- If he's acting distant and you have no idea
what to do and why he's doing it,
about then this video is for you.
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So my ladies about further ado, let's start.
So first, what you need to do is figure out
why he is acting distant.
And there could be a number of reasons.
Once you understand the reason
this is when you can have a solution.
Once you know the problem, you know how to solve it.
So here are a list of five reasons
why he could be acting distant towards you.
Number one, he is in his man pull away.
Maybe you both had an amazing time together on the weekend
or you were both intimate, and when this happens,
it is very normal for a man to pull away from you
as his testosterone levels drop down.
And when it does happen,
a man will need his space to be with his guy friends
and enjoy himself without you.
When this happens, your goal is not to freak out,
trust him and wish him a good time.
As he faces when his testosterone levels will go back up.
And he's gonna be back to you in no time.
You want to find out why men pull away
and why men need to pull away,
please watch my video right here.
Number two, he is extremely busy
or has a lot of issues to deal with.
And when men feel they need to solve problems,
they need to remove themselves from their relationship
and from others.
Your job is to trust him that he's a big boy
and he can solve his problems by himself.
Do not go to him, do not offer help unless he asked you.
And if he hasn't communicated with you for a couple of days,
do not freak out, calm down.
It's all okay.
As soon as he will find the solution by himself,
because he can do it by himself,
and as a man he wants to do it by himself, right?
He will be back, so just leave him to it,
do your own thing and just stay patient.
Number three, you both had an argument,
the argument made you lose emotional control
and on top
of that you actually never even set any boundaries.
So after arguing is probably a little turned off by you,
because you might have vent a bit crazy,
or maybe you sounded needy, or attention seeking,
or controlling, or who knows.
Though it could be bad because of that,
he's a bit turned off and he's pulling away from you.
Or you might have put your foot down and set an a boundary.
And in this case, guys can pull away from you as well,
because we just kind of need time
to think about what just happened
and how he needs to approach the situation.
Sometimes guys pull away when you put in a boundary
in order to get you to freak out,
but he's pulling away, get you insecure
so you would start to chase him
and would take back your boundary.
If that is the case, stick to your guns.
If you know you did the right things,
setting in the boundary,
stick to that boundary
as this will make him respect and value you more.
And if he's taking his time to think
about it or pulling away, let him do that.
As same as you're being a mom
and you're trying to set in a boundary with your child.
So the reaction of the child might be to have a tantrum
and go to his room and scream his lungs out.
Let him do that, let him have a tantrum, let him calm down.
And when he's calm and he sees that there is no reaction
over his tantrum, he is gonna come down
as there is no audience for his tantrum.
And when he will come to you again and accept the boundary.
Same as not just with guys, same as with everyone else also.
The key is, if he likes you, if he's into you,
the boundary will just make him respect you more
and you have nothing to worry about.
If however, his goal is just to kind of walk all over you
and take advantage of you,
then you're setting in a boundary,
he might disappear on you for good.
But then you will know that all he wanted to do
is just take advantage of you.
Number three, you got jealous and insecure.
You caught him speaking to a female coworker or a friend,
and you showed him your insecurities
by becoming very jealous over her.
Perhaps you even make him promise
that he will never speak to her anymore.
Ladies, if you do this,
he'll feel like you're trying to control him,
he'll look at you like you're a very insecure
and very likely he will pull away from you
to create space for him to think
over if you are the right woman for him
and if he should continue dating you.
And the way I would recommend you to look at the situation
is that the problem here lies within you.
And you must work on this because if you give him space
to think and come back,
he will most likely do that the first time
hoping that you will change.
So he might give you a second chance,
but if you do not change
and if you do not work on yourself
the second or the third time he may not come back.
So find fault within yourself,
take responsibility for your part in the relationship
instead of just blaming the guy.
Problem with blaming,
you cannot control other people, anyway.
You can only control yourself,
so why point fingers and tell them what to do?
Instead look down within yourself
and see what changes you can make for the better you,
then you will improve.
The first person that it will affect tremendously
in a good way will be you.
And the second is gonna be people around you,
which in turn will make them respect you more
because you will start to behave
as a more mature, valuable person.
Number five, he lost interest in you.
It is possible that after a couple of weeks,
he realized you both do not have anything in common,
and that is okay.
Let's see for him.
It is very important that he shares his life
with a woman who shares his interest.
And I'd like this for example.
At first, maybe he was very attracted to your looks
and perhaps kindness.
But now, the only thing you have in common
is that you both go to the gym regularly,
and that is where it ends.
After a while he sees that things are getting boring
because you have nothing to talk about.
A lot of coaches even argue
that compatibility is even more important
than sexual attraction.
I believe that there has to be a balance
and I believe that you can have both.
All you need to do is a bit of faith and patience.
It also could have lost with too, with the obvious one.
Maybe you slept with him too soon.
And why guys lose interest in women
when they sleep with them too soon,
I have an incredible video where Dr. John Gray explains
really well, why men lose interest in women
by having sex with them too soon.
And you can find that video
just by following the link right here.
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