Heya playa, if you want to know how to instantly be more confident around your crush, I'm gonna
share 4 power tips that you can start using whenever you interact with them, when you
see them and whenever you want to talk to them.
For those of you that are new here my name is Josh and every single Monday through Friday,
I make videos sharing tips, ideas and stories teaching you how to be your best self now
when it comes to building confidence, it's definitely something you have to practice.
You have to keep doing it over and over until you start to develop your sense of self.
No one is born with confidence.
We simply enter situations think about what's going on and kind of rationalize our way through
it.
Some people spend a lot of time in their own heads thinking things through without ever
acting to see what the results are.
And that kind of makes it harder to be more confident.
Part of being confident is being vulnerable, putting yourself out there and not being afraid
of what others are going to think of you.
If you look at the people who are super confident, that's kind of what they're channeling in
those moments.
So what exactly should someone like you do?
Someone who gets awkward or nervous when they're around their crush when you don't really know
what to say or how to act?
Well, the first power tip is to maintain eye contact, smile and stay relaxed.
Making and holding eye contact is an extreme sign of confidence because it shows this person
that you're not afraid to look at them, you're willing to accept them for who they are right
there in that moment.
Whenever you're looking down or looking around, you're showing that person that you're nervous
and that you don't really feel comfortable around them and that just comes off in your
behavior.
I also mentioned smiling because that's a huge sign of confidence.
When you encounter a person that's looking you in the eyes, smiling and just enjoying
life, they seem like they have it all figured out and they're the kind of person you want
to be around and that's the kind of feeling you want your crush to have.
If when they look at you they don't feel like you provide a safe, comforting and exciting
energy then they're not really gonna pick up on your confidence.
They're gonna feel the opposite like you're too nervous to be around them.
Here's an example of what those two senses of being would look like and promise you won't
laugh at me.
"Hey, how's it going?"
versus "Hey, how are you doing?".
Standing relaxed is also another piece of that power tip.
if you're kind of just standing in your own sense of being, not really moving a lot or
fidgeting or playing with your hands then obvious you look like you aren't together.
You're there in that moment, you feel confident for anything that comes your way.
The second power tip that you can use to instantly be more confident around your crush is to
not try to fill every awkward silence or silent gap with talking.
The more you try to just randomly talk through things, the less confident you look.
A lot of people do this and I totally understand why.
In those silent moments you end up retreating back into your mind and you start to overthink
what's going on in that situation.
In your mind, you might be thinking "Oh my god, neither of us are talking right now.
Do I say something?
Do I not say something?
Or just keep standing here and smiling?
Ok no smiling, now it's creepy.
I'm no longer gonna smile.
Or should I keep smiling?
What did Josh say in the previous tip?
Smile?
Don't smile?
Oh, I don't know what to do".
What you can do in those situations whenever it's awkward and silent is to ask a follow-up
question.
Think about the last thing you guys talked about and ask a deeper question on that topic.
Doing that shows the person you are interested in them, want to learn more about them and
that's a very confident position to have.
People who are truly confident aren't always the best talkers, sometimes they're actually
the best listeners.
They can hear what other people are saying.
They can carry a conversation forward just by pulling out the best of you whenever they
talk to you.
And the third power tips you can use to be more confident around them is to slightly
compliment them here and there but to always have a focus of hanging out, taking it to
the next level whenever you talk to them.
That doesn't mean every conversation has to be like "You're so pretty.
You're so beautiful.
When are we hanging out?
Huh, when are we hanging out?
When are you free?
What are you doing?
What are you doing tomorrow?
What are you doing today?
What are you doing right now?"
You can drop in things like "You know, you got a really cute laugh" or "You got a really
pretty smile" here and there, just kind of casually place those in conversation because
those little boosts of confidence to the other person makes you look more confident because
you're not afraid to just say them whenever you feel them.
And as far as implying to hang out though, a confident person is generally working towards
something that they want so, if you want to build something out with this person.
If you want to be with them if you want to display confidence around them, you need to
start thinking about what the next stage is.
If you're just casually talking to them, maybe the next stage is hanging out one on one.
If you're hanging out one on one, maybe the next stage is asking them to be your boyfriend
or girlfriend.
Focus on what you want to do next, where you want to take things because that is an ultimate
sign of confidence.
People who lack that confidence tend to stay in the same area.
Maybe you text your crush back and forth all the time and you're too afraid to ask them
to hang out because you don't know what their answer is going to be.
Well, eventually that texting conversation is going to become boring because it's not
going to the next level and because of that, you're not going to feel like you're confident
enough to take it there.
Those are the three power tips, but now I'm curious to know, which one of the three do
you think will be easier for you to start executing?
To help you become more confident in front of your crush?
Leave your comments down below and we'll talk about it.
On that note guys, thank you so much for watching.
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and just able to talk to your crush.
On that note guys, I'll catch you tomorrow.
As always love and peace.