In this video you'll learn ten things that men do when they are in love. So if
you're seeing these signs with your man you can be sure that he loves you even
if he hasn't said those three magic words don't go anywhere because we're
starting right now why is it so hard to know if a man truly loves you well the
truth is love is a tricky thing a man can say he loves you and not truly mean
it or a man can love you a lot but not be ready to say it and when you aren't
sure how he feels it's scary and makes you feel vulnerable
so you keep your guard up to avoid getting hurt then instead of being
present and connecting with him on a deeper level you get stuck in your own
words Ott's that produce fears and insecurities but the good news actions
speak louder than words so if you see the following signs you can be sure that
he's in love with you or he's falling in love with you
even if he hasn't told you number 10 he wants to spend time with you regardless
of what you're doing in other words he wants to be with you even when what
you're doing is not fun when a man is in love with you what matters most is
spending time with you not what you're doing Sophie is there to help you when
you have work to do if he's there to help you when you're moving if he's
there to help you paint you know that he feels strongly about you another example
he will often go the extra mile to help you with something a project a need an
errand etc again he just wants to be near you regardless number nine he
treats you like a priority he is consistently showing you that he is
committed to putting their relationship as a high priority and I don't mean just
empty promises he not only lets you know you are a priority he demonstrates it in
his daily even hourly commitment to keeping the relationship healthy and
striving and he makes your relationship time a priority remember no matter how
busy a person is if you are your relationship is important in a high
priority he will find a time or he will make the time for you so if he's
figuring it out taking time to plan dates and to see you despite his busy
schedule then obviously he cares about you a great deal he also demonstrates
his commitment to you by consulting with you before making big decisions so
decision making becomes cooperative rather than individual because you are
now a joint unit couples that are loving and respectful of one another
begin to consider not only what is best for themselves but also the potential
impact it has on their partner as a team you make choices together especially big
decisions number eight he keeps you informed of what he's up to not because
he has to but because he wants to so he keeps you in the loop regarding his
decisions even when it's unnecessary because he's considered of your feelings
for example if he's going to be away from his phone and unresponsive for an
extended time he lets you know an advance if possible or he explains his
delayed response afterward when he isn't able to be as responsive as usual not
because you asked but because he doesn't want you to think your feelings aren't
important so he makes daily efforts to stay tuned into you he finds ways to
check in with you during the day the effort to stay tuned in accomplishes
several things it allows you to know what's going on with your partner it
gives you an opportunity to offer support and also knowing that you have
each other's back feels great number seven his words are matched by
his behaviors there's nothing more confusing and difficult than being in a
relationship with a person who says one thing but does something else for
example if he says he misses you yet he never makes time to see you then he's
being incongruent and that is so difficult to deal with you see in all
relationships we communicate simultaneously on at least two levels
what we say and what we do usually a person's verbal and actual behaviors
convey the same message which means that they are consistent and congruent so if
he's saying he misses you and backs that up by making plans to see you and spend
time with you then he's consistent and congruent if he
tells you that he loves being with you and then backs up these words by
spending lots of time with you that's a great sign another obvious sign that he
loves being around you or with you is evidenced by the way a man touches you
especially when we were talking about non-sexual touch things like rubbing
your shoulders or caressing your arms and stroking your hair when a guy starts
to fall in love he will want to be as close to you as possible even if that
means that your body heat makes him sweat bullets being physically close to
you is all that matters to him so if you've noticed that he's being a lot
more physically affectionate then it's a clear sign of his growing feelings
number six he
doesn't hide your relationship on social media especially if he's active on
social media new couples who are excited about a future together usually want to
share their happiness with friends and family obviously some people aren't
interested in sharing anything on social media and if that's the case ignore this
sign but if the guy you're dating is active on social media and isn't afraid
to share photos of the two of you yeah that's a really good sign too
he's proud and excited about your relationship and is happy to share it
now these first signs show that he really feels strongly for you but keep
watching because the next signs are the ones that are unmistakable if he's doing
these things he's either in love or falling in love with you number five
your happiness is important to him when you love someone when you really love
someone their happiness is your happiness this is especially true for
men who need to feel like they can make a woman happy
if you town something that makes you unhappy you should see him stop doing it
a man who loves you will avoid doing things that will make you unhappy and he
will learn the things that make you happy and he'll make an effort to do
those things number four he includes you when talking about the future he
includes you in his bigger life plans he doesn't speak about the future
vaguely instead he makes it clear that he envisions a future with you in it
so pay attention to the way he talks about the future does he use the word we
when referring to some future discussion or does he use the word me does he say
things like in the future I'm going to move to California or does the instead
ask you questions like would you ever consider living in California do you see
the difference here the first one might make you feel threatened like he's going
to leave and move to California regardless of what you want
the second indicates that he is considering you in his thoughts about
the future so if he's speaking about a possible future with you it's a sign
that he's falling in love or he's already in love with you number three he
wants to immerse himself in your life he wants to meet your family and all of
your friends and he really wants them to like him he makes an effort to get to
know them and make a good impression he wants to know all about your passions
and hobbies and tries to connect to these areas of your life as much as
possible at the same time he also wants to immerse you in his life and for you
to meet all his people he wants you to be best
friends with everyone that he's close to and he wants the people in his life to
love you the way he does number two he misses you when you're apart when you
love someone you yearn to be near them and you miss them when they're gone now
that doesn't mean that you're constantly thinking about them to the point where
you can't get anything done because that would be an unhealthy obsession but
thoughts of them aren't far from your mind thoughts of them always linger in
the background things remind you of them something happens and you want to tell
them or you just feel a constant connection even when you're apart for
example he sends you funny things he finds online or links to articles he
thinks you'd like or he'll tell you about something funny that happened to
him that he thought you'd appreciate it's a connection you can feel so if he
tells you he misses you when you're apart or he does things that shows you
that he misses you it's a great sign now before we get to the number one sign
that a man loves you I have a quick question are you in a new relationship
where you haven't said I love you yet what are some of the things that he's
done to show you that he loves you leave a comment and let's start a discussion I
promise to respond to all of you okay I'm to number one the next sign is a
sure sign that he's either in love with you or he's falling in love with you
so if he's doing this he may not be in love with you yet but it indicates that
year on your way and that is he invests in you and in the relationship he
invests into the relationship in terms of time and energy and effort and other
important resources because the more we invest in someone the more we appreciate
them the more effort we put into a relationship the more we like and
appreciate our partner and the relationship as a result for example he
goes above and beyond in gestures of thoughtfulness he anticipates your needs
and takes actions to do things that are helpful he does small favors for you
when he can and approaches your responsibilities such as taking care of
a home or cleaning or auto maintenance in a way where he tries to take burden
off of you for example if you don't live near one another
he doesn't mind driving to pick you up and drop you off so he's showing you his
effort he's making effort to weave your two lives together to share in
activities and friendships and have and passions those are huge investments
in their relationship and make it far too costly to lose
we don't make investments like that into relationships that are meaningless
so yeah if he's doing these things he may not be in love with you yet but he's
falling in love with you by the way I've also made a video that explains the
things that you can do to encourage a man to fall in love with you click here
to watch that video now and if you're interested in making your love life the
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