What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Today, we're talking about
do women want friends with benefits? This is a not a complicated question,
but there is a complicated answer to it. Let's dive in here. Do women want friends
with benefits? I would say that a majority, like 90 to 95% of women,
ultimately want to be in a relationship. Let's start with that. Most women want to ultimately
be in a relationship. I've yet to meet any women, talk to any women, hear from any women that don't
want that. Even if they don't want kids, they still want a relationship. We'll start there.
Can women enjoy and even desire doing a friends of benefits? Yes, they can.
I think that only very few will actually do that. And when they do, they're still ultimately looking
for a relationship. Basically, here's what can happen. There's many different scenarios.
A woman can be doing a friends with benefits situation. What does that mean? That means that
you are in a hookup situation and that's all it is. It's not any kind of monogamous or committed
relationship. I think there are some times women who will do that (not I think) I know, there are
women who will do this and they'll end up doing it because they're secretly trying to still get that
guy into a relationship. Doesn't happen all the time, but a lot of times the woman is doing that,
because they want the guy to turn around and say, you know what, I do like you, I want to be with
you. It's almost like a fantasy of a woman to turn around a bad boy, or some guy who's not interested
in them in that way and then turn them into a guy who is someone who will commit to them. And then
you have your women who will be just wanting to enjoy a friends with benefits situation.
But here's the thing with the friends with benefits situation, from a woman's perspective.
There is always an expiration date. Even for a man too, but I feel like the expiration date happens
way sooner for a woman because she either ends up in another relationship herself or she ends
up falling for you, which then she ends up leaving that situation, or she ends up meeting somebody
else. These are the different situations that end up happening. But if we look at what's going on
today in our society, I do believe that women are more open to having some of these experiences. I
believe that we as a society are judging them less based on what they want in the bedroom and
women are exploring more of this side because it's not as frowned upon. Women are having more of that
power come back to them. This is an option. If that's something you're interested in,
understand that you can make that happen. I don't want you thinking, that's the point of this video,
thinking that women will not be interested in this. Women will be interested in this.
A lot of them won't, but some will. And you can create that kind of relationship. If you want
to know how you do that. It's very simple. If you want to create a friends with benefits situation,
all you have to do is not treat it like a romantic situation. I talk to my clients all
the time when they say like, how do I do this? I don't want to do anything serious with her. I say,
well then you don't treat it serious. What's the normal courtship process? Taking a girl out to a
nice dinner, doing a long walk somewhere, doing activities, lots of super get to know you deep
conversations, even though that's not as big of a deal. It's more of like the activities that
you do together that make a big difference. If we leave all of that out of the equation,
then you're creating more of a friends with benefits situation or a hook up situation.
You're not trying to court her in a way where, hey I want you to meet my friends and I want you
to meet my family and you're not telling her how much you like her and you're not inviting
her on dates. You're just inviting her over to hang out at your house. Here's the thing,
you can provide that as a situation for her. She may go for it or she may not. She may say oh no,
I'm not interested in that, I'd rather go on a date. And that means that woman that
you're dating or talking to or are interested in, is not interested in that. But if she
comes over and you're just inviting her over and everything is based on being physical with her,
then that is the way that you're creating that kind of relationship. Here's what you cannot do.
You cannot go backwards. This is where guys get messed up here. They go the backwards route and it
doesn't work. Rarely it does or you get a lot of drama along with it because you're basically just
completely manipulating the woman. And what I mean is, you're doing the reverse by you are taking her
on romantic dates, you're taking her out, you're doing stuff, you're having deep conversations.
Maybe you're waiting to make a move physically with her and then all of a sudden, by the third,
fourth, fifth date, that's when you start to make a move and then from there, you drop all
the romantic stuff. And it's like, oh wait, why did this guy want to date me in the first place?
I mean, you could go that route. I think it's the wrong way to do that. Also, you're going to
be leading her on. It's going to offer a lot of confusion. I think you need to do the opposite of
that. It's okay to go on a first date where you guys get a drink or maybe go out to dinner. But
after that, it should be more just hey, come back to my place, or hey what are you up to tonight?
Those text messages when you're out at the bar with your friends and you're texting the girl,
and you're like hey, what are you up to tonight, come over to my place. You're just filtering for
the women who are going to be interested in that or not. I don't think there's anything wrong
with that as long as you're upfront with your intentions from the very beginning. If you want
some easy text messages to send a girl to set up dates, such as the ones that we're talking about,
I want you to check out down below the 7 Deadly Text Messages that you can send a girl to set
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below. Hope that helps. Like this video if it helped you. I'll see you on the next video.