We just don't know if you would like the same things as us and.
Well, I really like dancing. Do you guys like dancing?
Oh my God, we love, we love dancing.
I have a disco ball at, Oh, actually.
We should meet up for a disco party later.
Hi everyone. Welcome to the Disney Princess Club. I'm Grace.
I'm Sage. And.
I'm Gabriela.
And today we've all been talking about a really important issue.
We just had a deal with bullying.
So I actually had a question about that. When people talk about bullying,
they usually talk about people calling them names or things like that,
but aren't there other ways to be bullied? Yeah,
actually there are a lot of different types of bullying that some people don't
even know about.
Making mean jokes on people to make them feel embarrassed or make them look bad.
There are also a lot of different kinds of bullying,
whether it's cyber bullying or verbal bullying or social bullying or physical or
physical bullying. There are so many different shapes and sizes of that.
An example of that is spreading information about others.
Whether or not it's true, it can really hurt them, and it's not okay.
To do that,
especially if one of your friends said something and it was important to
them that you didn't tell anybody else. Yeah,
it's important to keep it to yourself and not tell anyone else.
And sometimes we don't even know what we're doing is wrong.
And that's why it's really good to be understanding and apologetic when we
realized that something did hurt.
Someone. It's important not to bully me.
Hi.
Hi. Oh my gosh.
How are you?
Good. How are.
You? I'm good. Just got outta English class.
It was so fun. I just got outta history class.
Ooh, fancy. What happened there? Oh.
Well actually I heard that Esmaralda pass her
history test.
She failed it. Yeah. That's terrible.
I know, right?
She probably isn't that smart.
Maybe she just didn't study. What did you get on it?
A hundred leg always.
Me too.
I'm gonna go tell her.
Hi Marda. Hi. How are you? I'm.
Good. Listen, we kind of heard you failed your history test.
Oh, who told you guys that? Well, actually, somebody else told me.
Yeah. And I heard it from her, but I was kind of hearing it around a lot before.
Too. Well, we have to go. Our parents are getting us ice cream. Yeah.
Oh yeah. To celebrate our good grades.
Okay.
Okay. Bye guys.
That was really sad and.
It was hard to do that honestly,
even though we were pretending it didn't feel right.
If I was in as morale's position, I would feel really awkward.
Where did you hear that from? If I was my doll,
I'd probably go home and think about what I did a little,
cuz I would probably feel really bad if I was that doll.
I would go home and be like what I did and the next day I would come and
apologize.
We really never know if something's true or not.
And even if it is true and we know that it'll really hurt the person and it's
not okay to continue to be.
Spread.
Sometimes they don't even know what they're doing is harmful and you should go
up to them and say, Hey, this is hurting me.
And it can be really scary and it takes a lot of courage,
but once you get up there and do it, it feels really good after.
At the end of the day, the best solution is talking things out with each other.
It's important when you first find out to tell an adult.
But sometimes it can be hard what to do in that position and we're gonna try to
help out with.
That. Cause an adult can always help. You can talk to the person.
And they have some really great advice for you as well.
What would be the best Disney princesses for this.
Scenario? What would they do if they were in that situation? Yeah. Yeah.
I think a really good Disney princess that we should talk about is Meredith
because she's really good at speaking her truth and she's.
Really courageous.
She really is. And I think that if she heard a rumor about someone,
she wouldn't be shy to go up to them and say, Hey, that's not okay.
Bell. She doesn't judge a book by its cover.
She needs to get to know the person first before actually making any assumption.
Cause what you hear from other people might not always be true.
I know that if Bell was in the situation, we were just acting out,
she would not keep thinking about that person and defining them by the rumor.
How are you?
Good. How.
Are you? I just came outta English class. I'm feeling good.
History class.
Oh yeah. What's up?
I actually heard something. I heard that Erda pass her history test.
That's not okay. To be spreading around. That could really hurt her.
And it's not okay to spread things about others,
especially if you don't know if it's true. Good point.
Maybe I should go tell her that somebody's spreading rumors.
About her and apologize.
Yeah.
Hi.
Hi. How are you? I'm good. How are you? Good.
We just wanted to tell you that somebody's in spreading rumors about you failing
your history test. Yeah. I heard you guys talking about me and.
I'm really sorry.
Yeah. We know that wasn't the right thing to do.
And we wanted to know if there was anything we could do to.
Help. So history is not my best subject. It's really confusing to me.
I have a really hard time in math, but maybe we can help you study. Yeah.
Actually math is my favorite subject. I can help you study. Thank you. Maybe.
We should go get ice cream after school. Yeah.
That sounds like a great idea. Let's.
Go. That felt so much better than before.
We actually felt good about it this time.
I know. And it felt really nice to apologize and to really realize.
What you did was wrong and try to help her. Yeah.
What are some other ways of bullying that we don't normally talk about? Well,
for instance, there's leaving people out that doesn't make people feel good.
Because what if you're a new student and one of the kids are like, Oh,
I really don't wanna hang out with that new student.
And you're walking over and you're like, Hey, can I stay with you guys?
And she's like, No.
What would be the right thing to do if you did see that happening? Well,
you could invite the person over to sit with you guys,
maybe have a conversation,
get to know them to make sure that they don't feel excluded anymore.
And to the person who was excluding them before,
to really make sure they know that that's not something that's okay.
If I see somebody new and they're sitting all alone, I'm like,
You wanna come play with us? Because that's the right thing to do.
Just welcome everybody.
I cannot wait to see you after school today. Wait. Yeah.
Are you free for a sleepover?
Yeah. Oh my God. I'm free tonight.
Me too. What should.
Do? We can make dinner. Oh.
Hi. Hi.
Sleepover fun.
Oh, actually, we were talking about another night.
Yeah. Next week. Oh, do you guys wanna get some dinner later.
Then? I'm actually really tired.
Yeah. Tomorrow I have a big test, but we're in the same classes.
How would you have a test? I.
Don't have a test. It's like an after school thing. Yeah.
No. What's it called? Maybe I can come.
It's kind of just for us.
Yeah. Oh okay. Well, good luck on your test. Okay. Thank you.
Thank you. Okay, bye.
Should we invite her though, or.
No? I don't really like.
Her. Okay. That's fair enough. Yeah.
So I was wondering if you guys were the person who was like, No,
you can't sit with me. What would you guys feel? How would you reflect on that?
If you were the one being excluded? You would feel really bad.
So you should go up to them and say like, Hey, why am I being excluded?
What did I do? Make sure that there's a reason. Because if you never tell them,
you never know why they want to exclude you.
It really clears a lot of things up too.
If you just go up to them and they're like, Hey,
I noticed I wasn't invited or I wasn't able to sit with you guys today.
Is there a reason for that?
Did I do something wrong that I might want to apologize for?
Sometimes they're not going to give you a reason and they're gonna say,
You did nothing wrong. There's really no reason why I excluded you.
They're just being mean about it and doing it purposefully, and that's not okay.
Yeah. So at that point you have to tell them, That hurt my feelings.
Or her could tell an adult, somebody you can trust,
even if it was a kid and you just feel like, Oh, I can really trust that person.
And even if they're not gonna change anything,
even if they're still gonna exclude you,
and even if they're not gonna be so nice about it,
it's good that they know how you feel because maybe one day they'll change and.
Be like, Hey, I remember I hurt this person's feeling a long time ago.
Now it makes me feel really guilty. Hi guys.
I am so excited for our sleepover. And now I insane.
Did you wanna invite Summer.
Or no? She's kinda, I don't like her.
Okay. That's very Hi guys. Hi so much.
Nice summer. It kind of hurt my feelings when you guys were talking about me.
Oh, we're sorry. We didn't realize.
We're sorry. Yeah.
We just don't know if you would like the same things as us and.
Well, I really like dancing. Do you guys like dancing? Oh my.
God, we love dancing. Really?
I have a disco ball at night.
Oh, actually, yeah. We should meet up for a disco party later.
Yeah, if you guys want I'm brief tonight. You guys can come over at my house.
Yeah.
Sure. Bye. That went a lot better. Yeah.
I felt so much better. I'm.
So glad we did it both ways so that we could really see the improvement.
And I thought it was really fun when we all were like, Oh my gosh,
we all didn't know that we have dancing. So I.
Know.
Being nice to them and including them,
you could learn some really interesting things.
You really can.
That's why it's so important to just include others and really be open to new
people. And.
I didn't know there was so many different types of bullying.
Most of them can be handled by talking things out with each other.
And remember,
parents and adults are great people to get advice from on topics like.
This. And if we ever see being bullied or being mean to other people,
parents that we trust, or adults that we trust,
there are great people to talk to so that we can just tell them what's
happening. You never know why people are doing the things they're doing.
So it's important to always stay gracious, kind,
and understanding with everyone. Put yourself in their shoes.
And feel free to talk about this more with friends or family.
We can all look out for each other just like a Disney princess would.
Thanks for joining us. Until next time.
Bobby. Bye.