- Have you ever been in a situation
where the guy that you are dating is still not over his ex?
This is a common situation to be in.
And quite frankly, it can be very nerve wracking.
So let me help you out today with four things
that you can do if he's not over his ex.
Hi, ladies, my name is Ieva,
and I am one of Greta's high value women coaches.
And in this video, I will share four things that you can do
if he is not over his ex.
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So the number one thing that you have to ask yourself
is is he still in contact with her?
First of all, if your guy was in a relationship with a girl
for a longer period of time and recently just broke up,
it's very common that he will still have feelings for her,
especially if it was a longer type of relationship,
or maybe she was his first love.
It might be really hard to face that
and to even think about it
because you already have feelings for this guy yourself.
However, I can assure you that even if he has feelings
for his ex still, it doesn't mean
that your relationship will not work.
If he is still in contact with her,
which might be the case,
make sure to not be vulnerable with him
or open up your heart,
simply because at the end of the day,
you don't want to be heartbroken.
Instead, pay more attention to what he is saying,
or if she still calls him when you guys
are maybe even together, spending time together.
Here it's best to pay attention to how she speaks to him.
Also, it's best to observe him
and observe his actions instead of jumping towards him
and begging him to forget about her.
Doing that won't help you at all.
If anything, it will make the situation worse
because it comes across desperate.
Even if he may be in contact with her every now and again,
or she may call him, it doesn't mean, ladies,
that your relationship is over
or that there is no hope for you guys.
Whatever you do, remind yourself that she is an ex.
Always remind yourself of that.
Also remember that high value women
do not compare themselves to the ex.
Women in general should not be compared to one another.
And you are definitely not doing yourself a favor
by doing so.
Instead, you are fully adding
to the feelings of insecurity that you may be having.
So just leave that be and leave it alone.
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Number two is give it time.
Sadly, you cannot make your guy heal faster,
and you are also not here to listen to his stories
that he wants to share with you about his ex.
So if he mentions his ex,
simply do not pay attention and seem bored.
This is the best way of dealing with it if it does come up.
And also simply give your guy time.
If your guy tells you that he is not over his ex,
then you must give him space.
You must give him space to get over his ex,
and you have to live your life.
I really don't recommend being in a relationship
with a guy who tells you that he is not over his ex,
or even worse, that he's still in love with his ex.
If you would stay in a relationship with a guy
that says something like that,
it shows that you're very desperate to be in a relationship
and that you really don't respect yourself.
And with men, respect and love go hand in hand.
It also shows that you're okay
with being the number two in his life.
And quite frankly, no woman
wants to be the second woman in the relationship.
If you see that he is really still into her
and that they are in contact a lot of the time,
then simply let it go
because if you don't, you are simply going to be paranoid
and scared that he might cheat on you with her, et cetera.
The third thing that you can do is move on.
I've mentioned this shortly, and I'll mention it again.
If you feel like your guy is not over his ex
because he calls her, texts her,
talks about her a lot of the time
or tells you stories of his relationship with her,
then I would just simply move on.
However, if his ex is the one who is calling him,
who is chasing him or even texting him,
then it's a completely different story
because she is pursuing him,
and she is the one acting low value.
So in that case, you don't have anything to worry about.
Remember that you don't want to be in a relationship
with someone who is still hung up on the past.
You are simply better than that.
Number four, it can still work out.
If your guy broke up with his ex not so long ago
and is now looking for a relationship,
make sure to watch his actions.
They simply have to be louder than his words of compliment
because you do not want to set yourself up
for a quick fling.
And remember, this happens quite a lot
because guys look for this
after they have left a relationship.
So be really careful there.
However, if you watch his actions by taking things slow
and not act desperate to be in a relationship,
you don't put him on a pedestal,
you don't pursue him,
but instead see how he acts towards you,
you are literally not setting yourself up for heartbreak,
but instead checking to see
if he is actually boyfriend material.
This is very high value,
and this is what's going to get him interested in you.
When you act high value, he can,
and he will in many cases, fall in love with you,
bit by bit, more and more each day.
He will then simply forget about his ex
and see that you are the woman
that he does want to be with because you are so amazing
and you're so fun because you're acting high value.
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