Nine tricks to be the most charming person in the room
Have you ever noticed that some people could easily gain the trust of everyone and create a positive image of themselves?
Jeff Hayden one of the most influential people on Linkedin and the author of almost 30 business and communication books
Explained how they do it
It turns out. They know some simple secrets and today you have a chance to discover them all
Here are 9 essential characteristics that make any person look more confident and charming?
Number 9. They're not afraid to lose
Charming people don't try to win at everything on the contrary their aim is to give more without expecting anything in return
For them, it's not difficult to admit their mistakes failures or talk about their weaknesses
And it's something that not everyone can do
They can openly say I'm jealous of you or I can't do that
Show me how because they know people appreciate honesty and real emotions
Number eight they show. They're glad to meet you
Maintaining eye contact is important in a conversation and people who have Charisma know this for sure
They smile when you smile they frown or not when you do however
They don't just try to repeat everything after you
They are focused on what you're saying and listen to you carefully paying attention to all your emotions and words
Such Feedback helps you find common ground with anyone and gain the trust of the person you're interacting with
number seven they look for mutual understanding
Most people unconsciously look for contradictions and disagreements which can lead to a dispute rather than a conversation
Charismatic people always seek common ground with everybody
So to become more attractive to others just try to find something in common with them this trick will help you start an interesting
conversation and create a positive impression
Number six they use the power of touch
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Touch is a powerful tool that helps people understand their emotions better in a recent experiment
scientists tried to Express 12 emotions by touching their interlocutors without words
in
50 to 83 percent of the cases these feelings were expressed correctly
therefore when you want to congratulate someone
First think how you could do it better
Expressing your feelings depends on the situation. You could either shake hands or pat someone on the back this will help you show
How sincere your words are express the right feelings and gain the trust of others?
Number 5. They know how to use facial expressions and gestures
Charming people Express their feelings incredibly well and accurately
They can turn even the most boring story into an enthralling
Conversation by gesturing and using expressive faces when it's appropriate of course they show the right mood for their stories
This trick will help you genuinely kindle the interest of other people
Number four they're not afraid to look silly
Maybe ice skating or twister is not their strong point, but they're not afraid to be awkward
curiously enough people respect them even more because of this if
You're not shy to show your weaknesses and not afraid to look silly people won't laugh at you they laugh with you
Everybody understands that all of this is fine. We all make mistakes
number three they're good at asking questions ah
So Riley. How was school
Charming people can make you talk about yourself easily. They don't hesitate to ask questions and talk openly about themselves as well
these people genuinely want to know what you're thinking and this makes them trustworthy as
Soon as you find out something about a person just ask them more questions, and tell them some similar things about yourself
They will understand you have something in common and that might be an interesting topic for conversation
number two, they always remember names
Brandy had the chanting Brianna Amber Sabrina Melody Dakota Sarah Bhindi Crystal Smith Autumn Ruby. Taylor Tyra. Tammy Lauren showing shit
Charismatic people always remember names and other small details about others very accurately
When someone remembers your name when you've known each other for a short while or when you've only met once it makes you feel more
important in the conversation
now
Say my name
Call the person by name and remember the names of their friends relatives and even their pets
It's one of the easiest ways to make the person think only positively of you
Number one they listen more and talk less
How about our?
Silence most people can't listen at all, but they love talking about themselves
Everybody wants to Share their own news however. Let's admit
It's a nice feeling when you tell a story and notice everyone is listening to you carefully and reacting emotionally
Charming people know how to listen and they love listening more than talking
That's how they learn more interesting details about a person and find something in common
So the next time you're talking with someone try to listen to their problems and understand their needs and if you manage to do
So they will never forget you
Do you agree with these points is it easy for you to find a common language with others share your thoughts in the comments below
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