To be a real high value man, meaning the kind of guy who
women are going to be attracted to and want to invest their time
and energy in, you need to take care of your four M's, what are
these four M's? Well keep watching and I promise they will
help you to raise your desirability to new levels,
helping you become an amazing lover, boyfriend, husband,
number one draft pick at the orgy, whatever your goal is. Hi,
I'm Caitlin V, sex and relationship coach. And today
I'm going to explain the misconceptions we have about
what a high value man is, and then give you the four M's that
will make you a high value, man. Now whenever I broach this
subject, I get a lot of comments telling me that I'm describing a
sigma man, or I'm all wrong, and I don't really understand what
women actually want, or a lot of guys defending that they
actually could never be a high value man, like literally going
in the comments to say like, I offer nothing of value to the
world. And still, I think that women should be running over and
jumping on my dick at the minute I walk in the room. I don't know
why I'll do that. But this video is not about being an alpha
male. It's not about being the macho list of macho men. It is
not about Ferraris and Rolexes and Swiss chalets, I'm not gonna
talk about spiritual retreats wearing poncho is talking about
your emotions, and whispery ASMR voices being a high value, man,
it's actually about showcasing and cultivating the traits that
will help you to be more desirable in general, to women.
And you'll probably be relieved today that I'm going to
introduce some red pill shit as well. So buckle up friends, one
thing you got to know above and beyond anything else, is that no
matter how high value you are, no matter how closely you follow
my instructions in this video, you're not owed, or entitled to
attention, attraction, sex, emotional support, and
relationships. by women. I mean, you're not really guaranteed or
owed anything ever on planet earth like Welcome to
humaneness. But by managing your four ends, you will definitely
increase the probability that you will reach your sex and
relationship goals that you will be able to form loving, sexy,
happy, satisfying relationships with high value women. So what
are these four items enough teasing you? Let's find out.
Number one is muscles that you didn't think I was gonna say
that but yeah, muscles, moving your body, getting out of your
chair, whether that's your work chair or your gaming chair for a
few hours every day. Now, the good news is that women are not
as looks obsessed when choosing a mate as men are. So you do not
have to be an ultra jacked bodybuilder or one of those
CrossFit guys with a protruding app not even close. I'm not
talking about muscles in the sense that you must have a super
sculpted body where you can see like the little pages running
down your bicep. I mean, that's great. But that's actually not
what women are looking for. Women tend to be attracted to
men who simply put some thought and care into their physical
health and your shape of your body is a good indication of
that. This is because people who are active tend to be happier,
they tend to be healthier, and most women want a partner whose
mental and physical health is going to support him in going
the distance with her. It just shows that you care about your
body and that you plan on being on planet Earth for as long as
possible. So whatever exercise you choose, it doesn't have to
be intense. It just has to be something hit the gym a few
times a week, go for a run every couple days. Shoot some hoops,
did shoot hoops. Shoot some hoops. Do some yoga, have killer
dance parties, in your underwear with the music blasting in your
headphones, what ever works for you. You can even work out at
home, no weights. There's tons and tons and tons and tons and
tons of free workout routines on YouTube. Don't go now we have
three other M's to get through. But once we're done here, you
can go and look up free exercise routines on YouTube set
reasonable goals that you can attain and stick to it. The only
way to get any utility out of exercising and moving your body
is to do it on a regular basis and trust that you will see the
results in time and goes without saying that you will get even
more results if you limit the amount of shit you put into your
body. So reducing fried and processed foods eating more
greens drinking more water, less beer. I know you've heard all
this before, but that's because it works. More movement and a
better diet equals healthy body when it comes to choosing a
mate. Women are looking for healthy men, you will increase
your value to women and your attractiveness and your mate
ability by improving your health. Um number two money. Now
who the heck am I and where did Caitlin V go? Because usually
I'm telling you all that the size of your wallet or the kind
of car that you drive doesn't actually matter that much to
women hear me out. You do not need to have Jeff Bezos cash in
order to attract over Have it I mean, he can't even attract a
woman. Don't get me wrong. No one is going to be mad if you
have a pool with a waterside poses waterslides are dope. But
far more than any amount of money you have women prefer men
who have a healthy relationship with money. Do you see what I
did there? This means you make money, but you also save money,
you also invest money, and you also spend money and you do all
four of those in a balanced and responsible way. In today's
world, most women are pretty self sufficient, they actually
can make good money on their own, so they don't need a man's
money to survive. And that's why the gold chained millionaire
who's losing money at the casino blowing it on cocaine and
constantly on the phone screaming at his financial team
is going to be less attractive than a guy with a steady modest
paying job 401k and an ability to budget while also treating
their girlfriend to a nice dinner from time to time.
Actually it is those stingy guys who are unwilling to invest at
all in their relationship that are the least attractive the
guys who are on a budget, but still figure out how to bring
home flowers every week. That's where it's at dudes. So look at
your money situation and assess if you have problems making
saving, investing or spending money. If you do, you may want
to focus on getting that aspect of your life in line before
hitting the clubs and shaking your tail feather to find a
mate. Like one of those like fun birds from the nature
documentaries. Number three masculinity, my dude just
because you're Alpha doesn't mean you're gonna Omega your
woman comm
masculinity is about far more than big muscles, fast cars, and
worshipping at the beard of Dan Bilzerian it's about being
secure and competent. And not wildly overcompensating and
being a giant asshole to everyone, just because you are
short or you have skinny calves or your parents named you Tober.
In fact, having a healthy relationship with your
masculinity means having a healthy relationship with your
feminine side. Are you the guy who's gonna happily put on that
tutu and have a tea party with your kid? Or are you the guy
who's gonna scream at your son and call him a gay slur for not
being good enough at sports? Guess which one is more
attractive to women? And guess what? After you're done with the
tutu and the Tea Party, you can still go get that sleeve tattoo
shop would crush beer cans on your forehead. Again, it's about
having a healthy secure relationship with both the
masculine and the feminine. So if you understand that the
feminine and masculine are just two sides of the same coin, you
have to have a healthy relationship with both of them
in order to have a complete and holistic relationship with
either one of them. And last but not least Am Number Four Mojo.
Mojo is essential. It's like swag, but it's not about
cockiness or big dick energy. It's more like fundic Energy
Mojo is the confidence to try new things to be your charming,
authentic self, to explore the things that your partner is
interested in. Even if it freaks you out or takes you out of your
comfort zone. Think of it like a recipe. It's a little bit of a
playful attitude mixed with sexiness mixed with a healthy,
rounded lifestyle and a little bit of extra effort put into
your grooming. It's the competence that you get with a
fresh beard trim. And that T shirt that makes you feel extra
sexy because it shows off your growing guns. It's a body wash
that smells great or even a spray of Cologne. It's a
spontaneous date night or a confident tipsy rendition of a
Third Eye Blind song at karaoke. It's being led by curiosity
instead of fear, competence instead of doubt, we're all sexy
as if we believe it and Mojo is believing it. Okay, so now that
you've harnessed the power of your muscles, your money, your
masculinity and your mojo. Congratulations, you are now a
graduate of the Chris Evans School of hot high value men.
Just kidding. Remember, all the things we talked about are about
balance and confidence, not necessarily being the most
extreme or intense version of each category. It's way more
about how you relate to your muscles, how you relate to your
money, how you relate to your masculinity, and the kind of
mojo that you exude. And remember, if you act with
integrity and kindness, you make sure to keep your energy focused
on your well being and that of your partner, you will become
desirable on all sorts of new levels, which means better sex,
more sex, better relationships, better connections. If you want
my help with that, please check out the links in the description
below. And while you're down there, subscribe to my channel.
I'm Caitlin V. I will see you here next
week.