ever wonder what you did to deserve harsh treatment from others
well sometimes it's not you but the work people have to put in to improve their
habits whether it's their deep rooted
insecurities that cause them to lash out at you or their inability to let go of
the past know that you don't have to tolerate the
toxic behavior that people have to work out on their own
here are five types of unhealthy people you should walk away from
one the green monster do you know someone who never seems happy when you
achieve something or always gets competitive
even over the littlest of things when jealousy drives them it creates
tension between you two instead of building an authentic
supportive relationship envious feelings can also make it hard
for the individual to be happy for you when you want to celebrate special
moments with them don't play into their comparison games
and never downplay your own achievements just to make them feel better
most importantly ask yourself if you want a true friend
or a mere friend of me in disguise 2. the nearest
life can get messy and it's normal to feel dejected
every once in a while but if you know someone who is constantly a debbie
downer and dismisses your excitement over future events hobbies and dreams it
makes it nearly impossible to share that happiness
know that you don't have to stoop to their level of pessimism
in fact staying away from a negative attitude will be beneficial for your
health in the long run research has shown that high levels of
cynicism puts people at a bigger risk of developing dementia compared to more
open and trusting individuals 3. the slacker have you ever sat next to
someone who wanted to mooch off your work and get the same credit for it
talk about unfair right these people lack motivation
don't care about ethics and do whatever it takes if it means taking the easy way
out you don't even have to work directly
with them to be affected by their lazy attitude
they might just bring the entire class down with their lazy attitude
whether they manipulate guilt trip or sweet talk you
watch out for these sneaky individuals they might seem like they care about you
but they only care about two things fast results and themselves
4. the complainer what's worse than wasting time complaining about a
situation instead of changing it if you know
someone who prefers to wallow in self-pity instead of taking action
it can be a bad influence on you toxic people who incessantly play the victim
card but never take responsibility for what they are capable of fixing
aren't just whiny they're self-absorbed 5. the verbal abuser
people who know how to dish out criticism but don't know how to apply it
to their own lives can be incredibly hypocritical
they continue to put others down because it's easier than working out their own
problems know that you don't have to take in what
they say and surround yourself with people who will build you
up instead of breaking you down people who are verbally abusive enjoy attacking
you because it makes them feel better about themselves
your friends should be supportive of your goals and help you strive forward
instead of holding you back do you encounter these types of people
in your life evaluate your goals and don't be afraid to cut people out of
your life for more information on toxic friends be
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