What's going on man? Tripp here from Tripp Advice. I wanted to make a video for you. This specific
video is based off of something that I was talking about on a recent video. I recently did a video
that was called "Don't Date Single Moms". And I go into why that is and that's one of the women that
I believe are a waste of time to date. I'll talk a little bit about it here. If you want to get that
longer video, I posted it a couple videos ago. You can check it out. But that sparked this idea
to make a video for you to tell you about some of the women that I believe are a waste of time
that you should not be dating. Basically, this is almost like a red flag situation.
This video is like aka, women that have red flags. These are women that you don't
want to be dating. A lot of guys overlook some of these things. They don't think it's
that big of a deal. These are not going to be necessarily some obvious ones. But ones that are
very important that I want to share with you. This can help you in terms of finding a great
woman that you want to date and eventually be in a relationship with. So let's go into
those. Alright, first one, single moms. Why is a single mom a waste of time? Because basically,
you guys are in two completely different areas of your life. She's raising the child and you
are not. However, if you're watching this and you are raising a child, as I say in the other video,
that's the exception because you guys have similar lifestyles so it makes sense for you to to date.
Otherwise, if you're watching this and I know that a majority of guys watching this don't
have kids. Do not date a single mom, waste of time, it's going to be hard to see them,
hard to hang out with them. And you guys, maybe you're infatuated right now because it's hot,
like milf, Mom, whatever. But that is going to go away fast when you realize that this is
a woman who her priority is her child, not you. And you want someone to have more of a priority
that is you when dating you. Okay, so that's number one. In no specific order, number two;
women that treat other people like crap. I've always said this to myself. Something personal
for me is I've always said I want to date a sweet girl. That's the only thing that ever
would come to mind. Like, you know what, I want to date a sweet girl. Make sure that I'm dating
a sweet girl. What does that even mean a sweet girl? What I always
realize is that I want to date a girl who is (my girlfriend's calling me right now)
is someone who treats other people well, treats other people kind. Isn't too overly sarcastic
or rude or trying to make you feel less than. I know that might sound obvious.
But this is something that's really important. Because if you meet a woman who's like that,
she is always going to be like that. And I would hope you wouldn't want to be with someone who's
going to be treating you or other people like crap. This is where it gets tricky. She might
not see that in the very beginning. She might not see that in the very beginning. Or you and I
see might not see that in the very beginning. You might not see her treat you bad in the beginning,
but you can look out and see if she's treating other people bad. Is she treating
servers, waitstaff or Uber drivers or anyone around you kind of rude or crappy. Big red flag.
If you see that don't want to be with that woman. Big waste of time. All right, another one here (I
have a list, that's why I'm looking over here) is a jealous woman. If you meet a girl... and
I was just getting off the phone with a client earlier, because we're going over all the women
he's dating. And he said yeah, one of these girls is kind of needy. And this is true story. He said,
she was already asking me why I'm so busy and if I'm dating other women and they've only been on
a handful of dates. I think like one or two dates. Could you imagine one or two dates with a girl and
she's already asking if you're dating other people and getting frustrated that you can't hang out?
Needy, jealous, this is terrible. Extremely, extremely unattractive.
You do not want to be dating anyone who's going to show signs of jealousy
that early because if that's happening that early, you are in for a big whirlwind of trouble
down the line when you guys are getting more serious and she becomes more invested in you.
The more invested you become with someone, the more sensitive you become to things like that.
So if she's already sensitive to jealousy, you're screwed. Next is any woman older or younger than
you by seven years. This is for people if you're looking for a relationship. Obviously, if you're
looking to just hook up, it doesn't really matter. And I talked about this in my single mom video.
The whole idea that if a woman is more than seven years older than you or younger than you,
we're talking about a generation gap. You're in a different generation at that point.
And you two are in two different places of your lives. Again this is for people who are looking
for a relationship. This is a waste of time for you. It is hard to connect with that person. You
might be infatuated at first by their looks if they're younger or by their looks if they're
older because you're into the milf cougar thing or whatever. And it's fun at first but down the line,
you are going to find (and I'm just going to kind of blow the surprise for you here) you two are not
going to connect as easy as you think. It is so much better, more rewarding for you and fulfilling
for you if you're going to be in a relationship with someone who is in the range of seven years
younger or older. If they are seven years older than you or seven years younger than you or more,
you're going to find that it's harder to connect. So that's one of them. Another one is a woman who
doesn't match your political or religious beliefs. This is a big one. If you are dating a woman and
by the way, this is even if you are not political or not religious. If you find someone who is
into politics or religion and you're not, big gap. And the reason why I'm making this video
is because I know guys get so infatuated with looks that they don't look at this stuff. And
they make excuses. Well, no, maybe it can work out. Trust me, it's not gonna work out. Again,
for relationship purposes. If you meet someone who doesn't have, it doesn't have to be your
exact religious or political beliefs, but is on a far other end of the spectrum than where you are,
eventually you guys are going to go head to head and it's not going to work. Your value
system is going to completely be off and you're going to find yourself in trouble here. I don't
think I'm going to go deeper into that. I think that makes sense. It's a waste of time, make sure
you're finding that out fairly fast. Women who are unorganized. I remember once I dated a girl
and went over to her place and this was maybe on date four or five. And her room was
an absolute disaster. And I'm not being picky here like oh, there was a shirt on the floor.
I'm talking wine stains everywhere, her bed still wasn't even put together because but she moved in
like three months prior. But she still didn't put her bed together, her mattresses was on the floor,
her the sheets were off the mattress, she had piles of clothes, makeup everywhere. Disgusting.
I should have known, I dated her a little bit longer than I should have. But I should have known
big red flag. If she's messy there. She's absolutely messy in other areas of her life.
You don't want to meet someone or date someone who is unorganized, has their life
a mess because that means that there's drama in their life. And I've seen that over time as
I went back in my head and figured out all the other women I either was friends with or dated
who also had messy parts of like their car was a mess or their room was a mess. They had a lot of
drama in their lives. They were not punctual. They had drama follow them around. Big no, no.
If you end up seeing a woman and something is off or she seems really unorganized, it means
that drama is probably following her. I can almost guarantee it. The next one is a woman who does not
know how to cook. You don't want that. The reason why you don't want that... and by the way, this
is for everyone too. Guys should know how to do that. Absolutely a guy should know how to do that.
Women should know how to do that. It's like an absolute essential skill. And if you find someone
who, and I'm not talking like they don't have to be cooking gourmet meals. But if they
have no idea what they're doing in the kitchen, if they can't even use a knife properly and have
no idea what they're doing, that's not good. You want someone to be able to do those things with.
If you're going the distance with someone, that's gonna be a big part of your life that you don't
realize. You're not thinking about that now, because you're just dating them. But if you're
going to be in a long-term relationship with them, if something's going to go the distance,
you guys are gonna be doing that together. If you end up having kids, that's gonna be
something that either she's going to be doing a lot of or whatever, you end up sharing it,
whatever it is. That is an essential skill. If they've no idea what they're doing there,
red flag. And people might be saying like well, maybe she'll learn to do that or she'll
get into it. Maybe if she hasn't now what's taking so long? I guess exceptions would be
if you're watching this and you're 18 years old or you're finding someone who's 18. But this is
more of a tip for people in their mid 20's and later so make sure you keep that in mind. Let me
know what you think. Write a comment down below. Which one of these have you experienced before
and have seen in a woman? Let's hear that and I'll be in the comments as well. Don't forget,
if you want to check out my Hooked program that's available to you so you know how to attract women
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The link is in the description. Hope that helps. I'll see in the comments.