Gentlemen, welcome to Mantelligence.
Before we jump right into today’s video, we need to talk a little bit about what women
find attractive.
There are 3.5 billion men out there…
So, if you want to impress a girl you need to set yourself apart..
You don’t want to be another generic face in the crowd.
And in order to get just about any girl to like you, you must do two things:
Make an instantly memorable connection and...
2.
Do it just a little bit better than the other guys.
As we always say here at Mantelligence, dating is a numbers game - and these 5 life hacks
will help give you the confidence to talk to as many girls as you possibly can.
And since we don’t want you to use these life hacks the wrong way,
We’re also going to share one MAJOR MISTAKE that most guys make when trying to hack their
way into a woman’s heart.
So get ready…
Here are the 5 ESSENTIAL life hacks that will give you that extra edge + the #1 thing you
should avoid while using them.
5. Be a Bookworm
For this first life hack, we’ll be tackling
a skill that doubles as an evolutionary reality.
You see, girls instinctively want a man who can provide for them, which means many of
them are always on the lookout for guys with status symbols.
And while you may not be able to afford a penthouse condo or a BMW, it turns out that
learning some new words is a totally effective way to gain more status with the ladies.
How?
Well psychologists have discovered that men who use words that occur less frequently in
everyday conversations, actually primed women’s romantic predispositions more than guys who
didn’t use those words.
And according to another study, women who were surveyed tended to rank a man’s physical
attractiveness higher IF they perceived he was more intelligent.
So if intelligence and uncommon verbiage can make you more attractive to girls, how can
you learn those life hacks?
By taking a trip to your local library and reading a damn book once in a while.
Reading keeps your mind sharp and introduces you to new words you can employ to make yourself
seem more intelligent.
And not only that, a good book can immerse you in novel ideas and perspectives, which
give you a healthy dose of empathy for the characters, thus helping you become more familiar
with the concept of emotional intelligence, a trait that FAR TOO MANY GUYS don’t possess.
Plus, explaining those new ideas to the girl you’re sharing dinner with is a great way
to start a conversation and flaunt your conversational skills.
So whether you’re into Fantasy novels, Historical journals or comic books, it doesn’t matter...
Just find something you don’t want to put down once you pick it up.
Because reading books you enjoy is a life hack that will have profound effects, not
only on your dating life - but every other aspect of your life as well.
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4. Cook it Real Good
Before you start to worry, I’m not asking
you to open a Michelin Star winning restaurant...
But if you’re able to create a few dishes from scratch, you’ll possess one of the
essential habits women love.
Just imagine going into the pantry of ANY kitchen you happen to be in and turning out
a delicious meal with ease.
That’d be a nice skill to have, wouldn’t it?
Well you’ll have to practice to get there.
Because if you’ve never tried to cook before, here’s a spoiler alert: You’ll probably
have to throw out your first dish - ESPECIALLY if don’t know the difference between a bulb
of garlic and a clove of garlic (just speaking from experience here, no big deal.)
But with a little bit of trial and error, you’ll learn that cooking is one of the
most useful tricks to get girls to chase you.
Here’s why it’s important: First, it shows you’re more resourceful
than the average guy, which is a HUGE turn on for the ladies.
Second, well, it turns gender norms on their head…
Think about it: Historically, women were the ones in the kitchen.
So if you can give your girl the opportunity to avoid falling into that category, you’ll
truly stand out among her last boyfriends.
Now before you raid your fridge and attempt a spaghetti with a cereal and banana leaf
garnish for some strange reason, Start with a simple recipe and follow it the
best you can.
With enough practice, time, and a little research on what ingredients mesh well together,
You’ll start creating your own recipes that will make ANY girl hungry to get to know you
more.
3. Be Your Own Coach
Since women love a guy who can start a conversation,
(even about books or cooking!), knowing how to get your crush to like you with a conversation
starter is an absolute must.
And if you’ve ever done one of those corporate retreats or team building events, you already
know they always start with one of those awkward ice-breaking exercises.
But have you ever wondered why?
Because when you’re getting to know new people, one of the hardest parts about starting
a conversation…
Is starting a conversation...
And those ice-breaking exercises make it easier to find common ground and ease the tension
of meeting someone new.
But when it comes to starting a conversation with a girl you like, you don’t want to
begin by saying, “Please stand, tell me your name and tell me a fun fact about yourself!”
That’s just weird.
Instead, you should take a page out of every famous NFL coach’s playbook and practice
before you perform.
A winning coach will script out his strongest plays, drill them in practice all week, then
unleash them when the time is right.
And that’s exactly the life hack you should do with your conversation starters; Have a
few stories or topics prepared and fine-tuned.
Do you have a REALLY funny story about a time you saw a Capuchin Monkey at the zoo do something
gross?
Use those bookworm skills you’ve acquired from reading, and practice telling it more
descriptively.
Like we said before, girls love a guy who can start a conversation, ESPECIALLY if he’s
interesting enough to keep her engaged.
So be your own coach and prepare some talking points.
It’ll save you from fumbling over your words while desperately searching for something
to talk about.
Boys, I know we’re hacking your life here to make just about every girl like you,
But before you go changing everything about yourself, there’s one common life hack
That you definitely want to avoid like the plague.
I’ll let Kay explain everything you need to know at the end of this video,
In fact, I’m going to let her take over from here.
Don’t forget to stick around ‘till the end!
For now, here’s #2 on our list.
2. Enter the Mirror Dimension
Hey, fellas, Kay here.
And I’m about to talk about a life hack that’s pretty well-known, but still SUPER
important to know how to do correctly.
In a perfect world, you wouldn’t need alpha male body language tricks to get a girl to
like you.
But we don’t live in a perfect world, which means you’ll need to use your dating skills
to enter the mirror dimension to get girls to like you.
So the next time you’re talking to a girl you like, open up a portal to another realm
of possibilities and mirror her body language.
When we like someone, mirroring is something most of us do without even thinking about
it.
And since we usually want someone we like to like us back, we subconsciously copy that
person’s body language to make it happen.
Humans like what’s familiar, and a guy who mirrors the girl he’s talking to seems more
familiar, thus giving him a little bump in popularity with her.
Plus, that familiarity helps her feel more at ease with him.
So for example, if a girl leans forward to get closer to you, follow her lead and lean
forward as well.
And by the way, don’t forget to keep an eye out for her mirroring you.
It’s a sure sign you’re saying and doing all the right things.
1. Lead with Integrity
Alright, guys, this is the last point I want
to cover, and it’s a big one...
I’m going to tell you a little story about a mentor I had right after college.
He said to me, “You only get one chance to burn your reputation.”
And he was right.
And that was when I was in real estate…
Which isn’t exactly an industry where integrity is always commonplace.
I mean...
People rank prostitutes as more trustworthy than real estate professionals…
But I digress...
Our last and final life hack in this video is simple: NEVER do something that can ruin
your reputation - Always strive to be someone that other people look up to.
You might be wondering how this counts as a life hack…
Well it counts because it’s probably something you forget about when meeting someone new...
You’ve made a bad first impression before…
We all have.
It’s the reason people get ghosted after a first date.
So when you’re talking to a girl you like, be honest, laugh at yourself, NEVER put her
down, and be sure to pay attention to how she reacts to the things you do and say and
adjust your behavior accordingly.
In essence, try to be the best version of yourself you can be when you’re with her.
And always, always, ALWAYS self-reflect after you’ve parted ways.
Because if your next date doesn’t pan out and you don’t bother to ask yourself what
you could have done better, You’ll continue to flounder in a sea of
fish that don’t want to swim with you.
The Number 1 Life Hack Guys Should Avoid So now that you’ve life hacked your way
into solid alpha male status, and feel like you can get just about every girl to like
you, I need you to hear me out on one more point...
You MUST use these newfound powers for good, not evil.
Because as a famous spider once put it, “With great power comes great responsibility.”
So use these life hacks to improve yourself and get a little extra edge with ladies,
But NEVER use them to attempt to control or manipulate a girl you like.
That’s called being an asshole, and contrary to popular belief, girls don’t actually
like guys who try to control them.
Those are the 5 life hacks every guy should know to make sure he’s getting 99.9% of
girls to like him, and the one mindset never to adopt when you’re embarking on self-improvement.
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