friend of mine, that she was trying to file for divorce, and was going around telling people that I abandoned her.
I was so upset, I wanted to confront her about it, but I knew that would be a mistake.
But her telling people I abandoned her, made me mad, and I wanted some revenge, so, my plan was to make a copy of the video I had, and send it to ALL of our friends and family, but, I wanted to wait until after the divorce.
Fast forward 2 weeks, and my wife get's served divorce papers, she calls me crying and screaming, telling me I'm a deadbeat husband, and she never wants to see me again.
I told her, fine, I am okay with that, little did she know, I was planning to show people who she really was.
As the divorce hearing approaches, I started to hear less and less from my soon to be ex-wife, and I had a feeling she may have found out the reason I left, and why I was being so distant.
A few days before the hearing, I get a call from her, and she's crying and begging me to not go through with the divorce, and that she would do anything to make it up to me.
I told her, I wanted NOTHING to do with her, the only thing I heard next, she hung up the phone.
The following day, was the day of the divorce hearing, and as I suspected, she showed up with an attorney.
Her attorney tried to ask for alimony, but, the judge said, since we make the same amount of money, there was no reason for that.
So, the judge asked if there was anything else we needed to discuss, and my attorney said, "no, my client just wants to end the marriage, based on his wife being unfaithful, Colorado is a no-fault state, so the proof I had, was good enough.
The judge granted the divorce, and my soon to be ex-wife was devastated, she started crying and screamed at me, as I walked out of the courtroom.
I didn't care, I was finally free from her, and I could start my life over.
Now, that I was divorced, I created a fictitious email, using a VPN, and sent the video attachment, with the SUBJECT of the email, which was.
"THIS WOMAN DOESN"T CARE WHERE SHE GET'S IT", and I sent it to about 40 contacts, all family and friends.
3 days pass, after I sent that email, and I get a call from my mother, telling me she just got an email with a video of my ex-wife, cheating on me.
I told my mom, yeah, I know, I got the email as well, but, I told my Mom, I had a feeling she was cheating on me, that's why I filed for divorce, but, my Mom, doesn't know that I am behind all of this.
The following day, I get a call from my attorney, telling me that my ex-wife's attorney called him, and she is suing me for defamation of character, and wants to see the video in court.
I told my attorney, to go ahead and show the video in court, because, I didn't send the video, I told the attorney, how can she prove it was me, that sent the video?
I told the attorney, I will fight it, she can't prove the email came from me.
Well, we went to court again, and it was thrown out.
Now, my ex-wife is a laughing stock in our small town, and she has no one to blame but herself.
I know some people wanted me to send the video sooner, but, I think that would have put her on defense, and fight, how could I prove that was her, which was stupid, because, I was married to the woman for 10 years.
I know what she looks like, front and back.
Thank you guys for the support, you really help me get through this, and not play "the pick me dance", and know my value and self worth.
Thank you again.
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