﻿10 WEAK Traits Women Absolutely Hate In Men [0:00:00]
First up on the list, not listening. Apparently, the ladies don’t like it when they’re talking
and talking and talking and we are not paying attention. I mean, I think that’s what they say,
I don’t know, I wasn’t listening. [sound effect] But, seriously, gents, we know that the ladies
talk quite a bit more than we do. And we try to be good I think a lot of times listening to them,
but we zone out. Our minds are elsewhere. Well, apparently, this is a trait that a lot of them
don’t like because it makes them feel ignored. So, what’s the solution? Stop everything every
time they’re talking and give them a hundred percent of your attention? No,
I don’t think that’s possible and I know I’m not going to do it.
What works for me, I find when my wife and I are having an important conversation, what I do
to show her I am fully present is I shut my computer. I make sure that my phone
is in my pocket. I give her one hundred percent of my attention. [sound effect]
It doesn’t happen all the time, but whenever she knows, hey, this matters, she sees
that I am present. [Music]
Now, for this video, gents, I went to the cesspool of hate, which is known as Reddit
and I went through looked through all the things the ladies are saying, “You know what?
I hate this about my partner. I just despise this about my man. I would change this.”
So, that you guys have a heads up. Not that you got to change everything. In fact, if you
disagree for a lot of these, let me know in the comments below if you got something to add. I love
hearing from you guys down in those comments. So, starting things off, Kung Fu or Mega Warrior?
She hates it when her man always has to get in the last word. Kung Fu or Mega Warrior?
I get it. In fact, let me add onto that. No, just kidding. I think she said it all and this
is something I know I struggled with, especially early on in the relationship with my partner with
my wife is simply I like to add things. I always wanted to say have the last word and I did this
with a lot of other guys. And I think it’s maybe
a guy thing especially when you’re young maybe a bit of boasting,
we always like to add something onto it. How to break this habit always getting the
last word in on a conversation? Well, first up, you have to recognize that you
do it. Maybe ask around, just say, “You know what? Is this me?” You may find that, yes,
I didn’t even know I have this habit, I keep falling into it. And we really feel like, hey,
I’ve got to show that I’ve got something to add and unfortunately, it just makes the conversation,
yeah, annoying for a lot of people. And tied right to that last point, constantly
boasting, being a bragger, being that person that always has to one-up other people. And, gents,
to confess, I have been this guy. And what’s interesting is thinking back, it wasn’t always
about boasting that you were better at something than somebody else although it happens a lot
especially in running when I was in high school. But, oftentimes you’re boasting about pain that
you’ve gone through. This person is sharing with you just a really
painful episode and you’re thinking, “You know what? I’ve been through worse.”
And you tell them you’ve been through worst that you overcame this and all of a sudden,
instead of it being about them just sharing with you a pain they’re going through,
you’re trying to one-up them that you’ve had two deaths, you know, in a period a week and that
they should over, you know, it’s like pull yourself up in the bootstrap. This person
doesn’t even have boots and they’re, yeah. Point being is sometimes it’s better just to keep your
mouth shut and to let that person confide in you. Now, with this next point I’m going to hit two
birds with one stone and that is, one, you don’t open up. So, we talked about, yes,
sometimes you need to shut up. But, oftentimes, you need to be more transparent and open about
pain that you’re going through, problems that you’re facing. And what we do a lot
of times is we cover this up by lying. Now, this one was tough because as men, we
oftentimes feel one of our best traits is that we don’t complain, we don’t bitch, we keep things to
ourselves. And, when people are probing, they can figure it out. We try to, you know, turn it away.
We’re like, “No, no, nothing’s wrong, babe.” But, things are wrong because you’re stressed
out at work, you’re just haven’t been spending time in the gym. You’re not able to get it up
in the bedroom and you’re making up excuses. It’s like, “You know, I just don’t feel
like it tonight.” Yeah, and she’s feeling dejected and she knows something is up.
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The next trait the ladies hate, the wandering eye. And there’s a big difference between the wandering
eye and just simply being a man and being -- I mean, when I see a beautiful woman, I appreciate
her for her beauty, but I leave it at that. Versus trying to make eye contact versus trying
to flirt versus trying to have a conversation taking at, yes, sometimes right in front of her
and it’s something that many of us have fallen into especially when we’re in a relationship for a
while, it makes us feel alive, it reminds us that, hey, we’ve still got it, we like that feeling.
But, you have to be careful with these interactions because, yes, you’re just having
fun, but, you know, those are yellow – yellow flags. I don’t know. If you disagree with me,
let me know in the comments below. But, I’m a big believer in yellow flag, yellow flag and
you don’t stop through those and, boom, you hit a red flag and you keep going right through.
It’s not just, yes, I know when I’m going to stop. But to me, I try to stop
way before. That being said, you know, you’ve had some of those conversations,
you’ve had some of that flirting with that woman, hey, just simply you – you got her attention.
Point being, I want to hear from you guys down the comments if you disagree with this.
But for me in general, I try to be really careful because, you know, I’m so damn good looking
with, yeah, the wandering eye. Now, dovetailing off that last point,
let’s talk about arrogance. A lot of guys think that arrogance and confidence
are the same thing. No, they are not. Confidence is knowing what your capabilities are,
what your weaknesses are and just knowing that you’ve got the ability to
overcome an obstacle in your way. Arrogance? Yes, it is believing you
are better than other people. It’s believing that somehow, you know, you are born better
that you’ve just got skills that make you better. You are somehow endowed with the skills. It just
make you, yeah, above other people. That is arrogance and you got to be careful of it.
You see, arrogance and disrespect, they go hand in hand. This leads to a feeling of
superiority and this is just something you got to be careful of, especially I think as guys is we
go after a lot of things in life, we start to look down on other people and we can fall
into that trap. I know I have and it’s something you’ve got to keep in check.
The next trait the ladies do not like, when you’ve only got two hundred words in your lexicon
and one hundred of those words are various ways to use the word -- [bleeping sound]. Seriously,
I get it, you love that word, you can fit into every sentence, but it just makes
you come off as not intelligent. You can do so much better. I find
the best way to add words to your vocabulary is to get passionate about a new subject and learn
everything about it. Think about if you’re into cars, you’ve got to learn all of these particular
parts of the car, which you add to your lexicon. As I’ve gotten into fragrances, I have to learn
all of these words to be able to better describe the fragrances. And that’s really as you improve
your vocabulary, you become better at description, at explaining, at speaking, at communicating.
And that’s really the base of this is they want you to be a better communicator.
Now, with this next point, I know personally I’m still mad at this and that is interrupting
other people. And a lot of guys, we just step over the women on our lives because
they’re maybe a little bit more soft spoken. When we have something to say, we really want
to get that point across, we want to, you know, we’re tired of listening to them talk
for three to four minutes to say something we think they can say in three seconds. [laughs]
Yes. And we jump in and we force the words in. But, we are constantly doing
this and you saw woman after woman writing over on Reddit that they hate it when they
are talked over, they are interrupted. I find sometimes I get really passionate
excited about something and I have to jump in. I do this with other guys with friends and we
seem to do this back and forth. Maybe it’s the way that we communicate and interact.
That being said, you got to be careful with people that aren’t used to this. They don’t
communicate that way. This is something that they hate it when they are talked over when
they are pushed aside. They view it as very confrontational. You want to become self-aware,
I am aware that I am interrupter. And it’s hard when you know everything, right?
I’m joking there. I don’t know everything. I mean, I don’t know a whole lot about
knitting. Does any of you guys? [sound effect] Now, for this next point, I don’t necessarily
agree with it and that is they want sometimes a yes or no answer to the question. And I think
this really depends on the question itself. You know how people frame questions in a way that
you’re going to, you know, basically be in trouble whether you say yes or no and they’re not allowing
you to bring in, you know, the circumstances, all the other information around it?
Let me know in the comments. Agree? Disagree? I personally don’t like it and I see why politicians
sometimes skate the question they avoid it because they are put in a position where,
you know, they’re going to lose no matter what they say, so they try to reframe the question.
This is something lawyers are really good at, people that have studied the law or understand
debate. And this one I couldn’t jump on board with because I do feel sometimes that, yes,
the way I am -- have questions post to me, I’m like, “No, I’m not going to answer that one.”
Now, this next trait you probably knew would be on the list and that is apparently we don’t care
as much about housework, helping around the house, all that other stuff. I get this, but,
yeah, I just find me and my wife have different standards and different areas in the house that
we want clean and well-taken care of. [0:10:01]
For me, the garage and the basement, those are really important to have everything organized
especially my tools and stuff like that. She’s focused in on, you know, bathrooms and stuff
like that. I mean, it’s like a, you know, I actually do keep the bathroom pretty clean.
But, I just find that we’ve got different standards especially in the kitchen. She wants
every dish washed immediately. For me, I want to build things up a bit and then wash it all at once
once a day. I think that that’s perfectly fine. Again, guys, we’ve got different ways of
interpreting this, but I feel in general, I don’t know, are you
pretty bad at helping out around the house? And let’s talk about selective memory. So,
I think I do a pretty good job remembering most things especially when it comes to finances.
I do remember in general the months when my kids were born, but apparently, I’m supposed to not
only remember the months the days that they were born, but I need to know anniversaries. I mean,
women in general are really good at it. I become much better now that my assistant
helps me go through and we put everything in my calendar. But, my wife is amazing. She remembers
like every month day after friends’ children’s – children are born. And she calls them up and,
you know, “Hey, it’s been six months since your baby was born. Congratulations.”
I mean, I didn’t even think to be doing this, but I’ve actually helped a lot of other guys
like add this to their calendar when their kids are born that this is a big deal. But,
yeah, a lot of women are upset the fact that we maybe say something we’re going to get to it,
they put on their honey-do list and we don’t make it a priority.
I admit this is an area I definitely can improve and I love technology because
it’s made it so much better for me especially remember our anniversary. I love you, Lena.
Now, what about money? What about finances? What are the traits that women really care
about here? Well, guys, find out in this video right here, where I talk about the secret things
that women want, that they’re just not going to tell you because, yeah, they’re going to
be presumed maybe as a gold digger. Guys, in this video, I had a lot of
fun. Go check it out. I really like this one. It’s a good one. Yeah, go check it out, guys,
right here solid video. I’ll link to it in the description and I’m going to hold it here for
a couple of more seconds. [0:11:57] End of audio