how to escape mediocrity and achieve your potential stay tuned hey this is
Damon Cart from NLP gym bringing you cutting-edge neural linguistic
programming tools and techniques to help you create the life that you desire so
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can get these videos on a regular basis this is the second video in a three-part
video series so if you haven't seen the first video you can check that out by
clicking the card here and then later at the end of this video at the end screen
you can click the third video to watch the third and final video if you feel
like you're in a plateau in your life and if you stay at this plateau that
you're going to be mediocre or your life is going to be mediocre or you're
drowning and mediocrity I know the feeling it doesn't feel good at all so
if you're feeling like that then what do you need to do you've got to get
unbalanced your life when you're in when you're stuck when you're caught in
something it you've created a certain kind of balance that is keeping that in
place it may be a balance that you don't like but if you noticed
anytime you try to change something it seems to snap you right back you you go
right back into the same patterns you you feel like you're just stuck in sort
of like this cosmos of like this is how things or have to be and they're just
stuck well that has to do with the balance you've created and mainly that
you've created it unconsciously these are your routines these are your
patterns these are your programs but the good news is is you can change them and
it will take a little bit of getting uncomfortable it'll take a little bit of
on balancing so how are you going to do this how are you going to unbalance your
life to rebalance at a higher level or rebalance in a way that is not
mediocrity that is advancing your life is creating helping you create the
lasting change that you want and also helping you create the life that you
want get unsatisfied what do I mean by that okay well if
you're in mediocrity if you're at a plateau you are not really satisfied
however chances are you're distracting yourself from that feeling of not being
satisfied one way we do this is with excuses now remember this is the second
video the second part - a three-part video series and if you saw the first
video I talked about excuses and how to stop making them there are other ways
besides excuses that we use to distract ourselves from our dissatisfaction we
can use entertainment we can use drugs we can use alcohol we could even use sex
so we could use any distraction that anybody uses playing video games
television you name it to distract us from not feeling totally satisfied why
do we do that why do we do that instead of actually taking action a lot of times
we feel helpless so instead of feeling helpless allow
yourself to feel that lack of satisfaction it's not going to feel good
but this is only a temporary State this is the place where you need to go first
to break you out of this so instead of moving away from the dissatisfaction
with distraction you're gonna move right into it step into it
accept it only know that you're not satisfied with the way that you're
living right now you're not satisfied with your life and you're not satisfied
with the way that you feel because you know you can do better and you're going
to do better so let's recap in the first video you learned so stop making excuses
so that was one of probably your major distraction from getting what you want
stop making excuses now you clear out all the other distractions
and you allow yourself to feel that lack of satisfaction the thing that you've
been running from unconsciously all this time so you allow that to happen and one
of the reasons why you've been running from it is because it can be a feeling
of helplessness I'm undecided with life and I feel helpless to do anything about
it we'll stop that right there you're not helpless but allow yourself to feel
that lack of satisfaction because that's going to push you to make a decision
it's going to is going to drive you to change
something to take action so now's the time once you do that to ask yourself
honestly what is it that you want get very clear about this now for some of
you this is going this might come right out it might come raging out of you
you'll know it right away it's like you know it clearly oh I know what I want
I'm gonna go after it for some of you this could take a little bit of time
this could take a little bit of soul-searching and I often talk about
value solicitation it's the best way to go about this to get very clear about
what you want and basically what you do is you start with something some people
say well I don't know what I want mmm I don't believe that say anything
like I want ice cream whatever it is and start there and then ask yourself well
what's important about that and what will that do for you and keep chunking
up and up until you get to your core values and this will reveal to you all
that motivates you your highest values or what or well as what is motivating
you is what's motivating every decision that you make when you become clear
about this it becomes like a road map and and headlights and everything to
shine the way the path your individual path to getting what it is that you want
so what do you do once you stop making excuses and you've cleared out all the
distractions you got in touch with your lack of satisfaction with your life and
now you know at least someone clearly what it is you want what do you do then
I will expand on that on the third and final video in this series and at the
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