Hey guys, it's Jen this week's video is gonna be a little bit different
You probably already noticed this glass of wine that I'm sippin on that's because this week
we're just hanging out so I was thinking and kind of came to the
realization that I don't really open my DMS as
Frequently as I should so basically I am going to go on Twitter right now
And I'm gonna open a bunch of DMS from you guys, and we're just gonna talk
I asked you guys to ask me questions, ask for advice, send me things. I don't care
We're just gonna hang out really quick before we start doing that I am purposely
Wearing this Brayer high school shirt this week, because season three of Foursome is
Officially out on YouTube red this season things are a little bit different
there is not an episode coming out every single week because
Every single episode of season 3 is already out so if you guys are fans of the show go check it out and binge that s**t
Because you can I am so excited for you guys to see this season of the show I really put him a lot of time
And hard work
And I would just love if you guys watched it. Even if you aren't a fan of the show, if you've never seen it before
Then just go check it out because there are three seasons worth of content out. That's 26 episodes
so, there is a lot for you to watch .I promise you will love it because it is just
Such a fun show, but anyway enough of that. Let's get into the video
I have my laptop right here, and I'm on Twitter
So let's read some DM SVU McCallister message me something pretty long asking for my advice
So I'm gonna read it to you guys. I've been procrastinating a lot
I often overthink about my assignments and not getting it done and instead I'm doing other things like go on Twitter
watching your YouTube videos
Watching TV shows to distract me from overthinking that makes me so stressed when it's close to the deadline
I'm even more stressed because the time is almost up and I haven't gotten anything done yet
It just goes on and on and on to the point that I get stressed more and more every single day
How do I stop this bad habit?
honestly I
procrastinate
So much
But I think something that really helped me a lot with
Procrastination is writing lists of things that I need to get done and giving myself breaks.
Let me delve in a little deeper...
Every day I write a list of everything that I need to get done and
Checking something off the list is almost like so satisfying that it makes me more inclined to do it
But that just might be a me thing so my other advice is to give yourself breaks
I swear to god for some reason if you take more breaks even if they're just for short periods of time you end up being
More productive because you are like allowing yourself to get what you want
Which is just a little bit of time of not doing anything? That's what's worked for me. So hopefully that's helpful
Oh my god photo x-jen on Twitter DM
Me and said send me a pic of your Logan Paul shrine
You guys I'm reading this DM to you because I just need to talk about this
I think it's the funniest s**t ever if you guys saw my video where I was basically
Exposing ricky dillion and talking about why we weren't friends anymore
There is a part of the video where I say that I told ricky a deep secret of mine and that I would blur it
Because I didn't want you guys to know what it was but I wanted to tell the story
Anyway most of you guys caught on to this I purposely did not blur it because that's part of the joke so many people
Thought that I forgot to blur it. I swear to god
I was getting tweets all day of people like sending me a screenshot of my
Secret legitimately concerned for me that I had uploaded it onto the Internet and honestly at that point. I was like
You know what if you believe that?
Then go ahead and keep living your life believing that because that's just f*****g funny.
Oh no, I hit the camera Multi a GPS is asking me for advice
She said I suffer from self-confidence issues
And I was asking you if you know ways on how to make someone feel better about themselves
I feel like it's something that comes with self growth and finding confidence in yourself is such a personal experience like I used to have no
Confidence and I think a big reason why that is is because I used to compare myself
in Every aspect to anyone else whether I knew them
Or didn't know that and in my brain everyone else was better than me like no matter what I was comparing
I never came out on top so I think a big way that I gained confidence is really by not comparing myself
Or the things I do or the things I have anyone else and that's just me personally could be different for you
But maybe try it at love for jennxpenn asked me will you ever make new merch?
I want to I just don't know what to make. I just want my merch to be like
F*****g cool, you know and I want it to be something that I would wear myself for me would not be like a t-shirt that says
Like Jennxpenn across the front
I just haven't sat down and thought about what that cooler thing would be slash what it would look like yeah
I definitely will make new merch if you guys are interested in that you know what leave a comment down below if you would be
Interested in that because for real if it's a thing that you guys want
I will put the time and energy into coming up with something. I just haven't because I
Don't know oh my god. Oh
my god
He throws 96
sent me a picture of me from filming season 3 of me
Foursome this past year and asked me can I explain foursome season three in two words?
Dramatic as f**k. That's one word second were just like next level by the time this video goes up
I will probably have seen all the episodes, but at this point in time
I have only seen one episode
And I just think this season is just like new and improved better than ever most dramatic season yet, I don't know you guys
Seriously need to go watch it. It's going amazing. Gen-x Pixlr. Asked me. Okay. What's next since you're done with all night?
How do you juggle all that you do so yeah?
I just finished filming all night, which is a show that is going up on Hulu next year
And then kind of mentioning that in some of my videos, but I haven't talked about it too much
Yeah, but yeah production for that started two weeks after production for foursome ended
Which basically means I shot from June 5th to October 14, and it was really hard to juggle everything
I'm not even gonna sit here and pretend like it wasn't it was
F*****g difficult I still do everything for my channel all by myself. That's cool
Cuz I love doing it, and I think that's all part of the process
But it gets really hard when I'm working on a set for 12 hours a day every single day
I had to miss a couple weeks of posting because of that and I always get really disappointed in myself
When I have to miss a week because I'm my own boss
So I'm like letting myself down if that makes sense so I was really really stressed so for your question of what is next
I'm just chilling out for the rest of the year. I'm not gonna really be doing much
Hopefully go travel or something because I love traveling and I'm trying to get back into photography a little bit is it super
Therapeutic and it was like my original
Passion, but I kind of just stopped doing it because I was busy which is sad
So I'm gonna try to keep up with that at polarised Ricky asked me for advice
They said I feel like I need some help with making friends like I'm such a loner in everything I try being myself around people
But I don't know I guess they don't like me
I've tried a million times to either talk to new people or people I used to know and they always ignore me
What should I do first of all good for you for just like getting out there?
It's already such a great first step making friends is underratedly hard like it is hard to make a good genuine friend
I think you should stop putting so much pressure on yourself to like make friends and just hope that things fall into place because
At the end of the day when you're old and like Haggard as f**k like me
You'll be really happy to have just a handful of really good friends instead of a huge group of s****y
friends
And if you want to meet more new people than trying
Clubs in your school that you're interested in
We're like a sports team or something but always at the end of the day just be yourself because that's how you're gonna make those
Good genuine friends palms Alex asked me. How do I survive the years I have left of high school
Ah, this is my favorite question because guys high school doesn't mean
Anything the only thing that is important about high school is great, and I know that when you're in high school
It feels like it's the world because it is your world, but I'm telling you as soon as you graduate
You literally will never see any of these people again
If you don't want to and that's what's so beautiful about high school graduating and never f*****g going back know
I had a difficult time in high school because of YouTube and I guess my best advice
Is kind of just like bear down and get through it like find that group of friends that you love and all your time with
Those people because those are the people that are going to mean something to you once you graduate and put all of your energy into
Studying as lame as that sounds
I swear you do not want to have the time of your life in high school because b***h you're
gonna peak you just wanna have like
A good time and then get out of there and go live yo life
I don't know
I feel like I answer this question so biased because I f*****g hated high school
but seriously from my
experience the only people that I talk to you are my really close group of friends that I had in high school and one of
Those people in my group of friends is like my very best friend and someone that I will be friends with for the rest of
my life I think that's what's really important at the end of the day and
What you learn while Frank one two three set me up for the perfect promo and ask what's your favorite song right now?
If you guys didn't already know which I'm sure most of you do I have a Spotify and I post a playlist
Every single month with my favorite songs of the month my Spotify is Jen McCallister, so just search that, but yeah
You want to know what my favorite songs are just go check out my playlist because whatever is on that is what I am
Listening to but anyway. Yeah, I'm going to end this video right here
I hope you guys liked this video in this concept
and if you did like it then leave a comment down below letting me know and maybe I'll do another one in the future and also
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So you know when I post a new video, and yeah, I think that that's pretty much it for this week's video.
Thank you guys so much for watching, and I will see you all next Saturday with another new video. Bye.