- If you could go back to the first time we met,
what advice would you give yourself
regarding being in a relationship with me?
(Teresa chuckles) That's a great question
right there. (cards shuffling)
(mouse clicks)
- [Mignon] Oh!
- Would you marry me?
- Oh, I wasn't expecting that.
I just got really hot (laughs)!
- It's the lights,
I'm telling you. - What do you mean?
Just in general?
- In general. - Well of course I would.
- Of course you would. - We talk about it a lot.
- Hold on. - And it's not me
that starts that, stop!
No, that would've been crazy!
It's not even funny! (Aaron laughs)
Ugh!
- How do you describe me to others?
Often (chuckles)?
- Very often.
It's hard 'cause I end up talking about you
to complete strangers and it irritates me,
but I guess it's a good thing.
I talk about how kind you are and how hard-working you are
and how you love your family and how funny you are.
- Stop, stop. - But then,
I don't think I've met anyone like you
at your age as well that I don't know,
you scream 35 to me, you don't look it (laughs)!
- I feel 35 sometimes.
- I don't know, mature I guess.
And of the maturity comes a lot of other things.
But there's so much I appreciate about you.
That I just end up telling everyone about.
I'm gonna work on that though,
'cause some people are like, okay.
- I don't even know your neighbors (laughs)!
- (laughs) Who are you?
Just working at Tesco (giggles).
But yeah, I hope that, did I answer the question?
I think I did. - Yeah, I think you did.
- Okay, it's my turn anyway.
- Is it? - Yeah, it's my turn.
- Okay, let's work here.
- What are you hesitant to tell me?
- (sighs) I feel like a lot of things
I'm hesitant to tell you about
I end up telling you anyway because most of my hesitation
comes from just past experiences in relationships.
And less of it is like I'm hesitant to tell you I'm just,
but more I'm hesitant to have
a repeat of something in the past.
But then I remind myself it's just
you're not, you weren't part of those situations.
- Yeah.
- The emotional maturity that we both try to keep
and keep aware of and evolve through
that's like one, that's probably in my top three
of things I love most about you and about us.
- Yeah, it's been a long time coming though, babe.
I wasn't always like this (laughs)!
- Oh, I know and I definitely wasn't either (laughs)!
I definitely wasn't either.
- Yeah, I think in my mind I always think
if it's actually love, the goal is always reconciliation.
And I've been in situations where
the person was just mad for days on end.
And it just causes distance and it festers.
And I never want anything negative to fester.
- Yeah. - Because.
I kind of want this to last (laughs).
- I mean, yeah I--
- No, I want it to, you know what I mean?
What's the point if you're not
gonna do it right? - Exactly.
- You deserve the best babe.
- You do too, deserve the world.
(both chuckle) - Who's turn is it?
- I think it's mine, I haven't read words in a minute.
When do you feel closest to me?
- Oh!
- Dan-dan-da!
- I think when
we just have time to ourselves
and we can just talk about anything.
And we can talk about what's bothering us.
And most of the time it's my family relationships,
but the way you talk me through it means a lot.
I don't wanna cry (sighs).
- It's okay.
- I don't wanna ruin my makeup.
(both laughing) - I'm glad
your priorities are in order.
- Oh, that's why I put so much makeup on,
so I wouldn't cry.
Okay, I think you've made me realize that,
(sighs) this is annoying,
that sometimes things won't get better
but it's just you have to make sure
you get better through the process.
And when was it, the other day when I was crying,
I cry a lot these days (laughs).
When I was crying and you just came over
and hugged me. - Yeah.
- That was like the physical expression
of everything I felt when we were on the phone.
And you talk me through it and encourage me and stuff.
So, that's also why I cried on top of the crying.
(Aaron laughs) 'Cause it was.
- I was like, damn it I broke her!
- (chuckles) Yeah.
Thanks for that question. (Aaron chuckles)
- Don't go, don't let go!
(both laughing) - Jack!
Okay, I'm gonna take this.
- This carpet's not big enough for the both of us.
- (laughs) Okay.
What is the biggest sacrifice you have made
that I haven't acknowledged?
- In terms of us, I guess, question mark?
- Yeah. - Okay.
I made a lot of changes and adjustments because of us.
'Cause of timing, our sleep schedule is definitely jacked!
- Yeah. - But that's also
'cause of work and whatever,
which it honestly makes the distance and the time easier.
So, I wouldn't really say that I've made sacrifices
in regards to us, like I said I made changes.
But to call any of them sacrifices
I don't really think that that's a fitting word.
I don't think that's a fitting description (chuckles).
(Mignon clears her throat) Yeah, cool.
So, I think I wanna go.
I feel like I kinda know the answer to this one.
- Okay. - What's the hardest thing
for us right now and how can we make it easier?
- Do you wanna answer it?
And then I'll tell you if you were right.
- I'm gonna go ahead and say, distance for 400.
- (giggles) Yeah.
Yeah, that's hard, the question of who's going where
is the hardest thing, but I don't know how it's gonna be.
But it will work out.
- Yeah, I think so. - Yeah.
Should I go? - Yeah, go ahead.
- Okay.
If the person you are with never changed
would you be happy with who they are and what they are?
And yeah, I'd be pretty happy to be honest (laughs).
- That's a great question. - Right.
- And the answer is definitely yes.
- Well, thanks! (both laughing)
- And I don't even like people (laughs)!
- I know, me too (laughs)!
- I don't like people. (Mignon laughs)
Which is hilarious given every job I've ever had, but.
- You're great at what you do as well.
- I'll take that, thank you.
- I'd love to see who you are in 10 years' time.
I'm sure I'd still love that guy.
- A 55-year-old man.
(both laughing) - Yes!
It escalated very quickly, but.
- (laughs) That's kinda how my life is going, but yeah.
- Stop it! (Aaron laughs)
- All right, last and final. (Mignon clears her throat)
- You always pull a face before you say anything.
- All right, if this were our last conversation,
what's something you'd never want me to forget?
- That there's greatness in you.
And you're an amazing person.
And you don't just have potential,
what you do now is amazing, who you are now is amazing.
I love you a lot, more than I ever thought I would.
More than I've loved before.
And yeah, let's not make me cry again.
- I'll catch all the tears, don't worry.
- I've said it.
(giggles) So intense!
- Very, if this were our last conversation.
- Yeah, you gotta answer.
- Oh, definitely.
I know your relationship with love has been rocky.
And if this were the last time we got to speak,
I would want you to hold on to what we have,
how we love, so that you know that
it's real, you know?
(Mignon sighs)
- Okay babe. - Yeah.
- Why are you doing this to my face?
I'm so sad, I blame you.
- You blame me (chuckles)?
- Oh!
- And that I love you baby.
- I love you.
- And I always will.
Always (sighs).
- [Mignon] Okay.
- Hey guys, Melanie again.
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