hi ladies one of the most important
things you can do
in a relationship with a man is to give
him
space when you give a man space
you give him space to pursue you you
give him
space to feel like a man he has to
recharge his testosterone
and take a break from all your beautiful
wonderfulness
to actually recharge and you're also
creating space so he can miss you
these are really important factors for
masculine energy to recharge and
reestablish the relationship now
sometimes you want to give a man
space because he has let you know that
he's not sure about the relationship
anymore
he's not really sure if he wants to be
in a committed relationship with you
i have a good friend who's going through
this right now and what will happen is
you
in most cases i hope if you listen to my
material or you have any of my
study programs you'll know that i've got
to have a boundary
i have to tell this man i want to be in
a committed loving relationship that
leads to marriage
and we are not on the same page so i'm
going to be moving on
now walking away can be one of the
scariest things you ever do in a
relationship
and having that boundary and it takes a
while to be ready for that i remember
when i had to do it
now ladies i've written a blog it has
close to 2 million views and it is all
about
why walking away works now i don't you
think you have to end your relationship
or anything like that but do take a
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so if you have had the boundary where
you've had the discussion with your man
as i had to have one time with jeff
once upon a time i let him know i want
to be in loving committed relationship
and we are not on the same page i want
to be married one day
he laughed in my face hahaha who's
laughing now
but i had to step away from that
relationship and give him space and
here's what happens when you do
nine times out of ten the man will
continue to contact you
he'll act like nothing's happened at all
he'll act like he's still trying to get
you back the way that he wants you
however many days a week or whatever
hours please him
or he'll start just sniffing around for
more attention from you
and this is where it is vital to give
him space
and stand your ground now this doesn't
mean like
shut off i'm never gonna have a
relationship with you again
but what you do next is so important and
i
teach you this in the abcs to get him
back when that man starts
texting you again you want to let him
know
i feel flattered to hear from you but
this
feels confusing you don't want to be in
a committed relationship with me
and i have feelings talking to you
is gonna give me more feelings and i've
accepted your no
you don't want to be in a committed
relationship with me so you can say
any number any variation of this but
always you want to get that clarity you
can
say has something changed on your end it
feels so wonderful to hear from you and
it feels so great to talk and connect
yet i feel really confused i know you
don't want to be in a committed
relationship has something
changed on your end so that is when
you're in that situation
that's how to get that space create that
space
keep that space and not turn into a
texting
buddy you do not want to be a text buddy
who never sees her guy
or only dates him once every three weeks
how often you date is always up to you
but for me
i wanted to date a guy at least two to
three times a week
if i was in a committed relationship
with him i wanted to see him three to
five
days a week that's how it rolled when
you're with me
so everyone's going to be different but
find your boundary
find what feels comfortable and good for
you and allow that space to be there
even when you give it to him and he
wants right back in
okay you've got to have that boundary
for space now i skipped ahead a little
bit because the first thing you want to
do if this man
if you're giving him space if you're
allowing some space to exist between you
and him
the most important thing you can do is
let his text
sit there let him call your phone and
let it sit there
now i'm not saying i want you to on
purpose ignore him
but yeah i kind of am because i want you
to instead of rushing to your phone
picking it up
and getting right back to him i want you
to just let it sit there for a little
while
and wait until you're really knowing
what you want to say
and making sure it's not you know a
novella on top of a novella of text that
you're responding to him
but that you're able to respond
succinctly in feminine energy you'll
want to learn more about that
check out my ebook 500 ways to talk to a
man i teach you how to cut it in half
and cut it in half again
because men cannot process a lot of
language so number one let that text
sit there don't be afraid to let it sit
there until you're really comfortable
with what you're going to reply and
you're not doing a million different
things
look men don't reply to our text until
they are good and ready
you should be no different now this last
tip that's going to help you give him
space if you're in a situation where
you're
creating space with your man or you're
experiencing space from him
is i want you to look back on your life
and at some point in your life you have
made
improvements you have made changes
you've done something
positive to make improvement in changes
even if it was something as small
as cleaning out a closet or
losing five pounds or you know doing
something
in your life that you've done i want you
to go back
and look and see what you did to make
that work now for me i had some
obstacles in life
where i wanted to achieve something but
people were telling me no and pushing
back on me
and it really made me want to cry and
quit so one of the things i used to do
is i would go for a walk around my
neighborhood
and i would talk to myself and i would
give myself this little pep talk
and remind myself of what a powerful
dynamite woman i
am i am a powerful dynamite woman and
anything i want to do
or have i can no one stops me but me
so you get pumped up you get pumped up
in that spirit of what made you
successful in the past
or whatever worked for you and we want
to recreate this
now so while you're experiencing that
space
and you're lonely and you're missing him
you might wanna
you might fall into doubting yourself
and questioning yourself
i want you to look back on the past
what's worked for you in the past and i
want you to recreate that and have that
rich
juicy wonderful life that i talk about
this is where you are your most alluring
and most attractive
to anyone and everything is when you are
in this place of i'm grounded
i know myself i know what i want and i'm
feeling good about myself
yes it takes work we all have hard days
dark days and difficult times feminine
energy is a
practice it's something that you're
going to work at and i hope these tips
will help you in that process now as
always
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and always
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you