Have you been trying to find that direction in your life?
Well maybe, you actually what you're struggling with is making decisions.
Watch closely as I show you a very simple process that will solve all this
for you. Just watch it works.
So you're looking for direction. You know all the things you've tried so far and
you're still confused? I know why you're confused as a mentor. I know why you
don't know which direction to go and I'm here to help you.
So let's solve this and figure this out. So that you can really get dialed in on
the direction ahead in your life right now and so you can start pouring your
energy and your effort into the steps that's going to take for you to get there. I
know I can't tell you how many times I've had people come to me after one of
my three-day events and say, "Kirk, I can't find my direction and this is what I
asked them to do." I mean I'm going to coach you the same way. I coached them and
every time they come back to me saying, "Guess what? Oh my goodness I know what
I'm doing. I'm so excited." You see because confusion doesn't stir up passion.
Clarity stirs up passion. So clarity. Alright, so how do you do it?
Alright, here's a couple steps for you. Well one of the reasons why you're
confused is because you do have different options. For example, let me
just walk you through a real-life scenario that just recently happened. A
mother told me her son just graduated from college and is confused about the
direction his life and I said well how many options does he have? And she says,
"Well he's got about 5 or 6 different ideas.
Oh well, tell him to do this. Take his ideas and put each idea on a card and go
in his bedroom or somewhere in the hallway or somewhere and put all those
ideas on the wall that you got to write on the card the idea like what
you got you know what is that idea and put them just on the wall.
Anywhere on the wall but you have the idea written down and the reason why you
would want to follow through with that idea. So we had about 5 or 6
different ideas. Got this cards, wrote his ideas down put them on the wall. And the
first day you just leave him there. That's all you do. You just put them on
the wall because now, you pretty much just taken all of your ideas.
Put them out in front of you so they're not swirling around inside your head.
They're now out on the wall for you to do the work and be able to sort through
these of which one to literally start taking action on. So day 2, day 2, the
instruction was go to the wall with your ideas, read through your ideas and the
reason why, now this has the idea and the reason why it's a consideration. And read
through each one of those ideas and if one of those ideas still interests you,
and it's still good, you have to move the idea up. If it's something that you're
interested in. If something is ah! It's not really something I want to do but
it's still an idea, you got to move that one down. But every card has to be moved.
Either up or down. Every card. So he went through his cards and he sorted his
cards by moving them up or down based upon how he was thinking and feeling
about those particular ideas. That's day 2. Now you can see some of them moved
up. Some of them are kind of the middle, some of them already moving down to the
bottom. Look at this within 2 days, now remember this person has been struggling
for like 3 weeks. Just frazzled, can't figure this out and within 2 days, the
ideas are already starting to get sorted on the wall. Now, day 2, it just stays on
the wall. Don't mess with it more than that. All you got to do is move the cards.
Then day 3. Wake up in the morning. Go to the wall, read each one of the ideas
and the reason why and every card has to move either up or down. Now, sounds kind
of like wait a minute this is way too simple.
Ah it may be simple but it's super effective. So it goes to move his cards
around and every card has to be moved up or down. Every card has to be
and sometimes the cards change directions. But they start to become more
separated. You see what happens is inside of our head, we try to manage all these
ideas and have all of our reasons why but they get all mixed together and we
can't really differentiate between the different ideas and so we
get confused. Confusion happens when we have a collision of thoughts inside of
our head. That's why, you got to take your ideas and put them on the wall, so they
can hold still. And when they can hold still and you can move them, you now have
taken charge of your ideas. Well, you can already start to tell what happened. At
day 4, day 5, day 6, day 7. Within seven days. Where he'd been
wrestling for 3 weeks and still had no idea what to do.
Within 7 days, it was very, very clear which idea was going to be for this
newly graduated student from college. On the 7th day, he wakes up, he looks at
the board and goes, "It's pretty obvious which one is my good idea." And what was
incredible as his mom said, it was amazing to watch him sort those. But
every day for seven days, the cards had to move up or down and they could go big
distances or small distances. But because you've identified the ideas, because you
wrote the ideas on there and wrote "Why?" They're important to you and you hold
them still on the wall. You now start to have power over them and can start to
shuffle them. But literally on the 7th day, it looks something like this.
And he walks into his family and goes, "I've made my decision." The funny part was
the family goes, "Well, we already knew. when he went to the wall, we'd saw which
one was at the top." So, the whole family was in on it, too. They could see the
ideas being shifted around. And here's this young man looking at this
idea, he goes, "That actually was pretty simple." Low stress, low worry, it didn't
freak out anymore because he was losing sleep over. It he couldn't figure it out.
Everybody's trying to give him an advice and it made him more confused. You see,
when you gotta choose your direction, this is what you do. The reason why it's
so difficult in your head is because you can't slow those thoughts down and keep
them nice and compartmentalized. So you can study them. You put it on the
wall. And now, when he knew what to do, he now could pour his passion into it. Now,
what you do here, this is the beautiful part. Now, he knew what to do, he now knew
which people to go call to ask advice from, he knew exactly the action steps to
take because he knows somebody else who's already doing that particular idea.
He can find the people, he can find the Mentors, his family can get behind it
because he's clear, he's not confused, he's clear. And when you're clear, you can
describe the direction you're going in life to other people. And when you can
describe it, oh my goodness, people can get behind you.
But when it was all messed up in his head, didn't matter how many people he
talked to. Wasn't going to work. This is how you find your direction. Hey,
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