It's hard to control the second hand embarrassment when you look at that clip from Meghan and
Harry's polo day out, and how their couple dynamic... is not like a normal couple.
And it's even more unsettling because of reasons you're about to find out.
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I have to say that this clip got me completely by surprise.
Yeah, the Harkles have been involved in quite embarrassing moments, but at least there has
been some intention of behaving, well... not like clowns.
The clip you are watching was shared on Sunday, May 22nd, and the date is gonna be important
later in this video.
What we see is, apparently, Harry's team celebrating a victory after a polo match at the Santa
Barbara Polo and Racquet Club, the venue that has been hosting their encounters lately.
The first question that comes to mind, is... why did Meghan feel the need that she should
be up there with the team?
there is no one else up there, besides Nacho Figuera's daughter.
You might remember that Nacho Figuera is one of Harry's long time friends... if not THE
long time friend, that has been supporting him so far, and I think that's one of the
reasons why they keep hanging out together.
But Meghan's presence here is invasive not only with the sharp contrast of how she's
dressed, compared to the team's uniforms with the background.
But because she's the only one with HUGE sunglasses, well, that completes the "discount Disney
Villain" look.
Now the most relevant gesture here is the moment that she wipes what we believe is lipstick
from Harry's mouth.
Well, I understand that every woman likes to see her man nice and tidy, but... they
have just finished a polo match, so it's not like they are going to be smelling like Chanel
by that point.
Also, there is no way anyone could spot the lipstick smear from that distance, and what's
more, that is not a gesture that we've seen Meghan doing to Harry in other times, so it
was an outlier gesture that looked motherly.
And it wasn't the only time Meghan looked like Harry's mother at that event.
Because there's also this clip, that it's a bit hard to spot in terms of what's going
on, but when you see it enough times, you notice that Harry was talking to one of the
attendants at the polo match... you know, usual stuff, you are hanging out in an enclosed,
private, secure environment so it should be no big deal to reach out to the Duke of Sussex,
right?
WRONG.
Two things happen here: first, The Harkle's bodyguard gets in the middle of the conversation
like Harry is, I don't know, the president of somewhere, and right at the same time Meghan,
holding his hand, pulls him away from the conversation.
Now, I have literally lost count of all the times I've covered the exact same situation,
in which Meghan just makes Harry BREAK any contact with the person he's talking to, like
a mother telling his son that they are ready to go.
And speaking of mother, well, she's got the looks for the job.
Now, let's go back to Meghan's kiss to Harry in that split second.
I must say that I found it strange, but I just couldn't wrap my mind about what was
off about it.
Thankfully, I've got the best followers on Twitter that are quick to point out that this
absolutely looks like that episode of Friends when Susan Sarandon's character told Joey
this technique.
When you're going to kiss your onscreen partner, make sure you cover their faces with your
hand, so the public's attention is gonna be in YOUR face.
That... that's exactly what the duchess did here!
And you cannot tell me that it's such a coincidence she ALSO managed to display the ring that
has an L of LILIBET on it... some kind of teaser for the Queen finally meeting Lilibet
over the Platinum Jubilee celebrations?
YOU BET.
This is the kind of displays that we are used to see with the Harkles.
A carefully planned show for the media.
And I mentioned that Harry and Nacho are really good friends, and there is this picture that
speaks for itself.
It's always important to try to spot the way bodies relax with each other.
And the focal point should always be the shoulders.
If we start from their shoulders, you'll notice that they are relaxed with each other.
You can feel that absence of tension, feeling absolutely comfortable.
There's also this signal of being confident with their mutual proximity, in the sense
that their heads are almost touching each other and Harry's face is turned directly
at Nacho.
All these are signs of convergence, and it's a great way to define the relationship between
two people.
Other signals are also easy to spot, like the fact that they are displaying genuine
smiles, that Nacho has his arm over Harry's neck and shoulders, and Harry is reaching
out to touch his hand.
Again, so many signals in just one picture.
But then, we have to address what is being said about that trophy they were raising because
they 'apparently' won the competition that day.
Remember, this was shared on May 22nd, and there is a very good reason I told you the
date was important.
The trophy they are raising is the Lisle Nixon Memorial.
Now, what is so interesting is that this charity championship's final was not on Sunday, May
22nd.
But it was one week later, on Sunday, May 29th.
So, this means that the cringe clip that you just saw, is cringe not only because Meghan
was cosplaying Diana big time and behaving as such, but also because they lifted a trophy
that they had not won yet.
And I'd like to tell you that they did that in front of an empty field, or not that many
people.
But the reflection in the trophy itself reveals that it was full attendance at the moment,
so the embarrassment was complete.
And... you might be asking, who came up with the idea of lifting a trophy that they hadn't
won yet?
And yes, it's a rethoric question because OF COURSE you already know the answer.
It was Meghan.
When you watch the video in really slow motion you can spot that it was Meghan who did the
initial gesture of grabbing the trophy.
Now, what was Harry doing at that moment? he did what it's called a reflection, a gesture
that is just a mirroring of what the most dominant person does.
I have mentioned it in other videos.
Meghan is, by all means, the dominant one and Harry usually just ends up going with
what she wants.
Well, you know, "What Meghan wants, Meghan gets"
But again, one thing is that Harry follows through with Nutmeg's impulses.
And a very different one is that Harry's teammates obliged to go with this nonsense.
Now, the only explanation that one can imagine for this, is that the Netflix cameras were
rolling and they had to add the finishing touch of raising the trophy that they had
NOT won, just to be sure that they got the shot.
Well... even if it couldn't be more cringe.
It fits the narrative that Harry is like a British Hilaria Baldwin.
That he's "well adjusted" to his American life, and he's enjoying every minute of it,
and he's practicing the sports that he used to love in the UK... and of course, send the
signal to the world that he's winning, in any way.
Because all that we've seen so far is WHINING, and a LOT of it.
So, it's just more of the same.
They are not interested in building real reputation, the one that takes years to craft, and nurture,
and work, until people know what GOOD can expect from you.
But no, they are relying only in the smoke and mirrors and pray that nobody notices.
That's why I tell you that Harry is way past the point of no return.
He's willing to do anything for exposure, even if it means an outrageous claim that
they won a tournament, in front of an entire audience of attendants, just to secure a shot
for whatever 'fly on the wall' documentary they are working on.
And that is a signal of what is to come, and we don't know what kind of repercusions could
this have with the Platinum Jubilee celebrations.
But one thing is for sure: the Harkles are willing to do whatever it takes to steal the
limelight from Her Majesty The Queen.
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