Hey everyone this is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today I'm going to tell you what
to talk about on the first date.
What do you talk about first date?
How can you convey your awesomeness
through conversation? Here's the big rule about first dates. Everything
surrounding the date, especially conversation,
needs to be fun,
happy and sexy.
Remember this number one rule. We will come back to this. But first let's start
off the list of stuff
that you shouldn't talk about on the first date.
Number one,
do not talk about your
ex-girlfriend,
your past breakup or your divorce. This is not the time nor the place. Remember
our big rule?
There's nothing
fun about breakups.
It didn't work out at the last one, which sucks, but those aren't the first things
you should be talking about with the girl you just met. Keep the ex
conversations to a minimum until you have at least a few more dates. Number two,
politics and religion.
Do your best to stay away from sensitive topics. This breaks the big rule.
In general, there's nothing sexy about politics or religion. There is an
exception. If politics or religion define who you are,
maybe it's your job, maybe you're a religious person then fine, I
understand. You're maybe screening for someone who has similar interests but if none of
that describes you
then stay away.
Number three, don't talk about your problems.
Listen, we all have issues and nobody is perfect
but a first date is not the time to discuss those.
Back to the big rule, keep things happy.
If you start talking about how you're stressed out at work
or your mom is always nagging you,
then you're going to be labeled as a complainer
your stress is gonna make her stress
and now
you're making a bad impression.
Okay, enough about what you shouldn't be talking about let me tell you what you
should talk about on the first date.
Here's a quick list: passions, hobbies and interests.
What does she do for fun?
What is she interested in?
What are you interested in? What's your favorite music and movies?
Family background. Ask her about her brothers and sisters, where she grew up
and what it was like. Your careers, what do you both do for a living.
The date itself, how's the food, any good people watching, what's going on around
you that you can comment on?
Interesting things you've done over the year. Have you
traveled anywhere cool lately, been to any fun concerts? Have any funny or weird stories
to share? If you haven't seen a pattern you have to let me help you out.
The more you've done with your life and the more you have going for you will make an
easier first date
because you love interesting things to talk about.
Go ahead and leave a comment down below if you have interesting stories of questions
that you guys ask on a first date.
I want to hear them. And I have a free gift for you. If you haven't already downloaded
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I'll see you next time.