Can you become too old to jet-set with the rich?
What is the expiration age for a woman?
What happens to the girls after their expiration age?
Can you still jet-set when you're 35+
or is it jut too late?
My name is Anna and I run the School of Affluence
It's an online finishing school for women
who want to become more elegant, navigate successfully in high-society
and level up their life completely!
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I want to explain exactly what I mean with "jet-set with the rich after a certain age".
Ladies, I've realized that I've not been entirely clear in my messaging throughout this video
about what it's actually about.
So I need to quickly explain to you so that you don't confuse this.
This video refers to a specific group of high-society - it does not refer to general high-society.
So, I'm talking about this particular jet-set circuit which is based on traveling, partying
with the rich, and creating a lifestyle around it with the same group of rich people.
I am not talking about wether you can become too old for high-society in general.
I am talking about wether you can become too old for this particular jet-set circuit and
if there is an expiration date for a woman?
Just to clarify ladies!
I'll let you watch now!
In my community I have women of all ages, and everyone can jet-set no matter what age.
In School of Affluence I have even students who are 50+ who are leveling up and doing
their transformation, and navigating in high-society without any problems.
This video is not actually about that.
But it's more about the jet-set circuit that many women participate in.
Some women don't, they might be more low-key,
spend time with more low-key type of rich people,
that is on a more secluded level.
The JetsetBabes you see on Instagram as an example, a lot of them I would say are part
of the jet-setting circuit.
A lot of these girls are in their 20's.
You also have the 30-year old girls, but the most common age to do the jet-setting circuit
is when you are 20!
Because that's also the age when you want to do the most exploring, be adventurous,
be wild and crazy, have fun and kind of see the world.
Sadly, the way God created men and women.
Men have pretty much an unlimited time window for settling down, for reproducing and for
partying and exploring and whatever.
They can pretty much start and finish it whenever they want!
However, women,
because we will become reproductively challenged after a certain age.
We have only approximately a 15-year window when we have to have our share of fun,
explore the world, build a career, create a family, settle down, and secure our future.
When I say a 15-year window, I don't mean necessarily exactly 15 years.
But if we would do a rough estimate, usually between the age of 20 until the age of 35
that's the time what we call the prime of a woman, so that she can be single
and she can find her mate and settle down.
After the age of 35, especially in today's world, you can still settle down
and you can still have kids,
it's just that it becomes harder and harder.
And you might not have the odds on your side.
When they are in between 20-35, they are in their prime years to do the entire circuit.
They have the most access in that age.
Because after the age of 35, depending on how you look after yourself, you will have
perhaps less and less access.
So after 35-40 it becomes a little bit more difficult.
Some girls don't understand that everything has an expiration date.
Especially for us women.
Some girls don't think about that they have to have a plan B and think about the future.
It's great that they are being present and enjoying what's happening right now.
The problem with this whole jet-set game, let's call it like that!
I like to call this a game!
Because it becomes a game, an addictive game.
A lot of the times, girls can get stuck in this game.
Why?
Because it's very entertaining, it can go on for ever...
Men tend to be unreliable in general, once someone has been unreliable
you just move on to the next.
And sometimes, you just don't want the fun to stop!
For that reason, it's easy to wake up one day and realize oh my god, I just overslept
and missed my expiration age.
Now I know this sounds a bit harsh: but I would say one very common mistake girls do,
who maybe end up taking the sugar daddy route, or date married men or party playboys.
They end up wasting their years with guys like that, that will never offer them a future.
So they might waste years and years by being with these men.
They might be very wealthy, billionaires and offer these ladies fantastic lifestyles and
loads of abundance.
But the problem is that it becomes so comfortable, it becomes so hard to get out of.
Sometimes, these women forget that actually nothing is ever going to happen seriously
with this person on a long-term level if I want to get married and have a family.
These women end up snoozing their expiration age and like I say: wake up one day and it's
a little bit too late.
My personal advice if you want to do this jet-set circuit, do it because it's fun.
But there comes a time when it's time to move on.
Then it's time to have a plan B and this is the thing: You really need to think about
your exit plan.
About your plan B. What is your next step?
What are you going to do after?
Do you want to remain in high-society, retire in high-society?
Do you want to find a rich man and settle and live a low-key life?
What do you want to do?
Some girls go back to their normal lives and end up finding normal guys, "Average Joe's"
that they settle down with.
Because for some girls the jet-setting circuit is just something they do during their adventures
fun-time years.
Not everybody wants to have a future in high society because after spending a lot of years
in it, you get to see a sight to it that makes you actually question how you want to spend
your future.
Some girls keep on going, some girls say you know what: I loved it, I enjoyed it!
Thank you very much but I want to have a normal life after all.
Most JetsetBabes however, will be on the mission because majority of the girls want to have
the ring.
But majority of the girls also want to have a family perhaps one day.
So everybody wants to find the happy family life with a perfect rich man.
And that is of course a big challenge, especially in the world today we're kind of less and
less people get married as men are not as serious as they were back in the day.
That means that a lot of girls end up missing this kind of opportunity to nail down the
guy that they wanted to be with.
And this becomes a big stress.
So I always say this: realize that it if you are in your 20s - fine - Enjoy!
Have fun!
But once you start coming towards the end of your 20s really start thinking about the
rainy days because the rainy days can go on for years.
You don't know exactly when you will meet mr.
Right.
So you need to give yourself some wiggle room.
If it's not going to happen in the next few years.
It might happen like just when you turn 35 or when you are end of your 30's.
Or even early 40's, who knows?!
But you need to have a plan B, and plan B is following:
First of all savings!
You always need savings regardless, that is like rule number one!
You don't want to be a broke girl who is not only desperate to find a man but is also desperate
to find a provider.
No no no....
Don't shoot yourself in the foot!
Number 2: Freeze your eggs!
Think about freezing your eggs.
If you are in your early thirties and you don't want to stress.
There's no security for freezing your eggs because what happens is that even if you freeze
your eggs they might not be usable so there's no guarantee.
However, you're just protecting yourself so that could be an option for you.
Number three: Build something of yourself.
You see, the more you age then less assets.
Beauty tends to be the big asset that women play around with.
It tends to be the best tool to use in our twenties up to 35 or so on.
As we age, especially after the age of 30.
We need to start thinking about other assets, kind of what you bring to the table.
Looks do fade!
And we're not going to keep our beauty forever!
If finding your mate take the whole bit longer for you than you have to obviously keep maintaining
your looks, but you also have to explore the other very important areas of you that makes
you a desirable package.
And that's what I mean with assets.
So think about your career, because if you're successful women in a field, perhaps you have
a successful business going for you or career, or you have an amazing reputation of some
sort, maybe you're very much involved in charity work, maybe some form of celebrity status.
Whatever creates a name for you that is an asset.
Finance is also an asset, your reputation is an asset, what people think of you.
Another asset that is not often spoken about but that I have personally experienced it
to be an asset for myself: is investing in a shrink!
Okay, I know this is slightly bizarre but you know I've seen so many women, fantastic woman.
They are beautiful, they could have everything going for them but they're not able to find
a fulfilling relationship and sealing the deal because of certain psychological issues
that they still have unresolved with themselves.
If these women would have just invested a year or two in therapy, things might have changed
dramatically for them.
They might have been able to do some self healing that might have open up plenty of
new doors for them, and those doors might have lead to some incredible relationships
that they don't have today unfortunately.
So I want you to also take that into account during your 20-35 do invest in some form of
therapeutic help because we all need it!
We all have issues that need healing.
There is nobody who doesn't have issues.
But a question that I get a lot is: is it socially accepted to be 35 + and single and
still be doing the jet-setting circuit?
In some circles that's absolutely fine there are no expiration date for this.
If you manage to keep yourself look young, then you can manage to stay in that circuit
for as long as you want without getting any labels!
But if people know that you are 40 plus and you're passed what's socially accepted for
a woman to be participating in world-wide travel and party time.
Then you have to start thinking how to go about that without being labelled with the
"girl who is too old for the scene".
Nobody wants to really get that label and especially not when you're single
and hang out in those circles.
They do talk and the woman end up looking desperate.
Let me tell you, the feminist in me hates it!
It furiates me that a woman doesn't have the same terms as a man
when it comes to how long she can party, have fun, be wild and crazy, enjoy her lifestyle, and so on.
Sadly, socially there are different rules for women than there are for men.
It is what it is and we're trying to make the best out of it.
You can still do the circuit but this is when I say you need to bring other assets into
the game.
So if you're a successful career woman and you're still traveling, living your best life:
single, dating, that's fine. It's socially accepted.
But, if you're still a single woman who doesn't really have anything going for her life.
And you're in your 40's, then you're not going to be a desirable candidate on the rich man's
single market.
For that reason it's important that you do create this name for yourself.
That you become somebody.
That you're not just a pretty girl who is just waiting for a guy to come along so that
she can settle.
No!
Build your life, do what you want to do, you don't want to be the one who just waiting
around and that's the only thing that matters.
You can do two things at the same time.
Build up yourself while you're trying to find your future husband.
Do both, don't just do one thing.
Now I hope this gave you some insights.
Please share your feedback with me in the comments.
I hope I didn't make anyone feel bad about their age, that was not the purpose of this video!
There is never an age that is really too late to live your best life.
But however for biological reasons there might be some difficulties to achieve certain things
that's basically what I've meant.
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