Hello, my wonderful friend!
Today's video is on best conversation starters.
This is what to say to a girl to attract her.
Have you ever been in that situation where you're with someone really cute and you have
no idea what to say?
This happens in person, this happens online or dating apps, or when you're texting her
and you just freeze up and you have no idea what to say.
It's painful, right?
Instead, you want to know how to just attract her and charm her.
This is where having a very effective conversation starter is so powerful and so helpful.
Today I will be sharing with you some of the best conversation starters.
And the one I'm sharing with you at the very end is one of the most powerful so make
sure you pay close attention to that one.
And again, these work in person, they work when you're texting or when you're doing online
dating/dating apps.
Now you will be able to relax, attract her, charm her, and have a lot of fun.
Before we dive in, if this your first time watching, my name is Melannie.
I'm a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams.
As a certified coach, I never teach you mind games, only science-based facts.
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Okay, you are chatting with this really gorgeous girl but you need to know what to say.
Because you don't want it to be awkward, you don't want it to be creepy.
You want it to be fun and relaxing and you want to really attract her, right?
Well what most people don't know is what you do before hand to make sure you're in the
right mindset is just as important as what to say.
So before I share with you these conversation starters let's talk about getting you in the
right mindset so that you can be successful when you use these conversation starters.
Sound good?
There is a saying, "If you are prepared, you will not fear."
And that's what this is all about.
You want to make sure you're in the right mindset.
Now something I teach my clients in my program is being afraid of rejection is normal, okay?
It just is.
You would not be human if you were not afraid of rejection at least at some point in your
life.
However, it's important that you do approach this with the right mindset so that you can
come across confident, so that you can be relaxed, so that she can be relaxed, and this
can be really really fun.
So make sure that long before you're in this situation you know how to handle that fear
of rejection and instead handle this like a boss.
Another thing you want is to make sure your mindset is confident.
If you are feeling super nervous or super needy or a little bit awkward that's going
to come through to her.
She's going to feel that way too and it's not going to go well.
That's not going to attract her.
So instead, you want to come from that confident mindset.
Now one way I teach my clients to do this is to dress to empower.
You've probably heard, "Dress to impress," or, "Dress for success."
My favorite thing is, "Dress to empower."
When you know you look hot, you feel hot, and
you know that she knows it as well.
This is even true if you're just texting her or chatting online.
Even though she can't necessarily see you in the moment it's going to effect how you
feel about yourself and that's going to effect how you chat with her.
So it's very important to make sure you're keeping up those habits that make you feel
confident.
For some other simple ways to be incredibly attractive and feel attractive and confident
make sure you watch this video and this video.
There are links in the description below.
And the last tip I'm going to mention to help you with that mindset is make sure your body
language is confident.
If you're trying to talk to her and your body language is really nervous it's going to make
her feel nervous and it's going to make you feel nervous and you don't deserve that.
If instead your body language is confident and masculine you are going to feel that way,
she is going to see you that way, and that is going to increase her attraction for you.
So does this make sense?
If you make sure you're in the right mindset, you have this game plan for how you will approach
it before you ever start talking to her, that is what sets you up for success so that when
you use these conversation starters it goes very very well.
Now that you understand the right mindset and kind of have a game plan for how to do
that, I have a surprise for you.
In my program my clients get access to a resource, 54 Best Conversation Starters.
But as a special surprise for you today, I'm going to share 7 of the best with you today.
That's pretty exciting, right?
So let's dive in with the first one.
The first is you can just ask her, "What gets you really excited and happy?"
This is a fabulous conversation starter because if you're talking about things that make her
excited and happy she's going to feel excited and happy.
Something I teach my clients, something I say here on YouTube all the time is that people
like people who make them feel good.
And so if she feels happy and excited when she's talking to you that is definitely going
to attract her to you.
Another one of the best conversation starters is, "What do you do when you have down time?"
This is really going to give you an insight into who she is as a person.
And if you're thinking about maybe asking her out it's really helpful to know who she
is and what she enjoys doing.
And again, because this is something that she enjoys she's going to enjoy talking to
you about it.
She's going to be more attracted to you and feel more relaxed.
Another one of the best conversation starters is, "Do you have pets?"
If you are a pet lover you know this, every pet owner, they like to talk about their pets.
And so this is definitely going to be something she's going to enjoy talking about.
Are you seeing how these conversation starters are so simple and so easy but they really
help her feel connected to you and relaxed, right?
They're fun and enjoyable.
Now something else you need to remember is just like we talked about a game plan to get
you in the right mindset so that these conversation starters work, you need a game plan for what
you're going to do next.
How are you going to move forward?
What is your goal?
Do you want to ask her out?
Do you want to chat with her more?
What is it that you're trying to accomplish?
Something I teach my clients in my program is to master small talk so that you can literally
come up with something to say no matter where you are or what you are doing and keep the
conversation going very very naturally.
That's a very very important part of your game plan.
Some other things I teach them is how to get her number and how to ask her out.
These things need to make up your game plan so that you don't just have a really nice
conversation, you instead attract her and are able to ask her out and pursue her in
the right way.
That is the kind of game plan you need.
To learn more about my program so that you can get access to all of this information
I share, make sure you watch my free masterclass.
There is a link is the description below.
You're going to learn about the same strategies I teach my paid clients in my program.
So if you want to attract her easily and have access to incredible resources do make sure
you watch that free masterclass.
Again, there is a link in the description below, I will also put a link in the pinned
comment.
Okay, another one of the best conversation starters is, "Are you currently working on
any fun projects?"
The word fun is really important in this sentence because it leaves it on a positive note.
Sometimes when we say, "Are you working on any projects?" it can be, "Oh yeah, I have
this project at work, and it's exhausting."
You don't want that.
You want to keep the conversation really light and fun so asking her if she's working on
any fun projects puts it off on a really good note.
This is another question that really helps you know who she is and what she enjoys doing.
Because she may tell you about a project at work, or she may tell you about a hobby or
something else she's doing which again helps you know, "Oh hey, this is the type of person
she is.
Would we be compatible?"
Another one of the best conversation starters is, "What do you wish you had more time for?"
This one is kind of a bonus because if you're thinking you want to ask her out and she tells
you something she enjoys doing, now you have a good idea of what you can do on a date.
So make sure you pay close attention to her response with this.
These are fun questions, right?
They're the types of questions anyone would like to answer and would really enjoy talking
to people about.
Speaking of which, I'm actually really curious.
I want to hear your answers.
What do you wish you had more time to do?
Tell me about it in the comments.
I would love to hear.
Also, while you're in the comments, I'm thinking about doing a video on what to say to women
with some specific examples of what women really want to hear from you, some specific
things that women love to hear.
If you are interested in a video like that let me know in the comments.
Just comment "talking" and I will know that that is what you mean and I'll be sure to
make that for you.
Your comments help me so much so thank you, thank you, for leaving them for me.
Okay, another one of the best conversation starters is, "What would you like to be famous
for?"
This one is going to give you some real insight into who she is as a person.
Plus, it's really just kind of a fun thing to think about, right?
"If I was famous, what would I want to be famous for?"
Okay, I'm about to share with you one of the most powerful conversation starters.
And it is, "What's your story?"
Something I teach my clients in my program is that if you want to be and enjoyable person
to talk to, talk in stories.
As humans, we are drawn to stories, stories are so fascinating to us.
And so if you can talk to people is stories they're going to enjoy spending time with
you.
The same is true with asking them about their story.
It makes them feel like you actually care about them, it makes them feel connected to
you.
Now if watched this video you learned that women pursue men.
It looks different than how men pursue women but they do pursue men.
And if she's interested in you one of the ways she will do that is by keeping the conversation
going, right?
And so she's going to love telling you her story and answering these questions for you
if she's interested in you because she wants to spend more time with you.
Just asking her, "What's your story?"
opens up a whole world of possible things you can talk about and extends the conversation
a long time.
Plus, it really impresses her because not very many people say that so it sounds confident,
it sounds classy, and it's very attractive to her.
And there you have it.
7 of the best conversation starters.
Guys, this is what to say to a girl to attract her.
These are powerful conversation starters.
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Thank you so again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] It's a
terrible situation when you're like- [pause] Wait, what?
[chuckle] Sorry, I got sidetracked.
It happens to me a lot.
[laughter] Okay.
The end.
[laughter] Yay!
I should have applause go off there.
That would be funny.
I really feel like I'm forgetting something.
I don't think I am but it feels like it.
Okay.