[JUNNY READING] How do you have chemistry with people? I actually have lots of acquaintances.
We're like, in groups. Each group has interests but I somehow don't click
with even with just one of them.
[Peniel] Oh.
[JUNNY READING] I’m kind of friends with everyone but no one really clicks with me.
I tried to follow what they like and think like them but, I don’t know.
It just feels empty. How do I have a good chemistry with these friends
or just people in general?
I truthfully still don’t have someone who clicks with me on everything.
It’s always like, we’re close, because of something specific and that’s that.
[Peniel] I feel like, they don't need to click with anyone.
[JUNNY] Yeah. I mean if you have one thing that's like
[JUNNY] mutual then, that's it. [Peniel] You don't have to like every single
hobby and interests.
[JUNNY] You don’t like the color red?!
[Peniel] Everything matches but ah, you don’t like shorts.
[Peniel] Ah, sorry I can’t be your friend.
[JUNNY] Yeah, that’s like tough.
[Peniel] I feel like, right now, it feels like they're trying to be like
[Peniel] other people, to try to match them them but uh, motto: express yourself.
[TEN] Me? Uh, honestly I used to be like that. [Peniel] You did? [Ten] In school.
[JUNNY] Oh. [Peniel] Ah.
[TEN] I tried to find people who have the same interest as me
so I keep like, just like, keep finding and finding, and then it's just like tiring of like finding like...
[Peniel] Yeah.
[TEN] It's like you're expecting someone to be like that, like you
and it's impossible because we are all different.
[Peniel, JUNNY] Yeah.
[TEN] Just like get...
[Peniel] Just energy... [TEN] Just match like something that
I was like, similar to just, just one thing like maybe, like...
[Peniel] Wakeboarding.
[TEN] Yeah.
[Peniel] And then whenever you want to go wakeboard
you could hang out with that friend.
It's like "Oh, I like coffee"
you go hang out with the friends that like coffee.
[JUNNY] Yeah.
[TEN] Would it be weird if like that person is like the same as you?
[Peniel] That would be very weird.
[TEN] It would be weird when you come out like to shopping
or just spend time together outside
they wear the red color and then you wear the red
and when you go all wearing black they wear black.
[JUNNY] Yeah.
[Peniel] Yeah, so I don't think- Yeah, just be yourself.
[JUNNY] Peniel, you were more the type to just kind of have friends in specific
kind of thing, like differents things
or if, let's say you wanted to play a sport
then you'd have your friends who play sports?
[Peniel] Yeah, but I mean, if it's like I'll have like, let's see like...
I have like... I don't know like
my cafe friends, like chill at home friends, right?
But then I want to play sports
but if there's friends in the cafe and the chill at home friends
that like sports I'll invite both of them. [JUNNY] Right.
[Peniel] And then just introduce my friends to each other too.
I don't like keep it restriscted like
"Oh, I'm going to sports so that friend group can't come
like that friend group can't come" like that.
[JUNNY] It felt like in high school.
[Peniel] We have a similiar interest so I'll just call everyone. [JUNNY] It was like that a little bit.
[JUNNY] You know? High school, it's like all kind of divided
especially, my high school was like that. Yeah.
[Peniel] Like, that like the little clicks and everything.
Um, I mean, I feel that's high school, right?
[TEN] Mine would be like, all friends
and then just like two friends that I can just like say anything.
Just like, they know everything about me, just like there's those two friends
who I have no secret about myself. And then everyone's like friends.
[Peniel] That's good, that's good.
[JUNNY] That's good too.
[Peniel] Yeah, but I think it's because they're trying to, like, please other people.
Becasuse it's like...
Yeah, see, I try to follow what they like and think like them...
[Ashley] So she wants to find somebody that she doesn't have to try with that
they just naturally click, and just, conversation flows well
like they see eye to eye on things.
[Peniel] Yeah, but they are trying right now so then just, be yourself.
[TEN] I think, yeah, the solution just like, just be yourself...
[JUNNY] Yeah, just try being yourself, yeah eventually they would come to you so...
[Peniel] Because if you keep acting like this, they're gonna think that, you are like that.
[JUNNY] Yeah.
[Peniel] And then you're just going to keep feeling empty.
[TEN] No, do you know?
I think like there's those issues thought
when you try too much, people kind of like walk away from you.
[Peniel] Oh, yeah, yeah.
[TEN] You try too much to come closer to someone...
[Peniel] It could be burdening a little bit.
[TEN] Just like, just like... be yourself.
[Peniel] Be yourself.
[JUNNY] Be yourself.
[TEN] Like with NCT, because I trained with them
when I was like little
so even thought I don't met them for like a year, we're still friends.
[Peniel] It's like kind of a family vibe? [TEN] Yeah, yeah.
[TEN] And... It's like a best friend vibe with NCT members
and with WAYV it's just like a family vibe, like brothers.
[JUNNY, Ashley, Peniel] Oh!
[TEN] We are so chill, we all have like, dinner night, movie night.
We do that as a family more than friends.
And with SuperM it's just like...
It's different though...
It's like high school...
I don't know, it's like university students hanging out together...
[JUNNY, Ashley, Peniel] Oh!
[TEN] We do like...
[Peniel] So it's like best friends,
family and then, you went to college
and then your new group of college friends.
[Peniel] New group of friends, okay, okay.
[TEN] With different interest, so it's just fun to talk to.
[Ashley] Mmh.
[JUNNY] That's really good to have, don't you think? Like, yeah. [Peniel] Yeah.
[Peniel] There's like different perspectives of everything, you know.
[Peniel] What's going on around you. [JUNNY] That's awesome.
[Peniel] As long it's not like too much for you to handle, but,
I mean, you said you wanted it more so I guess...
[TEN] I mean, like, no more groups but like, like...
[Peniel, Ashley, TEN] More schedules.
[Peniel, Ashley] Please, no more groups!
[TEN] No, no more groups.
[TEN] Be like "Wait... wait, what's the name again?"