congratulations you're now in a committed relationship so why are you watching my video
I'm gonna guess you're either in a committed relationship and things are not going so great
anymore or a man have decided to claim you after all of two days this happens a lot too
men are quick to commit so if you find yourself in a committed relationship or before you get
into a committed relationship watch this video I'm going to teach you about the terms and conditions
so hi ladies congratulations if you're in a committed relationship or maybe if you're starting
to feel like maybe I got committed way too quickly to this man it was only two or three dates and he
just asked me to be his girlfriend we both took down our match profiles or our tinder profiles
and now he's not coming around as much I'm not so sure if I made the right decision becoming
exclusive with this man so I want to recap real quick how I believe exclusivity should unfold I
would encourage you to have five men in your life that you're dating I explained this in other video
so I don't want to make this video too long and go into that but I talked about the five men you date
there's always a top man that you really like you want to be with and then there's a second
runner-up usually one of these guys tells you I want to see you only you take down your profile I
don't want you dating any other man or he doesn't even ask and you just say I'm in love with this
guy I'm taking down my profile or he comes to you and he says baby you mean the world of me I took
down my profile you're the only girl I want to be with so however it happened or evolved you're now
here but how would rather it happen is that you date a man for about three months yes you date
him you can sleep with him if you want to that's your choice I have an e-book on that called sex
sex sex in one of my libraries with my programs but you just date the guy for three months you
see is he showing up is he on time is he keeping me as a secret or am i meeting his family are we
feeling more close now or am i beginning to feel some distance you give him three months to just
date him so quickly men want to come into the relationship and claim you immediately don't
do it tell the guy I really want to take my time with us this feels amazing but I really want to
take my time and I'm not sure he knows what is there to not be sure up if you're not sure of
me yeah I'm out the door oh my goodness I feel so sad if that's true I don't know I want to be
a wife one day I just want to take time if he can't respect you taking your time now it's not
gonna happen later so do not be afraid to tell a man I just want to take my time I want to go
slow I want to see where this goes so from the start date a man once or twice a week don't let
him see you every single day and the week ends and you take a trip after knowing each other
for just two weeks go for the slow burn let it unfold slowly because otherwise the man gets
a big dose of you and he's like oh it feels so good but then it goes away and it's gonna a band
flow anyway that's how relationships work but I want you to have that three months where it just
unfolds segment by segment datum once or twice a week pace yourself guys are gonna want to come
in and just sweep you off your feet and do it all in a hurry and let him know I'm an old-fashioned
girl I just want to take things slow that's how you feel because you've rushed into things before
and you know where that leads you so moving on to the next topic those of you who are already in
a committed relationship and the man has already claimed you as his and now you're sitting out home
alone on the weekends what has happened you're no longer dating anymore I'm gonna discuss the terms
and conditions the terms and conditions are what you want to have a discussion with your man about
before you get committed so let's say you've gone through the three month mark he's showing
up he's still there he's a stellar guy he says I want to be with you and only you oh my goodness
I'm so excited sure I want to be a wife one day I don't want to be a girlfriend but sure I want to
see where this goes you mark on your calendar three months from that date after you've been
dating so you'll be six months together total but I want you to give him three months of exclusivity
just to see where he takes things after that three month mark you can then go in and ask him the past
few months have felt amazing where do you see us going because you're gonna find out is this
man really serious about you or is he enjoying just having you as a compare in his life for an
unknown amount of time before you get committed go over the terms and conditions those are how
often will would be seeing one another who's gonna pay for dates if that's a question you want to ask
are we going to take trips together how often will we take trips together will we meet each other's
family and whatever else is important to you in the terms and conditions that's for you to as a
couple to work out what's important for you so if you are forsaking all other men you're giving up
all of the men to be with just this guy what does that mean how often do I date you how often do we
sleepover will we celebrate our birthdays together you want to have clarity on what commitment means
you don't want to just toss away your freedom and give it all to this one guy who shows up
and just says words to you in the early part of the relationship so to recap really quick
I would prefer if you date a man for three months without any commitment just date him take it slow
go for the slow burn when you go for the slow burn with a man he actually falls in love with
you I believe a lot more deeply because you're not giving it to him all at once he's getting it
in these steady little increments and he's just getting really addicted to you I believe see you
date him for three months he wants commitment yes I'll go with the commitment work out the terms and
conditions how often you see one another when what does this mean to be committed how often
will we have sleepovers things like this then you make sure you write on your calendar three months
from that committed date so you can check in ladies I have women contact me at least a couple
of times a week who say I have been dating a man for the last 15 years he keeps promising me to
marry him I still have the ring he gave me five years ago and nothing's happened don't let this
happen to you be a smart woman work out the terms and conditions and paste the relationship at your
pacing men will want to sweep you off your feet and it's gonna feel wonderful to get swept off
your feet but take it slow take it slow and see how that feels and see where the relationship
goes if all of this is a little overwhelming it's too much information I have a course called them
for dating them for dating and my ebook 500 ways to talk to a man between those two programs you
will get all of this information and a lot more so it will help you along in this process all
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