- So here's my concern.
Your mentality not understanding that this part
shouldn't have started.
I knew it was wrong then, and I know it was wrong now.
OK.
But it's-- I mean, I almost lost my family behind.
It--
It was such a slap in the face to me, I feel, because I--
I didn't feel like I had the idea that we
were in that kind of a place.
I wouldn't have guessed that that was going on.
And so now, we're not about to not discuss what the problem
is, because I absolutely don't know
what the hell the problem was.
It ain't like me and you were in a place in our marriage
where we ain't having sex, and we ain't kissing,
and we ain't doing walks in the park,
and we ain't holding hands.
What that concerns me that we were still doing all of that,
and you still found it necessary to have
a full-blown girlfriend.
Because I love you, that's why.
Though I stepped out in another relationship, that--
it doesn't discount--
Oh, oh, oh, wait, did you just say in another relationship?
So OK, we're in a re-- relationship.
Because ya'll was talking all day every day, just about.
Yes, no, you pulled the phone records--
- I sure did. - Investigate her, right.
- Yeah. - I mean, you saw everything.
How long was it?
That's another question I need to know.
I'm pretty sure you know what-- you told me how long.
I'm asking-- I don't care. I'm asking you, though.
A year.
Ya'll only talked for a year?
So you're still lying.
No, I'm--
I'm sorry, but that's irrel-- irrelevant.
I don't talk to her anymore.
The only relevancy is if you're still lying to me.
See, we can't move forward--
OK, OK-- we talked for two years.
If we don't put all our cards on the table.
We talked for two years.
That's a long time, Martell Holt.
Now, here's my other concern, is every time I mention--
I say something-- - Why-- I'm so sorry--
Why-- why is it--
Why do you have to talk about this during their wedding day?
Because this is-- well, because this is what I--
I know it's beautiful out here, but you talk about--
- Because this is-- - something negative.
We should-- - Because this issue what--
We should-- we should be hugging and kissing.
Look. - Hey, Martell--
- It is-- - --I'm so sorry, but--
Buildi-- building some of these--
Martell-- Martell.
80 $100 million buildings, that's something
we need to be talking about.
Martell, I really don't think you understand
how much you hurt me.
See, in my mind, I'm thinking that you and I
are Mr. Mrs. Power Couple--
- I'm sorry-- - Whatever.
Are we not?
I'm talking about--
I was a good man.
I was still producing.
I was still taking care of the kids.
I was still-- - Martell--
--taking care of the house.
To the d-- you hurt me to the depths--
I know. I'm s--
--of my soul.
I'm sorry for that.
Because the biggest thing for me with this whole
thing was the disrespect that came with it.
I answer your phone.
If somebody says to me, I didn't call your phone.
Put Martell on the phone.
You should have checked her right then
and say, hold on, who the [BLEEP]
you think you're talking to?
That's my wife. - I couldn't.
You ran off with my phone. - Don't talk to my wife.
I'm sorry. You didn't give me my phone.
Sweetheart, it was on speaker.
I said, Martell, say something.
Say something, Martell.
You didn't say not one word.
I'm sorry.
I'm not accustomed to that situation.
You heard your girlfriend get smart with your wife
on the phone.
You never took up for me, or defended me, ever.
I mean, why am I defending you?
Like saying something to your wife,
saying don't say nothing to my wife.
I did. I did.
No, you didn't. You stood there in silence.
[INAUDIBLE],, that's the first phone call, babe.
So how did I end up having three full other conversations
with her later on?
But you went to her.
Sweetheart, you must not remember
when she called my phone.
Is there anything you can do to keep your husband
from following in behind me?
Because every time I change my number he costs me.
How--
That's what she's said.
Oh, OK.
And I told her I have no pity or mercy
on anybody who wants to sleep with somebody else husband.
Figure it out.
OK, babe.
You looking angry right now. - I am.
You don't gotta relive that.
What you did was the ultimate betrayal.
People knew.
No.
You think this [BLEEP] mouth was so closed tight--
Oh my God.
That she wasn't saying [BLEEP.] That's a lie.
And quit defending her.
You're still defending her.
After that, Martell, you had me going to somebody's doorstep
at 2:00 in the morning, confronting them
about being with my husband.
You didn't have to go out and do that stuff.
I didn't have to, but I'm saying you put me--
you put me--
You didn't have to go and tell-- tell the entire
city what your husband did.
Oh, you think I told the entire city?
You made it worse by going to tell everybody
instead of keeping it--
Oh, hey, you can say I didn't tell everybody.
- --in our house. - I didn't tell everybody.
If your husband do anything wrong,
I don't care if I slept with 1,000 people,
you don't go out and tell people.
We keep that in our household.
You should have kept your penis in our household.