Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on ten psychological tricks to get
her to like you. If you've been asking how to make a girl attracted to you then
this video is your answer. So get ready to be surprised by just how simple it is.
Honestly I think the last tip I have for you is the most important so pay close
attention to that. Before we get started be sure to subscribe and ring that
notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian
dating coach for men and creator of the course How to Get a Girlfriend. If you
would like to get your dream girl the easiest and the fastest be sure to check
out that course. There's a link in the description below. Now as I mentioned the
topic of this video is ten psychological tricks to get her to like you. Now if
you've been following my channel for a while you guys know that I do not teach
you tricks. I teach you science. The reason I use the word tricks in this
case though is that it kind of feels like a trick because it's so simple and
so crazy effective. It's not a trick, it's based on science, it just works, but it's
so crazy effective that it does kind of feel like a trick. The reason being when
you know the right things, when you know how to do it the right way, it's like
dating and relationships and attraction are really easy and are really simple. So
does that make sense? That's kind of why I decided to use the
word trick even though it's a little uncharacteristic. The good news is it's way
better than a trick because it's just based on science and totally works. With
that are you ready to get started? Number one is to do nice things for her. Now I
know what a lot of you are thinking. "Oh nice guys always finish last." That is
actually not true. If that is something you have felt or experienced or been
taught you need to make sure you watch this video. It will help you understand why
and what you can do to fix that. The truth is if you want to get the girl you
need to stand out from the crowd. And one of the best ways to stand out from the
crowd is to be nice to her. Especially in a world where so many guys play aloof
and hard-to-get and all that stuff. As humans we like to be treated nice,
right? That's attractive. Especially because if you are trying to attract a
Christian woman she is ultimately looking for a husband. And so she's
asking herself "Would I want to spend my life with this man?" And if he's kind then
the answer is a total total yes. So just do nice things for her. Obviously don't
let her walk on you. That's toxic women do that, that's a whole other story,
we're not getting into that with this video. But doing nice things
for a woman is one way to make her fall crazy in love with you, to stand out from
the crowd and really just melt her heart. Just like you like it when people do
nice things for you she likes it when cute guys do nice things for her. Number
two is to flirt with her. Flirting is one of the best skills you can learn. It
makes dating so fun, am I right? It makes it so much more enjoyable and more
exciting. When you flirt it makes her feel really good and really feminine and
really attractive. Which naturally attracts her to you more. Now a lot of
people actually feel really awkward or out of their element when it comes to
flirting. And the reason is they simply haven't been taught how to flirt the
right way. When you know the right way to flirt flirting is super easy and super
super fun. So if you actually feel awkward flirting that is actually
something I cover with my course so be sure to check out the link in the
description below to learn more about that. Number three is to look into her
eyes. Seriously there there's so much research that shows and proves that
there's something special about making eye contact with someone. And it builds
the attraction dramatically. Seriously if you want to again stand out from the
crowd and really attract her make eye contact. Look into her eyes. Number four
might surprise you a little bit. It sounds kind of random but it's crazy
effective. Number four is to wear the color red. For whatever reason women are really
drawn to and attracted to men who wear red. Now some of you are probably
thinking "Wait, what if I don't look good in red?" This is something that everybody
faces, okay? You are not the only one. Everyone depending on your skin tone etc,
we all have certain shades that look good on us and certain shades that don't.
For instance I have one red shirt that I can put on and feel incredibly
attractive in. I have another one that I bought online. I tried it on, I looked in
the mirror and I was like "I look terrible."
And I thought maybe it was just me so I like put it away for a few days tried it
on again later and I was like "Yeah no I still look terrible." So I gave the shirt
away. Put the other red shirt on and bam I feel super confident and attractive. So
if you feel like maybe you don't look good in red just try different shades of
red. That is key. Number five is to be assertive. Would you like to wow her?
If you would then learn how to be assertive. That is how you stand out from
the crowd. The truth is someone who is assertive is very hard to find these
days, but it is so powerful that's why I stress it so much with my clients. If you
want her to see you as masculine and attractive, if you want her to feel safe
with you, make sure you are assertive. This will make her see you as a man
which is obviously what you want, right? But not only that you will feel amazing
which you really deserve. Quick question before we move on to number six. Would
you like more videos with tips on how to get a girl to like you? If you would be
sure to comment "YES!" in the comments below. And I wanted to mention real fast
if you haven't yet downloaded my guide 17 Traits Christian Women Want Most in a
Man guys you need to know what's in that guide. It's an incredible resource. Check
out the link in the description below and I will send you this free guide.
Number six is to ask her questions about herself. This sounds so simple but it's
insanely powerful guys. This is a really good way to make her feel relaxed. When
people ask us questions about ourselves we know the answers to them, right? We
just do. It also makes her feel important and needed, it makes her feel interesting,
which we all want. We want to be with people who make us feel that way. So
asking her questions about herself is an amazing tool and an amazing trick if you
will. Don't be afraid to ask questions that may feel a little bit random. As
long as they're like light-hearted and fun it's going to be really cute to her
and really fun for her. Number seven is to be charming. We have all heard of
Prince Charming, right? Most girls grew up wanting her very own
Prince Charming. That hasn't gone away. Even as an adult
deep down she really like still wants Prince Charming. Being a charming person
is one of the best ways to be what I like to call attractive by default. It
makes you a magnet for the type of woman you are wanting. When you are charming
your default setting is attractive. Number eight is to have your own hobbies
and interests. Boring people are boring. [laughter] It makes sense, right? They're not
interesting, they're not attractive. Someone however who has interests and
who is driven and who has passions and who's adding to the world, that kind of
person is fascinating. They are irresistible. People wants to be around
people like that. So making sure that you have interests and hobbies and things
you are proactively doing that is an amazing way to be incredibly attractive.
To women in particular this is a trait that is a deal breaker. It will make you
unforgettable and totally irresistible. Number nine is to show your interest. As
women we need to be pursued. Period, end of discussion. I don't care what anybody
says about the time and age we live in. Guys, God created women to have a need to
be pursued. So if you want to stand out from the crowd, if you want to be her
hero, if you want her to see you as a man, you need to man up and you need to
pursue her. I have a lot of you ask "Okay how in the world do I pursue her?" Because
you need to make sure you do it the right way
it will not go well, right? That is something I cover in my course How to
Get a Girlfriend. Again check out the link in the description below guys. If
again if you want her to see you as a man you need to act like one. And one of
the main ways you do that is by pursuing her. So show her that you are interested
in her. Pursue her. That right there definitely sets you apart from the crowd
and builds attraction like you would not believe. Now this tip is maybe the most
powerful and the most important so make sure you pay close attention. Confidence.
One of the best things you can do is to be confident. As a matter of fact if you
came to me and you said "Okay what is the one thing I can do that will help me get
my dream girl the very quickest?" I would walk you through how to become
confident. This is why I actually spend so much time teaching about confidence
and the easy ways to become confident in my course. Confidence is another trait
that is attractive by default. Think about the people who you admire most and
who you enjoy being with the most. They're probably confident people. As
humans we are just drawn to those people. And as a woman when she meets a man
who's confident he's absolutely irresistible. He just is. Confidence is
something every woman wants in her man. The good news is it actually doesn't
have to be hard. Again once you know the right things and you have the right
strategy it becomes very very simple. So again be sure to check out my course How
to Get a Girlfriend through the link in the description below. The truth is I
used to really struggle with confidence and as soon as I cracked the code I had
to share it with everyone because I know the pain of not feeling confident. So be
sure to check out that link. Seriously it is going to help you get the girl of your
dreams so much faster. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you
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friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
I feel like I'm forgetting something
but I don't think I am so let's do this. [whispering] Let's do this. [laughter]
I think I'm hyper for today. That's not uncommon.
If you want to get the girl of
your dreams the fastest the easiest and the most enjoyable-ly? That's not a word. [laughter]
Most enjoyably. I think we should make that word. Comment and let me know if you
think we should make that a word. Enjoyably I guess it is a word just not
used in the right way. I don't know. Never mind. Okay, moving on.
Enjoyably. Is that a word? I don't know.