There's a few things that you can do to create a way better sexual experience and things that you
specifically are going to do before you have sex with a girl. I'll be honest, a couple of these are
a little bit of common sense. But I like to say... and I love this phrase that I heard somewhere...
common sense, not common practice so it's good to reinforce these ideas in your head. Something
you have to understand here is this video is going to be teaching you a few things to do
which is going to create a much better sexual experience and a smoother experience when you
guys are about to have sex. Some things I'm going to say, I know guys are gonna be like no,
that thing that you're telling me to do, that ruins the mood. I know I'm being vague here, we'll
get to all this in just a second. But just trust me when I say if you do this properly, the things
you're going to do is not gonna ruin the mood. It's all going to be fine and like I said, you are
going to have a great experience with her which is going to keep her coming back for more. That's
what we want. We want to create great experiences so she'll come back, continue to be attracted to
you and then at that point you have not wasted your time. Being able to go through the point of
meeting a girl, dating her, sleeping with her, and then having her completely disappear. We don't
want that. And a mistake that I hear about from guys is that they just jump into sex. They don't
do any preparation, they just let it happen and they are not focused on what is going to happen.
So what happens is you have that rough experience. Guys are not prepped for that. What I'm gonna be
talking about right now is the preparation for you to have and create this mood and not just
jump into it. Again, guys are not thinking ahead and jumping into it. Just got to be a little
bit prepared. Let's go into it. First thing is, you got to have some sort of a lube and condoms
next to your bed. Preferably in your nightstand. I do recommend Uber lube. And no, I'm not getting
paid or sponsored to say that. You can look it up if you want, probably on Amazon or wherever. Uber
lube, it's a good lube and it is one that doesn't end up getting sticky. Sometimes you find that you
use lubes and they do the opposite and have the opposite effect and they dry up and get sticky.
This one works very well. I believe it is water based. Anyways, you want lube and you want condoms
next to you bed. Those are things that might end up happening. Even if it's the first time having
sex with her or if it is the 10th time having sex with her. The reason why I'm saying have them next
to your bedside is because it creates a smoother experience rather than having them in your dresser
drawer that's maybe that's across the room or having it in your bathroom somewhere. Just have
it next to there because that is most likely where you are going to be having sex. Have that prepped,
have that there. The next one is having some sort of light dimmer. This is something that you can
figure out, you can pay for it, you can install it yourself. It is possible and easy to get dimmed
lights if you don't already have it. If you don't want to go through that trouble
at the worst instead you can have a lamp there. Some sort of lamp to create more mood lighting.
The reason this is, is not to necessarily create this romantic setting. But it's just trying not to
have a pitch black room, which could be not as fun. Or have a completely bright room where it's
so bright that it just feels not as sexy. It's not about trying to create this romantic mood,
it's just about making sure you have a little bit of lighting so it is a little
bit sexier and it is something that is going to be more comfortable for the both of you. Again,
not as fun when it's pitch black and too bright if you have normal lights on like something
like these. Next thing, before you have sex do not have heavy foods. It can make you gassy.
You don't want that. It can make your stomach rumble. It can make you also not in the mood and
she won't be in the mood. Or if you're eating heavy pizza or pasta. I mean it can be fine and
you guys can end up having sex and be fine. But why put yourself through that? Better
to have some sort of lighter dish. I recommend something like chicken breast and vegetables or
fish or sushi. Something that's going to feel light so it's not going to be so intense on your
stomach before this physical activity. Let's make sure that before you have sex, do not be eating
heavy meals. Next is foreplay. Before you have sex, you got to have foreplay. I think a lot
of guys skip this one. That's why I bring it up so much. I think that guys skip it and they think oh,
like let me just get right to it. Or they think oh, I don't want to have any sort of
erectile dysfunction so if I'm like getting an erection now then I should just jump into it.
Listen, you got to have foreplay in there. It really sets the mood better and makes things go
smoother because sometimes it takes a little bit more time for a woman to be turned on. And when
she's turned on, you're going to be turned on, and it's gonna go for a better experience. And when
she's having this better experience she's going to want to come back for more and so are you.
Make sure foreplay is involved before sex. Here's the next one. This is the one I was talking about
when I was saying to you that you might say no, I'm not gonna do that because it totally
ruins the mood. But you are making a massive mistake here. Before you have sex with a girl,
and I'll be very specific here... here's the advice. This is not literally right before
you're about to have sex. I mean, this is going to be when you guys are sitting there talking
and maybe kissing a little bit, but you're hanging out like on the couch or wherever and your clothes
are still on. It's in that section of the night. You're going to be asking her if she has any STDs
and you're going to be asking her for consent. Let me break that up for a second. The consent
is not going to necessarily happen right there. But the STD talk is but I'm just kind of lumping
these together in one tip because this is just the conversations that you're going to have with her
as you are moving forward to sex. First STDs. You want to ask her, you want to ask what her sexual
history is. You can even just blurt it out as you guys are talking and say hey, I'm just curious,
I think it's good to know what is your sexual history. If you don't want to do that because
you don't want to ruin the mood... well good luck because then you might get an STD and that's no
fun. I'd rather have a conversation that might be a little bit uncomfortable to make sure that she
is safe and you're safe and all that good stuff. Make sure you're doing that and I urge you to
do it because you don't want to have any regrets there. Next, is you're going to ask for consent.
You're not going to asking for consent in that same conversation. This will be a little bit later
when you guys are getting a little bit more hot and heavy, when clothes are starting to come off,
maybe foreplay is happening. Then you can ask her for consent. This is something that guys think is
going to ruin the mood. But you don't want to A, have sex with a girl who doesn't want to have sex
with you. That is just the moral responsibility that you should have. And B, you really just
want to make sure that you're enjoying it with someone that also wants to do it. It's
just more enjoyable that way. Don't ever feel like the girl should feel forced. That should
never happen. Make sure you're asking for consent. A great way to do this is just asking her hey,
should I go get a condom? That's pretty obvious of what you're asking. If you want you can even go
super direct and say hey, would you like to have sex. And it's gonna be funny. You might
laugh about it, she might laugh about it. But at the end of the day, even though it seems like the
mood is killed right there, you'll go right back to it. Trust me when I say you want to do this.
One thing that guys have a tough time with is initiating the whole sexual tension thing.
I've been talking about this recently. I have a free video for you of a demonstration
that I do with another girl showing you how to initiate the first kiss
and build tension. Check that out down below, you can click that. It is an actual demo and
you're gonna want to learn how to build tension so you can get to the point where you are doing
this checklist. Here's what I would do first just to get this all set up for you. I would
go and get condoms and get lube, put it by your bedside. That's going to be the first thing you
can do to prep for all of this and then you can move down the list and do something else.
There you go. A little bit of homework for you. Let me know which one of these you're already
doing. Leave a comment down below. Let's hear from you. And I'll see you on the next episode.