They say there’s a time and place for everything, so if you’re looking for love, keep these
ideas in mind.
Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel.
If you don’t already know me, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC and author of The
Devotion System — a program designed to help women find and lock down the love they
want and deserve.
And today I want to talk to you about something that so many women experience, and that’s
trying to meet men.
Well, the good news is that as much as this may seem like a challenging task, if you’re
on the pursuit for love then there are some key places to keep in mind.
Now before I share this list with you I’d like to quickly ask that if you enjoy what
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Now, let’s get started.
1.
In a class
Remember how easy it was to meet people when you were in school?
The tight knit environment created unless conversation starters for you, which is why
signing up for a class can be so helpful if you’re looking to meet men.
So, whether it’s yoga or pottery, swimming or even adult education, find a class or club
that intrigues you and sign up.
Asides from increasing your smarts, who knows who you’ll meet!
2.
In a coffee shop
Now I know you may be thinking, “But Amy, I don’t have time to hang around a coffee
shop waiting for Mr.Right to come strolling in,” and believe me, I get it!
That said, I’m not asking you to hang out for hours, but rather simply making a point
to frequent your favourite cafe can be helpful for meeting someone new.
Not only are humans more likely to strike up a conversation with someone they recognize,
but it also helps to create a more comfortable vibe between the two of you.
Once you do spot someone you’d like to get to know better be sure to make eye contact
with him.
Doing so will not only give him the indication that you are interested, but it’s also been
proven to help make you feel more connected with him.
3.
Volunteer
Whether you’re into helping stray puppies or protesting for third world rights, when
it comes to volunteering there is surely a cause you’re interested in.
By putting yourself in a group of like minded individuals you never know who you’ll meet,
and not to mention all the things you’ll have to talk about together.
Plus it feels good to giving back, so together you bond over those feelings.
In this case my Devotion Sequences can be super helpful, so if you’re interested in
learning these phrases then visit my site, www.coachnorth.com and watch the free video
presentation.
If this is the first you’re hearing of these, they are sets of phrases that I’ve designed
specifically to make any man wild with desire for you.
Trust me ladies, you don’t want to miss out!
4.
Social events
While this one is pretty broad, that just means you shouldn’t have a problem finding
an event you’d like to attend.
If you’re wondering where to start, the options really are endless.
From posters on the street and laundromat flyers, to facebook events and word of mouth
gatherings, put yourself out there.
Sure, it can be scary to attend these things along but hey, once you bite the bullet and
do so, maybe you won’t have to fly solo the next time!
5.
At the bar
Yes, liquid courage!
All kidding aside, a bar setting can be a great place to meet a guy for the simple reason
that so many men are there for that same reason.
Now I know it sounds cliche, but from pubs to clubs, being in this social setting is
almost guaranteed to mean you’ll meet someone new.
If you’re weary on the idea, then take it slow.
Maybe you go out one night just to take it all in, then the next you decide to strike
up a conversation with the cute guy who’s been staring.
Maybe on night three you feel comfortable giving out your number, or even agreeing to
a date.
The good news is that your approach is completely up to you so don’t feel pressured to do
anything you don’t want to do.
6.
Public transit
Sure it can be gross and germ ridden, but riding the bus or skytrain to work can be
pretty rewarding too.
For instance, think about how many great romances started with a simple glance or question...
right?
By skipping on your cozy car ride to work and putting yourself out there the possibility
of meeting someone new increases huge!
That said, simply being there may not be enough, and you may have to be the one to make the
first move.
So, if a man catches your eye then find something to talk to him about.
Perhaps it’s the book he’s reading or maybe it’s the song blasting through his
headphones, whatever it is, striking up a conversation is a great way to meet potential
love interests.
Besides, what do you have to lose?
7.
Online
Now, I can hear some of you ladies groaning already, so let me address you skeptics out
there watching this right now… there really are awesome guys on dating websites.
Lots of them.
The key is to weed out all the weirdos and fake profiles, and focus on the ones that
are actually worth your time.
Even if you’ve tried online dating in the past and it was a complete disaster, give
it another try, who knows, you may find yourself pleasantly surprised.
The nice thing about meeting someone online is that it opens the door to a whole new world
of possibilities.
Since meeting someone in person is limited to the place and time, in the online world
these kind of stipulations don’t really exist.
For example, what if you’re Mr. Right lives on the other side of town and has no reason
to frequent your favourite pub or coffee shop?
Or maybe he works nights and sleeps days.
By going online, you’re able to access a whole lot more guys that you wouldn’t otherwise
be able to meet or interact with.
You really won’t know until you’ve tried it, so you don’t want to brush this idea
aside.
Well now it’s your turn to weigh in; are there any places that you like to meet men?
Please share your thoughts and ideas in the comments section below, I’d love to hear
from you.
Also, if you have any questions about what I’ve shared here today then feel free to
post those too and I’ll do my best to get back to you as soon as possible.
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So then ladies, until next time take care and good luck!