Hello my wonderful friends! Today's video is on what women want in a man.
And guys the crazy effective truth is going to
shock you. No lie. So be honest with me for a second,
are you like a really awesome guy and you have a lot to offer, you're a
nice guy, you do good things, you just want to treat a woman right, and
maybe even people tell you you're really attractive,
but you either one, can't get a girlfriend
no matter how hard you try, or two, your relationships just never last, they
never go anywhere. If that sounds like you then the answers
you need are in this video. You are going to love it so pay close
attention and make sure you watch to the end.
If you've been watching my channel for a while you know one of the things that
sets me apart and sets my methods apart is that I
teach you how to have a crazy happy, crazy in love, long-term
relationship. There's plenty of advice out there about
how to have a one-night fling, that's not what I'm about. So if you're
looking for that special someone to have and to hold and to love and to
love you for your entire life then these are the things you need to
know. Now before we dive in if this is your first time
watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating
coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your
time and your money on dead-end relationships
by learning the skills you need to get the girl of your dreams. So make sure to
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big thumbs up. Let's talk about what women want in a man.
Pay very very close attention, I'm about to share with you a massive secret, the
secret that helps you know how to get a girl to
fall crazy in love with you. If you asked me to sum up what women
wanted a man I'd have to tell you that it's solid
dating and relationship skills. If you work on just this you are
going to be able to have the relationship and the girl of your dreams.
Now I'm going to be talking about some of those skills in just a minute but for
a quick second let's talk about why this is important. Why do women care about
solid dating and relationship skills? It's not because she's a jerk. And it's
not because she's being super picky. If you've been
watching my channel for a while you know I'm very
transparent about the fact that there are toxic women and I tell you to avoid
them. Maybe you've seen this video. If you
haven't there's a link in the description below.
But the reason she wants you to have solid dating and relationship skills
is that that's how you become attractive. That is how
you become good at relationships. That makes sense, right? It's very similar to
getting your dream job. If you want to have your dream job
but you don't have the skills for that job are you going to get hired?
No, you're not going to get hired. But when you have the skills
then you can have your dream job. Dating and relationships are the same way. When
you have those skills you can have that relationship. So there
are so many men who are amazing in so many areas of life. Like I
mentioned if you feel like "man, I'm such a good guy,
I have so much to offer, I have a good job,
I'm fun to be with, I try to be a good person," those are all
fabulous and amazing things and you should definitely keep doing that and
you should be proud of yourself for those accomplishments.
Realize though that dating and relationship skills are
a very very important thing to also have and that's what gets you
your dream girl and your dream relationship. Does this makes sense so far? So
give yourself credit for all the things you are doing right.
You are really polished in those areas and that's good.
Now it's just time to become polished in the dating and relationship
area. Now we're going to go over a few of those dating and relationship skills
that are game changers. This is what women want in
a man. If you want the fastest the easiest and
the best way to get your dream girl and your dream relationship
make sure you check out my free master class. This is where I share with you the
same five step strategy I teach my paid clients
to get their dream girl in my program. In that video you're going to get a
solid game plan and a sneak peek at my paid program if you would like to work
with me more closely to get the girl of your
dreams. So make sure you check out that free masterclass
through the link in the description below, I will also put a link in the
pinned comments. Seriously this is the way to fast track it to
success. So my first tip for you on what women want in a man, my
first dating and relationship skill, is confidence. Guys, confidence
is key. When you are confident you don't come across as needy, you don't come
across as creepy, or too aggressive. Confidence
is a very very balanced middle ground. Now confidence is also a trait that I
like to call attractive by default. As humans, there
are just certain things we are attracted to.
And confidence is one of them. When a man is confident
he's very masculine and very very attractive. Now here's
the important part, so pay very close attention.
You cannot force confidence. You cannot fake confidence. Confidence comes
by knowing what you're doing. When you don't know what you're doing
you can't be confident in it. It just doesn't work that way. Whenever you try
to do something new you don't feel super confident in it,
right? But the better you get at it the more confident you feel. That's just
how life works. So if you want to be a confident person
it's very important that you actually learn what you're doing.
This is how you become confident talking to her, flirting with her,
approaching her, all of those things. Bottom line confidence is not something
you can just force by mindset alone. It's
something you have to learn the skills for just like I mentioned. And
again my free masterclass is going to help you
so much with this so make sure you check it out through the link in the
description below. Now my next tip on what women want in a man
is assertiveness. An assertive man is masculine and he makes her feel
safe. I'm gonna be really honest with you guys, women love
nice guys. Women love good guys. If we are talking about the kind of woman
who's looking for a lifelong relationship. If we're talking about a
really good woman who just wants to love and be loved,
yeah, she's looking for a nice guy, she's looking for a good guy.
But here's the tricky part: If you are a good guy, if you are a nice guy,
but you're not assertive and you get walked on a lot,
that is not attractive. So it's very important that you are an assertive
person, that you do know how to set those appropriate boundaries. This is why it's
something I stress with my clients, guys. If you want to be respected, if you want
to be the attractive, nice guy you need to make sure that you are being
assertive. Make sure you also watch this video to learn more about why girls
like nice guys and how you can be the nice guy who gets
the girl. Because let's be real: There's a big difference between the nice guy who
gets the girl and the nice guy who doesn't. So you want
to make sure you're the nice guy who gets the girl.
Quick question before we move on: Are you enjoying this video would you like more
videos on what women really want and what women want in
a man? If you do be sure to comment "YES!" so I know to
make more videos just like this one. And I would love to hear which of these
tips surprised you the most. Make sure you comment and tell me about
it. Now our next tip on what women want in a man
is a good attitude. Guys, one of the biggest things
I see keep really awesome guys single is their attitude. I'm gonna let you in
on another secret guys: People like people who make them feel
good. It's as simple as that. And so someone
who is negative, someone who is angry at women, someone
who is bitter, someone who just kind of like pulls you
down, nobody wants to spend time with someone
like that. Period, end of discussion. Nobody wants to spend time with someone
like that. But when someone looks for solutions rather than problems,
when someone focuses on the bright side, when someone
is uplifting, we want to spend our time with them because they make us feel
amazing, they're very very attractive. And again if you're looking for a lifelong
relationship you need to be someone she wants to
spend her life with. And a positive attitude is a deal
breaker. So one of the main things women really want, one of the main things
she's looking for in a man, is someone who's fun to be with, someone
who's uplifting and positive and enjoyable. And now we are to our next
tip on what women want in a man. So you guys know
that I am a Christian, right? And most of my audience is Christian and so I teach
you obviously about what christian women are
looking for. This is very important so pay close
attention, okay? Christian women, she wants a religious
man. Obviously she wants someone who believes the same way she does
and who has the same priority she does. But
make sure you are not a religious snob, okay?
That is going to chase women away so fast.
If you care more about other people noticing you're religious
than you do about your relationship with God, or if you
come across as really judgmental and critical and like
you know so much about everything, that's going to scare girls away so fast.
Because the truth is guys that's not religious that's just being a
snob and using religion as an excuse. Make sure that you are not
using religion as a way to be super cool or as a way to be better than
someone else. That's not what religion is about. Religion is about your
relationship with God. So bottom line what women want in a man is a man who
has a very close relationship with God who loves Jesus but who doesn't use
religion as an excuse to be a snob. Now our next tip on what women
want in a man is a man who is supportive. What women
really want, women who are looking for a long-term relationship,
is someone she would enjoy being in a long-term relationship with.
That makes total sense, right? Someone who is supportive
makes us feel good so we want to spend time with them.
If you're planning on a long-term relationship you want someone who's
there for you. You want someone who encourages you and someone that you
can support and you can encourage as well.
And a man who's supportive, who supports her ambitions and her dreams,
that right there, that is a deal breaker, that makes women fall in love. If you
want women to like you then make her feel
good when she is around you. So when it comes to what
women want in a man the biggest thing you can do
to make sure you get your dream girl and your dream relationship is to have
dating and relationship skills. Solid skills. Some of the really
important skills you need are confidence, assertiveness, you also need to make sure
you have a positive attitude, you need to make sure you're not a
religious snob but that you have a very close relationship with God,
and you need to make sure you are a supportive person.
These things are deal breakers and when you have these traits you're very very
attractive to women. If you are tired of being a really amazing guy
but still not getting the girl or having your relationships
just being like dead end and painful make sure you
check out my free masterclass. Seriously I help men like you every single day.
So not only are you going to learn why you're not getting a girlfriend
you're also going to learn what to do instead and you'll get a sneak peek at
my paid program if you decide you would like to work
with me closer. This is the fastest, easiest, and best way to make sure you
get your dream girl and your dream relationship.
There's a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
Seriously check it out and I will see you over there. Thank you so much for
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