Gentlemen welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
I'm here today with Kaye and Larry to help you with another dating woe.
In today's episode, we're helping you sweep a girl off her feet and make her nuts about
you.
Today's episode is inspired by Apollonia Ponti's video,
where she also shared hacks to make a girl fall in love and get her addicted to you.
By the end of this video, we'll also reveal the number one thing you have to avoid
if you don't want to scare a girl off.
Ready?
Let's get started.
5.
Look The Part Whether you like it or not, people will judge
you based on your appearance, and in this case, if you want to make a girl
like you and get her addicted to you, you got to look good for her.
In fact, a study has found that in initial encounters,
people are strongly influenced by their partner's physical attractiveness.
In their experiment, social psychologist Elaine Walster and her colleagues
paired random college boys and girls with each other for a "computer dance."
After the partners had danced and talked for a couple of hours,
they were interviewed separately about their preferences and characteristics
and their perceptions of their date.
Walster and her colleagues found that the only important determinant of participants'
liking for their dates was their physical attractiveness.
None of the other characteristics— even the perceived intelligence of the partner—mattered.
People even judge your personality based on your appearance.
This is called the halo effect.
It's a psychological bias that describes people's tendency to associate good looks
with positive traits.
Before you figure out whether or not a girl wants you to talk to her, make sure she’d
like to speak to you first.
Here's a tip: dress like an alpha male.
Women love the look of power in a man.
If your wardrobe is more Forrest Gump than Top Gun, you need a style
upgrade.
Need a little help figuring out when to approach a girl?
Watch this video where we break down all the signs a girl wants you to talk to her.
4.
Find a Common Ground You may have heard of the phrase "opposites
attract" one too many times.
And while having some differences with the person you like keeps a relationship
interesting, having similar qualities with your partner comes a long way.
If you have been wondering how to get a girlfriend, aside from
looking good, another way to make a girl fall for you and make her nuts about you is sharing
common ground with her.
Do you want to know how that works?
Research across many cultures has found that people
tend to like and associate with others who share their age, education, race, religion,
level of intelligence, and socioeconomic status.
In fact, many different dimensions of similarity have been studied in both friendship
and romantic contexts.
Similarity effects tend to be strongest and most consistent for attitudes, values,
activity preferences, and attractiveness.
A girl would more likely want to hang out with you and be crazy for you if you like
the same genre of movie, listen to the same type of
music, or share the same kind of humor.
If you really think about it, sharing the same qualities with the girl you like, especially
those You consider important, also means crossing
fewer bridges.
You don't have to spend a lot of time learning and adjusting with each other
because it will already feel like you've known each other for so long.
Wondering how to get a girl?
Watch this video where we teach you how to flirt with a girl and make her crazy for you.
3.
Release The Oxytocin When it comes to making a girl fall in love
with you, trust that science always has a trick to help you out.
One way to make a girl chase you and get her addicted to you is by constantly
doing things that increase her oxytocin levels.
Oxytocin is also known as the love hormone.
It helps you bond with loved ones and plays a
significant role in social interactions and sexual reproduction.
Oxytocin triggers feelings of love, protection, empathy, and trust.
A 2012 study revealed that people in the early stages
of romantic attachment had higher levels of oxytocin, with the levels lasting for at least
Six months.
Likewise, the hormone is also stimulated during sexual activity and orgasms
. When dating, aside from knowing how to pick up signs a girl likes you or
how to pick up women, it's also important to learn how to keep their attention.
Here are some activities that will boost the love hormone in your relationship
and get her addicted to you: One, listen to music together.
According to marriage and family therapist Shadeen Francis,
partners that listen to music together likely experience that warm, fuzze feeling that
oxytocin creates as they bond over their shared taste in music.
Second, go on an adventure.
Doing something daring can make you and your partner closer.
According to Shadeen, moderately stressful activities done with another person
boost adrenaline levels and increase your oxytocin levels as your body works
to counteract the stress.
Third, surprise her with little gifts.
According to neuroscientist Leigh Winters, oxytocin is released whenever we feel
cherished, loved, or emotionally connected.
Giving little tokens of appreciation to the girl
you like can go a long way.
Lastly, practice mindful lovemaking.
Winters states, "By approaching sex from a mindful perspective
of union and bonding, oxytocin may skyrocket.
In fact, some recent research hypothesizes that increased oxytocin
may contribute to fidelity and relationship success."
Wondering how to approach girls and make them chase you?
Watch this video where we teach you how to talk to women and get girls to chase you.
We have two more tricks to get her addicted to you and make her nuts about you.
But before we continue with today's episode, I just want to remind you that by the end
of this video, we'll also reveal the number one
thing men do that scare any girl off.
If you want to know how to talk to your crush the right way and
what to do when a girl looks at you, keep watching.
2.
Be High Value Remember when I said women love the look of
power on men?
Well, that's another trick to get her addicted to you.
Do you want to know what's the best way to look powerful?
Work on being the best version of yourself.
That probably sounds cliche, but in real life, there is more to life than making a girl chase
you.
More than that, you’d want to attract a girl
that will be good for you in the long run, and high-value men attract high-value women.
When a high-value woman falls in love with you,
she would automatically be crazy for you because only a woman
who isn't in her right mind will let a top-quality guy slip away.
1.
Be Naughty and Nice Women love men who can be a safe haven and
an adventure in one.
If you want to make a girl fall in love with you and make her nuts about you, you have
to be the kind of man who gives her that warm
and fuzzy feeling and the kind that makes her
heart race.
Give her that warm and fuzzy feeling by doing nice things for her,
planning a romantic date for her, cooking her breakfast in bed, taking care of her when
she's sick, and surprising her with flowers.
Make her heart race by doing things that excite her,
such as star gazing, going on a hike, and going on a road trip together.
These actions Don’t have to be extravagant to have a lasting
effect.
Now that you know how to make a girl fall in love with you and get her addicted to you,
it's time we reveal the number one thing men do that scare off any girl because it’s
not Enough to know the signs a girl wants you
to approach her.
Knowing how to talk to girls the right way is important too.
Gentlemen, when making conversations with women, avoid being intrusive.
Men sometimes just don't know when to stop talking.
Paying her a compliment is okay, but no woman in her right mind will go out on
a date with a man who makes a nasty comment About her butt.
If you want to compliment her and make her smile, keep it sweet and
Respectful.
And avoid sexist comments like "that's pretty good for a woman""
or "you're not like other girls.
It's rude, unattractive, and insensitive.
Do you know any more tricks to make a girl fall in love with you and make her nuts about
you?
Go ahead and share your thoughts in the comments section below.
We hope you enjoy and learned something from today's episode.
Remember, if you want to get her addicted to you, take
these steps and boost her oxytocin.
But before you can do that, you need to approach her first.
Need a little help figuring out when to approach a girl?
Watch this video where we break down all the signs a girl wants you to talk to her.