Matt: There's one word that gorgeous women rarely hear, probably because it's pretty
counterintuitive but it can actually boost attraction, get a girl to start chasing you and
make her see you as a real man. Now that one word and the concept that I'm about to share
with you can set you apart from all other guys and get her to see you as the prize! My
name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and this is one word that will make women chase you.
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Matt: Now what I'm about to share with you is slightly controversial. I know that
some of you guys watching this video probably won't agree with what I'm about to say but
first let me share a quick story I was in Belgrade Serbia about five years ago about
to teach a boot camp and I see this gorgeous supermodel looking goddess walking down the
street and naturally I run into when I approach her by the way is exactly how to do that in
other videos here on the channel and everything was going great you know she was into the
approach but she told me she's in a hurry she said she has to go. Girl: I have to go!
Matt: No, what you have to do is tell me one cool thing about you, then you can go. Now I know that kind of
seems like a Dick thing to say you know girls in a hurry and I tell her no he can't go yet
but her eyes lit up partly in shock you can believe I said that but I was all like you
know that sparkle in her eyes like I could tell she was more attracted to me probably
because she had never heard anything like that before the truth is that the hottest
women are used to men throwing themselves at them and they're used to getting everything
handed really to them right on to work for anything and everything for free for example
when I lived in Las Vegas I did a really attractive cocktail waitress and you get into the hottest
clubs for free get bottle service for free like ten thousand dollar tables she would
get really expensive meals paid for her should even get invited to expensive vacations just
because she was hot see when women get everything they want at no cost then they start to expect
it and pretty soon they don't value it as much doesn't mean that necessarily don't appreciate
it it just means they don't value the men who give them everything for really without
them having to aren't just because they're hot on top of that beautiful women almost
never have to work for a man being attracted to her right may just flocked to her because
she's so damn good looking and you never have to do anything to like earned his interest
these women are used to guys showing way too much interest too soon and putting them on
a pedestal. So if you want to attract these kinds of women who are used to guys just fawning
all over them because they're so damn hot, and you have to do the exact opposite. Stop
putting women on a pedestal! Now before I forget make sure to subscribe to this channel if
you're not already subscribed to it right now and hit that bell icon so we can notify
you about upcoming videos. So you've probably guessed
what that one word is you know that will set you apart from all those suffocating guys
who will do anything she wants and hopes for small piece of the pie it's the word "NO". No
no no that's right just saying the word no two beautiful woman who's used to getting
everything handed to her on a silver platter is very intriguing you see men that don't
stick to their guns and sacrifice their own needs wants passions desires get walked over
by women and are not respected for example let's say you're or mission at this point
in your life is to write a novel so every night you go down to your basement at some
peace and quiet to work on your novel but your wife constantly keep pulling you from
it she's asking for help with the dishes or clean the house or just to spend some time
with her or even have sex with her and it's kind of hard to say no to that one but if
you keep on putting your novel side just to please your woman and eventually just give
up on it and you realize all I just need to focus on her am to please her and make her
my passion my mission she will not only lose respect for you but her attraction for you
will die.
What's really important is that you don't put a woman before your mission
or purpose in life. David Deida said in his book "The way of the superior man" if a man prioritizes
his relationship over his highest purpose he weakens himself deserves the universe and
she says woman of an authentic man who can offer his full undivided presence even if
she says that she wants to be number one in your life what you really want is to support
a man in his mission and purpose just one man who throws it all away just for her once
in awhile she might even test you to see if she can knock you off your course a good woman
will do this now she doesn't want to actually knock you off your course she just wants to
feel that you are a real man that can stand up to her and say no to her now course he's
probably gonna be a little displeased that she didn't get what she wanted but should
be more attracted to you in the long run now this doesn't mean that you should say no to
everything she wants or use it as some sort of manipulation tactic just like in the novel
example you might say yes to her sometimes it's all about balance you say no when you
really need it and I can apply at any point interaction like with a girl in Serbia I said
a within a minute of meeting her now that's not gonna work all the time if the girl wasn't
attracted to me she probably would just laughed and walked away but the point is to be more
of a challenge with women so that they see you as a real man instead of a suffocating
me little child.
And this isn't meant to be like a harsh thing you don't actually have to say
the word no all the time no no no no you can just make fun little restrictions every time
you also make a request I call this technique restricted requests let's go back to my place
but no sex let's go get copy but only for ten minutes then I have to go no touching
below the belt here but your number here but no calling twenty times a day.
That's all you get no more.
Now obviously these are just little one liner examples what women usually love
them because they leave them wanting more when you put a restriction on something it
shows you that you're not that easy like you know every other guy that she's used to because
it's no fun for a woman if she knows about a shadow of a doubt that you're a hundred
percent into her in the old pretty much do anything for her she actually wants to wonder
a little and she wants to even have to win you over this is actually the basis of flirting
flirting is not just showing your interest all the time it showing your interest but
then playfully taking away keeps are guessing a little bit which makes things a lot more
interesting for women love to tax the color girlfriends at all he did this thing it was
so sweet they really show that was into me but they did this other thing and I'm not
really sure of using to me what you think about that and they don't call it girlfriend
getting opinions love doing that if she knows right away that you're totally in love with
her you'd go home with or even make your girlfriend then the game is over for her the fun for
her is in the flirting so if you're the type of guy that never says no to women and you're
not used to using restrictions then start doing it you'll notice that her eyes light
up as she realizes that you're different in all the other guys out there and she begins
looking back with you now if you really want to know how to be a challenge I created a
YouTube video that's all about qualification which is one of the best concepts principles
tactics whatever you wanna call it when it comes to being a challenge you should be doing
this in all of your interactions through out the interaction because it's one of the best
ways to get her to see you as the prize and get her to start chasing you within minutes
sometimes even seconds of meeting so check that out right now there's a link to the right
of the screen click that and watch a video and make sure to subscribe to this channel
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with us. My name's Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man and I'll see you in the next video.