- This video is meant to save you a lot of time and energy
that you may have been spending
if you didn't watch this video
over the next months, years, and decades of your life.
If you watch those videos also,
of the people on their deathbed
that are like 90 or 100 years old,
that are talking about their regrets,
they're talking about what they wish they did differently,
then you'll know that a lot of this has to do
with how we're showing up in our life right now.
And in this video,
I'm gonna show you exactly what you need to know,
how you can really tap into who you came here to be,
how you can learn what you need to learn
so that you don't have to keep repeating the same cycles
over and over and over again.
Now, one of the first things I've learned about myself
in this process is that my ego, this is...
I wanna share with you a little bit about my journey
of being who I was before I started on YouTube.
What I've learned since then,
and then also even though I may have gotten success
and gotten a lot of the things that I intended for,
how empty some of it can feel
and how I've completely transformed my life
with a couple simple realizations.
Now, one of the first things you'll notice
that a lot of people say on their deathbeds is
that they have a lot of regret.
They have a lot of regret.
They wish they would've done
something a little bit different.
I remember watching this one movie,
I think it's called "Becoming Bond."
And it was the true story of this one guy that was an actor
that was James Bond for only one or two movies.
I think one movie.
And he has a fascinating life story.
It's this Australian guy that became bond
back in the '70s, or the '80s.
And then he ended up completely self sabotaging himself
and not wanting to be bond at all.
And he lived this really crazy life for a while.
He was like this model guy
that was traveling around in Europe.
And he was sleeping with all these chicks
and doing this cool rockstar lifestyle.
But there was this one moment where...
The thing that got him out to go to Europe was,
in Australia there was this girl that he was dating,
this rich girl that was the prime minister's daughter.
And he was in love with her.
And they end up moving, and he follows her to Europe.
She rejects him 'cause she has a new boyfriend
and stuff like that.
Because when she went to Europe,
she eventually fell in love with somebody else or something.
But eventually what happened though
is they fell in love again.
And then they were together and they were living together
and everything was great.
But then he got more and more modeling gigs
and he went to this one other place
and he ended up cheating on her.
And when he cheated on her,
she then immediately knew somehow and they broke up,
and it was this devastating thing where he realized
that he really screwed up.
And then eventually also what happened
is they got back together one more time.
But then he had this opportunity
to choose between her and going on this other modeling gig.
And he chose the modeling gig
and that's when she left for good, she had enough.
And he was like 80 years old,
and he's like talking to the camera
while there's like this story that's getting played.
And he goes into this energy where he's like,
my life would've been very different
if I would've came home that day
and stayed home with her that day.
And you could just feel it so deeply
because you can tell that that was something in his life.
One choice that if he would've made differently
would've completely changed the trajectory of his life.
And in a similar way,
I think that the regrets we have are many times
around the things that we choose
that may be more fleeting and shallow
versus the things that are more deep and have depth.
And I can tell in my own life now
that I go through these phases
where I'm focused on business, I'm focused on growth.
I'm focused on the YouTube channel.
I'm focused on these things.
And even though it's part of my purpose,
it's part of my passion,
there's an element that I can feel,
that at the end of my life,
I'm not gonna be laying there on my deathbed thinking,
"Wow, I wish I would've made one more video a week. (laughs)
"Wow, I wish I would've done this other speaking event.
"I wish I would've gone out and done things like..."
(indistinct) at a certain level
you might wanna be more adventurous,
and go skydiving and stuff like that.
But, in general, it's your relationships.
I believe that we're gonna really focus the most on,
is how did we impact the people in our lives?
How did we make people feel?
That's one of the things I think we will focus the most on.
And we know that,
or at least what near death experiences show us.
And I've had an NDE before,
where I literally felt and had a life review.
That was 'cause I did DMT though,
not 'cause I actually died.
Well, I don't know, maybe.
Maybe my ego died, but that was like back in 2011.
And I literally had this experience of every single...
The best way I can explain this
is when I did this Dimethyltryptamine is what it's called.
There's documentaries made about it,
called "DMT: A Spirit Molecule."
It's also what's in Ayahuasca, and other plant medicines
but there was this crumpled up piece of paper
that would uncrumple.
I would see and feel
what I made somebody feel in my life, in a specific scene.
And then once I felt it and got the point
it would crumple back up and then crumple back out again
so that I could see another scene.
And I must have gone through that like hundreds of times.
And I could feel what I made other people feel.
And there were times I made other...
Ex-girlfriends feel a certain way.
There were times I could feel
the way I made people in my family feel.
And it was a way of clearing that energy.
But I can say that from experience at the end of our life,
we will feel what we've made other people feel.
And the interesting thing about that is
one thing we can ask ourselves in our own life is
are we putting out good into the world?
Are we loving the people in our lives?
Are we not taking them for granted?
Are we living with this understanding
of what we put out is what we get back?
So in my own life, something that I really focus on
is I focus on putting out that good energy.
And also even in my relationships
like how can I appreciate someone more?
How can I not take them for granted?
How can I...
I get kind of stuck sometimes in my own business
and what I'm doing and I forget to reach out to family
and stuff like that.
And there's this understanding that if I keep doing that
I'm gonna really regret it at some point.
So I think something to remember,
is to remind yourself, how did you make other people feel?
Did you make them feel seen, heard, and appreciated?
Because that is what you're gonna feel at a certain level,
and you're either NDE, near death experiences,
doing plant medicine or even just at the end of our life,
when we release that DMT and have that.
So the thing that I've learned the most
and that I always try to bring myself back to,
is this also understanding...
It's gonna get a little bit deep here for a second.
But that's meditating, that one day we are all gonna die.
Like we're here right now.
And there's like this,
almost this belief that we're always gonna be here.
And yes, in a way we are eternal spiritual beings
living temporary human experiences.
But in this life, in this moment right now,
like one day, and it's gonna go by somewhat fast.
That's the scary thing, is time goes by fast.
I know when we do these plant medicine ceremonies
in Costa Rica.
We have this all day transformational experience.
That's from like 8 in the morning on a Saturday
till like 10 at night, it's called Wachuma
it's a cactus medicine,
but it's like a heart opening thing.
And when the guy that does it, Wachumero,
at the very beginning, he says, "We're here right now
"but it's gonna feel like a blink of an eye,
"and we're gonna be back here in about 12 hours
"closing out the ceremony."
And it is insane.
How on one hand time feels like it's not going by crazy fast
but like you blink and you're there at the end of the day.
And in a way I feel like that's what's happening with life
is every year goes by so fast
like meditating on the idea that one day
we're not gonna be here anymore
helps us to live more in the present moment right now.
Anthony de Mello has a book
where he talks about meditating on death
can be a healthy practice.
Meditating just on knowing that one day we're gonna die,
will help us live more
and appreciate more of our life right now
because we did choose to be here.
Dolores Cannon talks a lot about that in her books.
I mean, she actually doesn't talk about it that much at all,
the people that come through in her books,
their transcripts of hypnotherapy sessions
of thousands of people from all over the world
in this deep level of trance that have said,
we choose to be here.
We wanted so badly to come, and to taste the food,
and to be in nature, and to be with mother earth.
We wanted to be here so bad,
but we forget that when we're here
and then we wanna get up there,
we wanna go back to source energy.
But if we knew how bad we wanted to be here
we wouldn't be trying to get there so damn bad.
So one of the things
that I really wanna share with this process is
it's gonna go by fast.
Time is gonna continue to fly by.
And as the planet continues to ascend
into a higher level of consciousness,
it's like times going by even quicker.
So appreciate life now
and realize that you might keep telling yourself a story,
"Oh I have so much time to tell this person I love them.
"I have so much time to go after my passion.
"I have so much time..."
But that story just keeps the time going.
Instead of focusing on the future or the past,
focus on being here now,
and as you do that,
as you bring the energy more into the present moment,
you will notice more opportunities in your life.
You'll notice that things happen more magically.
So this is something
that's completely transformed my own life,
is focusing more on my relationships
and also understanding that the things I think
are gonna bring me a lot of happiness,
like the dopamine of growing a business,
making a lot of money and all of these things.
In a certain way, it can be somewhat healthy
if maybe we'll work in a nine to five job that we hate.
And we're putting going after our passion
on the back burner,
it can be healthy to have something to goal yourself at.
However, what I've learned is
now that I've gotten to a place to where I do what I love,
I have the freedom I want and the abundance,
there's times I realize that I'm chasing the wrong carrot.
I'm chasing the money, or the notoriety,
or like the significance.
And I just know that's so fickle and it's not fulfilling.
And instead what I'm noticing also
as a pattern in the collective consciousness,
people that are more so focusing on doing what they love...
I watched this video just yesterday from "Yes Theory."
And this guy...
One of the main guys moved to Paris
because he realized that he'd lost his passion
for a lot of the the video making process
that they were doing before.
And kind of being in this little box
of trying to get videos to do well on the YouTube algorithm.
And now he's trying to more so find himself again.
He's had like a mini identity crisis,
and that can happen when we start chasing the wrong carrot.
Instead of chasing carrots,
we can realize we are the carrot.
The experience itself,
is what's meant to be enjoyed.
The journey is meant to be enjoyed.
And also another aspect of this
that will really help too with life is
the seriousness we give life is sometimes comical.
I gotta get this, I need this to happen a certain way.
And this control creates so much resistance.
But one of the things to realize is that
this is a temporary human experience.
And that it's like a game, it's meant to be fun.
We're meant to enjoy it.
And the more that we enjoy life, that is the point.
The point is the process.
The process is the point.
Not the end result.
So if we're chasing money,
sometimes we might be chasing money because we think that
that's gonna fill up some emptiness
that we feel from our childhood.
If we're chasing sex or validation
it's because we're trying to fill up the emptiness
that we may feel from our childhood.
But instead, if we're focused on really unleashing
the most authentic version of ourselves,
that may mean more money, that may mean love,
but being it from the inside out,
that's what really changes everything.
So remember, one day, this isn't gonna be here anymore.
One day, we're gonna be in a different state.
We're not gonna be in these bodies anymore.
So we might as well enjoy what we have now.
We might as well focus on being present to the moment
and becoming as most aware as we can
of the unconscious patterns
that are keeping us chasing the wrong carrots,
and enjoying the process that is here now,
enjoying the relationships that we have here now,
and focusing on the relationships we have,
and maybe expressing...
If it was one thing you get outta this video,
can you text or call one person in your life
that maybe you kind of fell outta contact with
that you deeply love.
Just call 'em and tell 'em you love them,
or you appreciate them.
And just let them know that.
And then comment below what happens when you do that?
I do these at the life events that I run by the way.
And we have vulnerability challenges
where people get vulnerable.
And sometimes there's one person you don't want to call.
And if you were to call that one person and just tell 'em
that you appreciate them, you don't want anything from them
but you just wanted to express this to them.
You'll find that it can heal relationships.
You can gain a friendship back,
or you could just heal the energy
that maybe has been there for so long
keeping that energy in place.
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So realize all of these different things
and it'll completely transform your life.
Now, if you have any question for me or a scenario
that you want me to make a YouTube video about,
can you text me at 4243040104.
I'll go ahead and link it below, but text me your question.
And I will be responding to those questions
plus making YouTube videos about them.
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